The "Tribute to Bryna" Post

I had meant to write this a long time ago and I did, just that the computer screwed up and wiped out my post. But anyway, I'm just going to make this a lot more organised. So, it's all good. :)

Well, since this is a tribute post, let's get the party started. I can't say that I've met a lot of girls, but then I've never met that few either. Out of all, I think the girl who's most spectacular has got to be Bryna. So you would ask why, and let me just list down why I think she's great.

1. Bryna's really proactive. She's just not the kind to sit around and wait for things to happen. Lots of girls do that and it's something I can't stand. She's the kind of person who gets stuff started and gets her hands dirty doing all the hard work.

2. She's not a whiner. It really surprises me how girls can just whine all day, complaining about unimportant stuff. Okay, I guess Bryna does whine sometimes, but just not about the serious things and just needs a little cajoling to get her back on her feet.

3. Bryna's incredibly sporting and brave. Seriously, who would go on stage during church camp and sing a song to everyone? Most people I know would rather die than do that. She'll try anything new just in the name of fun with friends.

4. Amazingly good at communication. Like being a drama queen, she does get the audience's attention and really bring them to their feet. It's just that certain sort of charisma that's so rare in people. Certainly blessed to have it.

5. Leads and organises really well. Having a clear sense of direction and strong motivation to get things done, Bryna's like this unassuming person whom everyone doesn't mind following.

6. She takes a strong interests in sports. I bet she's done all the events during those inter-hall games in NUS. Netball, touch rugby, soccer, you name it, she's done it. And tell me, how many girls are this sporty?

7. Smart and hardworking. Okay, no doubt USP isn't that huge a thing. But she's still the kind who really studies hard for exams. Staying up till late, going to the library, etc. Not a very special point, but still worth mentioning.

8. She's just a really nice and caring person. This speaks for itself.

If a girl could ever be perfect (to me anyway), I guess Bryna is as close to it as possible. I certainly do hold her in high regard and admiration. :)

Evil cometh from the tongue

Yesterday's church service message was the best I've ever heard so far. It was close to home and realisitic. The message was something like always being careful of what you speak, as your words can take on forms of good and evil.

Somehow, right after this message, I just simply didn't heed it or something. That night, while trying to convince a friend to join the guild in World of Warcraft, I just insulted my other friend's guild. Even though it was unintentional and I didn't really realise I was doing any harm, I just did hurt that friend.

Well I think the lesson has been learnt here, always watch what you speak.

I think WoW is destroying my life. I'm really neglecting my friends for the people I meet in WoW. At the end of the day, those people are just people I play the game with. I've never seen their faces or talked to them about anything else other than WoW. Another thing, Huawei's just screwed up. I seriously don't know what his problem is, being hostile and everything. If there's any thing he's unhappy about, why the hell can't he just say it out?! To think that I could regard someone like him as a good friend, or even one of my best friends. Screw off, understand?

Seriously, I feel really weak and lacking in confidence. Why do I always need to seek a second opinion whenever I do anything? Am I really not sure enough to go ahead with my own plans? Decisiveness, something I'm definitely lacking in. At least the problem has been identified, rectification can be initiated. I really need to pull away from relying on my friends too much.

Daring to be different

Much as the world preaches about change and being different, it is in human nature that change can never be embraced with open arms.

Humans are lazy by nature and they hate leaving their comfort zones and being put into unfamiliar situations. Even though history time and again proves that the outstanding and the extraordinary change according to will and implement those changes, the vast majority still do not have that initiative.

Even at times, the extraordinary are treated as outcasts for being different from the common. Is this how it should be? Even though being in the minority that excels, why is it that people cannot judge them based on their achievements, or ideals, or passion, that distincts them from the rest?

In other instances, these people are held in high regard, applauded for their achievements, but striking jealousy into the hearts of the common.

Is it better to wallow in mediocrity and be accepted? Or be exalted and feared as the different?