Thursday, November 28, 2013

Our New House!!



Two years ago this January we sold our house in Boston...
it's been since then that we've been believing for a house here in the desert.
We've been dreaming and praying and looking, but to no avail,
until November 1st. :)

That was the day Trav "found our house".
But let me back up.  

In August, we came to a pretty frustrating point in our house hunt.
It came after another long outing with our friend and realtor Stan...
hauling four kids around in and out of car seats to look at a LOT of houses.
NONE of them (again) suited what we were dreaming for.
It wasn't that we were finding all these houses we loved and just weren't 
getting the bid...we couldn't find what we liked in the area where we wanted
to be.  So we came home a little discouraged and I really began 
to wonder...does what we want even exist??

So--we went ahead and signed another year lease in the house we're currently in,
and re-upped in our hearts to believe God for the best for our family.

A few evenings later Trav was looking at houses on the computer and
found nothing.  He shut the computer and began to pray and ask God
what we were supposed to do in regards to finding a house for our family.
Up until this point, it really felt like we were just spinning our wheels...
and then God spoke.

Travis felt like God said, don't look at any more houses for 77 days.
Turning to Psalm 77, he felt as though every time we would be looking for a house to instead...PRAY.
To call out to the Lord, seek His face and believe for His favor.
So we didn't look online, didn't drive around and see what's for sale,
didn't go to open houses, we just prayed.

So random--77 days!  But we went for it.  What did we have to loose??

That took us to November 1st.  He had closed his computer that night in August 
at 10pm...so it was at 10pm on the 1st that he opened it again! 
(love the faithfulness of my husband to obey God completely!)

I was in the kitchen and he was sitting on our couch and I heard him say as he 
began to look...
"Well, I found our house...
but it's pending."

So we had been praying and believing for this:
a large plot of land (with a house on it!), close to where we are currently 
living, for cheap enough that we could redo it and make it what we wanted
for how we live life.  
It doesn't sound like this would have been so hard to find...HOWEVER, 
it was impossible up until this point.

I remember saying back to him, don't even show it to me...if it's already 
pending then it must not be for us. (oh, me of little faith!)

But Trav continued to investigate the property...
He was beginning to feel and sense something about this house but at the 
same time, knew it was too late.

But because Trav is the kind of person that likes to try and push even closed doors open,
he made a call on it and we went to see it 3 days later.

We didn't have much time that day because we were heading to soccer practice, but as we pulled up and began to walk around the land my eyes filled with tears...I sensed the presence of God and something began to resonate in my spirit.  We quickly toured the house and as we left I said kids, 
put your hand on this door and ask God for this house!  My heart was full of faith but really had no idea how this was going to work out!

The next day we asked the owner about submitting a back-up offer and he said that just that day he had thought it would be great to have an accepted backup offer. So he gave us a few stipulations such as a quick close and using his title company and signed our backup offer that day even though there had originally been 5 offers put on the house.  So we were technically in 2nd place for the house at this point.

In the meantime we started a campaign as a family to pray and believe for this house.
It was all we had been believing for and more.
A mile and a half from where we live now, lots of land for our kids, and for hosting,
a good size house for parties and lifegroup, etc...

So everyday the kids and I would drive around the neighborhood and pray--
there are a lot of animals around too so that made the praying that much more fun.
Horses, ponies, sheep, goats, chicken, and a bull!
As we would drive and pray tears would stream down my face.  I felt like this was it,
there wasn't a doubt in my mind that it was, but I had no idea how God was going to make it work.

We'd wait on the Lord each time and the kids would get words...
Ellie one time said, "God told me that this is our house."
Gracie too, heard God say..."You're going to be able to have lots and lots of kids over at this house"
And even sweet Emmy...one day we had driven and prayed for a little while and then we were on to another errand and I heard her say, "He said I would always be there!"
I asked her, "Who said you'd always be where??"
"God said I'd always be at that house!"

Such sweet words from my little ones.  At this point I knew that we had fully brought our kids into this process and there was a good chance they would be disappointed if a miracle didn't happen for us to get this house.  But I didn't care.  I'd rather pastor them through what happens when we don't get what we were expecting rather than keep them from seeing a mighty move of God!

So we saw the house first on a Monday, prayed Tues, Wed, Thurs...then Trav took the kids over there on Friday and felt like God said, get everyone out of the car, get on your knees in the front yard of the house and pray...I know, crazy (the house was vacant though).

They did, and then got back in the car.  Moments later Trav hears from the realtor...
the owner had called him and wants to know if we can close in two weeks.

Yes!!  We can!  And basically...the rest is history.  The current buyers had asked for a two week extension and the owner didn't want to give it to them...so they accepted our back up offer!
We had to go through a 3 day "cure" period for the other party to try and "cure" their problems,
and then it was ours!

We weren't exactly sure when that cure period ended so we kept praying...on Wednesday the 13th we were driving around the house and Gracie said, "God said he's going to give us this house today."
 Sure enough--that day we got the call and signed the papers.

Two weeks later--we closed.
As of yesterday, the house is ours.
Our dream...and then some.
The place we will more than likely live for year and years.

So crazy, that after near two years of looking, then taking ourselves off the market for 77 days and then 27 days later we have a house!  How good it is to trust God and not make things happen in your own strength.

Pecan trees!

A pool!

Orange trees!

I am blown away.  The turnover in this neighborhood is so low--houses rarely come up on the market here because people have lived there for years and years...but God made a way!

So once renovations are complete we will move from Alameda to Esquire.
 When we moved to Alameda I wrote this post.  Alameda means "a promenade through
the trees"...our promenade has been much longer than we ever expected but 
it has been well worth the wait!

I love walking with God.  He always has the best in mind for us.

So as I write this on Thanksgiving morning...
THANK YOU GOD FOR OUR NEW HOUSE!

Saturday, August 17, 2013

A Quick Family Vacation (from June!)

We have now taken two "family vacations" since we moved here...
one to Scottsdale, and the other,
to Scottsdale!

It's only about 20-25 minutes away but we don't really care--as long as we are
1) away
2) together.

The kids LOVE it...and Trav is always the best at coming up with fun things to do 
that the kids love and that make them feel so valuable and so part of family.

This time around it was a little harder to me to bite the bullet and go because I was 
so close to my due date and felt like I had a thousand things to do...
because I did/do have a thousand things to do!!

But at the end of the day I had to decide that time with my family was going to be way more 
valuable than a laundry room that was better organized and a finished baby room.

Good choice on my part...it was worth every minute of being together!
It was like a baby moon for our family...after all the traveling we've done
it was much needed family time!

We arrived at our condo/resort late Tuesday night after lifegroup
and after a breakfast of pancakes the next morning by daddy they hit the tennis courts!
(I had to stay behind and finish an online defensive driving course...yuck!)

The cool was one of the best I have ever seen.
It was huge, first of all, but one end had an area where even Emmy could stand up for
a good little ways, and then another end was a beach!
So fun!

Then after a morning of tennis and swimming we had hot dogs on the
grill by the pool.

Then it was off to a short rest and then we loaded up for a trip to 
"Big Surf" water park...where they have this great deal if you go there 
from 2:00-6:00.
The kids had a blast!

Life jackets for the wave pool...always a favorite.

The first time for the girls to go down the slide by themselves.

Emmy's first time to go down...with Daddy!
She LOVED it!



Then after a dinner of Mexican food we headed home!
These AZ babies were FREEZING in the restaurant and had to
put their hoodies up!

Day two involved more swimming in the morning,
then a trip to the Scottsdale Quarter where we had lunch (at TruFood...YUMMY)
and then shopped for baby brother a little bit.


After lunch and shopping it was time for the spa!
Emmy was resting but Trav helped me set up a really 
fun little surprise for the other two girls!

We did foot mande's, massages, buffing, filing, painting...
the works!

All in blue for baby brother!

Daddy was my assistant and he brought out chocolate,
fruit, and various beverages!

Ticklish much??



Nails were of course included in this spa package!


We then did a little more swimming, made quick quesadillas
and headed to putt putt and go karts!

Here was SG's first ever hole-in-one!

Then we had an ice cream treat and went to bed!
The kids got up and all swam one more time the next morning with Trav
while I went in for dr's appt...
vacation was over,
but memories were made and our family was closer.
So thankful for a husband who leads our family into what is best
and just not what seems urgent!

So much fun!  Love our family and any time we get to have together!

Thursday, July 25, 2013

We Have a New Niece!

Knightley Elizabeth could not have timed her arrival any more perfectly
(though her mom, who went a few days past her due date and labored
off and on for days may say otherwise!)...we were so thankful for when 
she was born because we got to see her just minutes after!

Such a sweet gift for us because there's no way we could have planned
it to work out any more perfectly.

As we pulled out of Waco after swimming lessons to start to head back home
to Tempe, we got the text that said, "she's pushing!".  So by the time we 
got to Dallas she was here!  And we got to see her shortly after.
What a precious gift...

Here is our beautiful new little niece and cousin!


A proud Daddy right there...you wouldn't know he hadn't slept
in a couple of nights!  Travis was thrilled to get to be there 
with his brother for this sweet moment.

Then she got passed down the line of cousins
(Abby and Bret were VERY laid back first time parents to let
a 5, 3, and 2 year old hold their newborn!)

Ellie, being so sweet and careful...as if she's done this a hundred times...

Emmy was very interested and very sweet...as long as it wasn't
Mommy holding the baby that is.  (not a good sign!)
 
All the Phillips grandkids.

Gracie's turn.

Sweet little momma.

And even Emmy got a little "assisted" turn!


A very proud Poppy!

This Mimi was very patient in waiting her turn to hold grand baby girl #4.
I think she would say it was the same as the first...never gets old! :)

I have no pics of the real hero--Knightley's momma!
And no pics of me holding her...but we can't wait to see her
and hold her again soon!!

Welcome to the world Knightley Elizabeth Phillips!

Tuesday, July 23, 2013

Phillips Family Reunion

Once we got to Waco Travis' parents came and picked up the kids for
"Beach Camp" at Mimi and Poppy's for the week while Trav and I taught 
swim lessons.  They had such a blast...

Mimi and Poppy's handiwork!
They totally transformed their backyard into a beach...
complete with sand and water!

They also took a trip to Rockport one day to see and play at the "real" beach!

So I don't think they missed us too much...no time!

And since Trav and I were teaching 12 hr days it worked out much better for them
to be at Mimi and Poppy's!
I know it was a ton of work for them but we were so blessed and it was such sweet time
for the kids to get with them so THANK YOU, Jackie and Randy!!

After the week of teaching lessons, Trav and I drove down for the a little
cousin reunion.  It was so fun to get to be with everyone--there are more and more
little ones around now to play together!

We missed the first night at Trav's Aunt Linda's but got to join them the next 
morning for horseback riding at the Meeks!
Always a favorite for my girls...especially Gracie...she LOVES it!





All the little second cousins.
Gracie, Parker Pruett, Emmy, Paiton Pruett, Ellie, Gabby Tims
Sweaty, wind-blown little cuties!

Then off to Libby and David's land (where they have a pool!) for same of Uncle Dave's
famous bbq!  Here's the whole crew...missing a few that couldn't make it
(like Abby and Bret who were awaiting little Knightley's birth!).

Then after an afternoon there we headed back to Jackie and Randy's
for more beach fun!

SG and Daddy...she got a nap in the car on the way from
one place to the next and was not ready to wake up yet...
sweet little thing. 

Every "beach" has a slip n slide right??

And then Jackie went all out with the meal...
so fun and creative!
Here were a few of her creations:

A jello beach.


Girls just want to have fun I guess!
Emmy's face--no lack for personality there!


Trav, Dillon, and PawPaw...
good 'ole boys.

We had so much fun this weekend but what I will remember most about it
is that we got to announce to the family--and to PawPaw--the name of our little boy.
It was a harder weekend for the family...
Linda ended up breaking her back while riding a horse, and MawMaw, who had fallen
earlier in the week also discovered that her back was broken.
Not a usual for the Phillips as everyone is usually super healthy so it was hard
on everyone.  But I'll never forget the look on PawPaw's face as he stood 
there behind MawMaw's wheelchair when we told him the name...
his eyes filled with tears and he said, "I can't believe that...really??"

More on the name later...that's a whole post in and of itself!

Another successful family reunion...
so thankful to everyone who puts so much work into making these happen!
We cherish every minute we get to spend with family, especially living so far away.

So blessed to have married in to such a legacy.
Can't wait til next year! :)