Tuesday, March 31, 2009
"yes, i do. but i don't know what's going on in your life now. you don't tell me stuff."
it makes me happy, cause now i know.
but it makes me sad too, because i didn't realise.
these two weeks will be no money weeks.
cause i haven't been working much.
haha.
housed, macs and icc-ed with jerine and val.
you guys make me happy, thank you very much.
I MISS ICC SUPA MUCH!
arghuck, let me go back please!!
got my passport todayyy! (:
tioman, here i comeee!
but i'm quite a bit sad that you're not comingggg :(
oh wells.
dinner at xiao hong luo tonighttt!
whoots (:
thast's all.
it makes me happy, cause now i know.
but it makes me sad too, because i didn't realise.
these two weeks will be no money weeks.
cause i haven't been working much.
haha.
housed, macs and icc-ed with jerine and val.
you guys make me happy, thank you very much.
I MISS ICC SUPA MUCH!
arghuck, let me go back please!!
got my passport todayyy! (:
tioman, here i comeee!
but i'm quite a bit sad that you're not comingggg :(
oh wells.
dinner at xiao hong luo tonighttt!
whoots (:
thast's all.
what we could have been, 3:23 PM.
Friday, March 27, 2009
i clicked my shoes, and wished for youhow silly.
i left my phone at home. haha. and i'm so tired from workkk!
stewpid neighbs who met on the night when i was dead asleep.
haha. meet up again soon please.
i need a dose of happiness.
what we could have been, 9:42 AM.
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
When you flush with joy laying eyes on a man and
battle a continual, buried dread that he will die,
what do you call it
but love?
battle a continual, buried dread that he will die,
what do you call it
but love?
what we could have been, 3:30 PM.
Monday, March 23, 2009
Signs of Breaking Up, Anyone?
Sure, guys are supposed to be the tougher sex, but when it comes to breaking up with a chick, we turn into serious wusses. Of course, we know the right thing would be to sit you down and say, “Listen, it’s over.” But no — instead, we pull passive-aggressive crap in the hopes that you’ll hate us so much, you’ll pull the plug first. Some clues your guy could be taking the coward’s way out...
He Doesn’t Do What He Says He Will
Yes, it’s true: You usually have to ask guys about 10 times before they’ll actually help you put in those bathroom shelves — that’s typical. But when he promises to go with you to a friend’s party and then bails or doesn’t call when he says he will, that’s a problem. “When I started losing interest in my ex, I intentionally became really flaky,” says Bruce,* 24. “I just didn’t feel like going out of my way for her anymore.”
He Keeps Asking You “Are We Okay?”
Let’s be honest here: Men hate to talk about relationships. So if he starts suggesting weekly powwows, take notice. “I didn’t want to just flat out break her heart, so instead, I tried to hint that I wasn’t the right guy for her,” says Jack, 32. “I’d ask ‘So, what do you want for the future?’ Since I knew she wanted a guy who could take care of her financially, I’d say something like ‘I don’t want to be a VP someday. Money is overrated.’ After enough of these talks, she realized I wouldn’t be the rich husband she wanted.”
He Makes You into the Bad Guy
Your guy starts constantly choosing his buddies over you...and yet, he says you’re the selfish one. It’s called deflecting. “I’d been wanting to break up with my girl, but I couldn’t bring myself to do it,” explains Tyler, 28. “So instead, I made it seem like she was a rotten girlfriend by telling her she wasn’t giving me enough of her time or accusing her of cheating.” See how it works? Eventually, you’ll be dying to free yourself from his incessant harping (or so he hopes).
He Makes Comments About Hot Girls
Look, no guy is stupid enough to go on about how sexy some random chick is in front of his girlfriend...unless, of course, he’s trying to be inconsiderate. “Once I knew it was over, I just stopped censoring myself,” says David, 27. “If I were watching a music video on TV, I would say that I’d never seen a body so tight. I knew it upset her, but I just didn’t care at that point.” Do yourself a favor — walk away first.
Sure, guys are supposed to be the tougher sex, but when it comes to breaking up with a chick, we turn into serious wusses. Of course, we know the right thing would be to sit you down and say, “Listen, it’s over.” But no — instead, we pull passive-aggressive crap in the hopes that you’ll hate us so much, you’ll pull the plug first. Some clues your guy could be taking the coward’s way out...
He Doesn’t Do What He Says He Will
Yes, it’s true: You usually have to ask guys about 10 times before they’ll actually help you put in those bathroom shelves — that’s typical. But when he promises to go with you to a friend’s party and then bails or doesn’t call when he says he will, that’s a problem. “When I started losing interest in my ex, I intentionally became really flaky,” says Bruce,* 24. “I just didn’t feel like going out of my way for her anymore.”
He Keeps Asking You “Are We Okay?”
Let’s be honest here: Men hate to talk about relationships. So if he starts suggesting weekly powwows, take notice. “I didn’t want to just flat out break her heart, so instead, I tried to hint that I wasn’t the right guy for her,” says Jack, 32. “I’d ask ‘So, what do you want for the future?’ Since I knew she wanted a guy who could take care of her financially, I’d say something like ‘I don’t want to be a VP someday. Money is overrated.’ After enough of these talks, she realized I wouldn’t be the rich husband she wanted.”
He Makes You into the Bad Guy
Your guy starts constantly choosing his buddies over you...and yet, he says you’re the selfish one. It’s called deflecting. “I’d been wanting to break up with my girl, but I couldn’t bring myself to do it,” explains Tyler, 28. “So instead, I made it seem like she was a rotten girlfriend by telling her she wasn’t giving me enough of her time or accusing her of cheating.” See how it works? Eventually, you’ll be dying to free yourself from his incessant harping (or so he hopes).
He Makes Comments About Hot Girls
Look, no guy is stupid enough to go on about how sexy some random chick is in front of his girlfriend...unless, of course, he’s trying to be inconsiderate. “Once I knew it was over, I just stopped censoring myself,” says David, 27. “If I were watching a music video on TV, I would say that I’d never seen a body so tight. I knew it upset her, but I just didn’t care at that point.” Do yourself a favor — walk away first.
what we could have been, 4:07 PM.
last week was probably the most action packed week i've had for awhile now.
it was activity after activity.
clarissa's birthday party on tuesday.
swimming with the kids on wednesday.
after i failed my final theory, again! :(
val's pizza party on thursday.
suppose to go haji lane with nic,
but our schedules didn't work out :(
jasmine called! haha. that silly bum worked with my mummy for something.
then midnight-ed with neighbs and kim.
whoots! (:
churched on friday.
chatted a lil with big butt,
then went to macs with the sister.
netball, churched and flea marketed on saturday.
bought tons of stuff i don't really need,
but it was fun! (:
i'm black as can be, and it is not fun :(
churched on sunday,
and ate the best zhi cha thingy ever.
checked out the expo sale, picked out stuff, saw the queue,
and dropped everything back down.
HAHA.
went home, and knocked out.
and today?
it's back to work.
then gonna go down to lil red house at ecp for seafooddd!
it's ah-mm's birthday!
YAYNESS! (:
it was activity after activity.
clarissa's birthday party on tuesday.
swimming with the kids on wednesday.
after i failed my final theory, again! :(
val's pizza party on thursday.
suppose to go haji lane with nic,
but our schedules didn't work out :(
jasmine called! haha. that silly bum worked with my mummy for something.
then midnight-ed with neighbs and kim.
whoots! (:
churched on friday.
chatted a lil with big butt,
then went to macs with the sister.
netball, churched and flea marketed on saturday.
bought tons of stuff i don't really need,
but it was fun! (:
i'm black as can be, and it is not fun :(
churched on sunday,
and ate the best zhi cha thingy ever.
checked out the expo sale, picked out stuff, saw the queue,
and dropped everything back down.
HAHA.
went home, and knocked out.
and today?
it's back to work.
then gonna go down to lil red house at ecp for seafooddd!
it's ah-mm's birthday!
YAYNESS! (:
what we could have been, 11:37 AM.
Friday, March 20, 2009
i want you to want me.
what we could have been, 12:50 PM.
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
happy 7th, my annoying lil monster (:
all burnt and super tired please.
but i had fun (:
i lovvveeeddd the weather.
haha (:
thank you guys for a wonderful afternoon (:
xoxo.
what we could have been, 11:45 PM.
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
so here's a goodbye to us i suppose.
i'm tired of waiting.
i'm tired of waiting.
what we could have been, 11:49 AM.
Friday, March 13, 2009
I ♥♥♥♥ MY NEIGHBOURS (:
what we could have been, 3:27 PM.
Thursday, March 12, 2009
woe to me; i got a job.
what we could have been, 2:22 PM.
