It is no news flash that our family has had our share of ups and downs. Although the ups have been really good, the downs have been pretty tough. I suppose it is only human nature that allows the mind, heart, and soul to feel the scars of pain more than the joys of life. Joy comes and goes, but pain is always with us, or so it seems.
I've watched my 6'2", 220lb father waste away to 140lbs as cancer overtook him. My sweet Momma deteriorated over a few weeks, losing her ability to move, reason, and even write her own name as cancer won a quick battle over her body. My grandmother faced a courageous but wicked battle with leukemia. My own body has never been the same following some damaging health issues. I gave birth to a stillborn daughter at 6 months along during my 3rd pregnancy - a child I love so much but never knew. Our precious daughter will never know what a full field of vision is like. And it's going to take us a decade to recover from 18 months of job loss. So many people suffer every day, every where, all the time. It is easy to be impacted deeply by so much pain and suffering.
From my humble - human perspective, I often think I can't stand any more suffering, for myself, or for the human race. There is so much injustice in the screwed up world. So much hunger, pain, abuse, disease, and evil. I understand we lived in a screwed up world because of sin. But none of us ever asked to be created and brought to earth to live. I'm not sure, if given the choice in the beginning, that I would ever chose to live on earth as a human. Through some of my darkest times, I've often asked God why He made me, why He made any of us, and why did He put us here?
Why did God put us here? He really doesn't need us to DO anything for Him right? He's the I AM, the ONE AND ONLY, The ALL IN ALL, the BEGINNING AND END. He can speak great things into being, or wipe them out in a sweep of hand. So that can't be the reason I'm here. Did He put us here to pass or fail some type of test? It seems a huge injustice to keep creating people for life here on earth - a life where we are destined to suffer greatly, sin often, and fail miserably. If God knew in the beginning that I would fail Him, why did He make me in His image and fill me with my first breath anyway?
I think there is an answer to the "Why am I Here" question found in Ephesians 2:10 "For we are God's workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do." This scripture has kept me going lately and I must keep repeating it often on a daily basis. My purpose -our purpose, is pretty simple, although we often make it more complicated. We are put here simply to DO GOOD, all day, every day, all the time, our purpose is to do good.
Yep, all this suffering and evil is unjust and none of us ever asked for it. But by doing good all the time, we can ease the suffering of those around us. We can give water to the thirsty, food to the hungry, show kindness when is isn't deserved, and love deeply. And God promises that one day, He will take his hand, reach out and touch my face, and dry my final tear. Then I will never, ever cry, hurt, or suffer anymore. Knowing this keeps me going too. So, what keeps you going?
Tuesday, December 29, 2009
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
Life, Love, Rememberance, and Deliverance
Our preacher recently requested members e-mail him any personal stories relating to God's deliverance or second chances. I had a little something to share, but the e-mail came back to me not once but twice. I almost didn't resend the story below because I was pretty sure I had missed the deadline. I never even heard back from Mr. Preacher Man and was caught off guard when he read this to our entire congregation last Sunday. The timing of it all is so fitting. This week marks the 22nd anniversary of Dad's passing. Also my Mom and Grandfather shared October birthdays. And our Joise Mae would be 12 this October. So here's to life and love, death and deliverance and a lot of remembering.....
My husband and I have been married over 23 years now. We have been through a lot together from the beginning of our marriage. My father died of cancer a year after we married. My mother died 7 years later of cancer. They were very young, 46 and 53 respectively. My younger brother was 16 when Mom died and my husband agreed that my brother should live with us as long as he wanted. My brother could have let this tragedy turn him into a bitter, angry, and rebellious teenager. But he stuck to the straight path, and in spite of all the obstacles Satan put in his way, became a minister. For me my “day of deliverance” was the day he came home here to College Hills as the guest speaker for homecoming Sunday. Oh, and by the way – my mother prayed fervently the prayer of Hannah. She always wanted a son who would grow up to be a minister. God certainly answered her prayer, although she wasn’t here on earth to witness that answer.
I could write a book about how Satan has worked overtime on me and my family. Maybe someday I will. But for now I will simply emphasize that my parents were simple, faithful people who loved God and their every day lives reflected that. Sometimes it seems as though Satan has the upper hand because he never lets up. But good has overcome evil, even in this life. And that IS the big picture.
I could write a book about how Satan has worked overtime on me and my family. Maybe someday I will. But for now I will simply emphasize that my parents were simple, faithful people who loved God and their every day lives reflected that. Sometimes it seems as though Satan has the upper hand because he never lets up. But good has overcome evil, even in this life. And that IS the big picture.Monday, October 05, 2009
What I Found Under My Pillow.....
One night about a month or so ago, as I pulled back the covers and fluffed my pillow, I found this sweet note my daughter had written and placed under my pillow. The message made my day, my week, and my month. Never under estimate the effect in doing the "little" things for those you love.
Saturday, October 03, 2009
Home School Materials - Favorite Picks
Although we've been back at home schooling over 2 months, we never stop looking at new materials and deciding what we want to add to our "library." Here are some of our family favorites and our reviews of each:
Apologia's Exploring Creation Series is Hope's favorite pick for science. We love the conversational style, the hands on activities provided, and the abundance of color photos. We appreciate the presentation of science from a Godly perspective. Both mom and child have gleaned much from this series. Currently we are studying Astronomy. We want to add FLYING CREATURES, SEA CREATURES, and ANIMALS to our collection. Even if you do NOT home school, this series could provide a lot of summer science fun during the break.
Hope is studying Latin this year. I've looked at several programs available to home schoolers. Our top pick is Latina Christiana. Several levels are available which progress from easy to, well, not so easy. What Mom loves is the fact that the series is DVD driven with a perky Latin teacher explaining and pronouncing everything we need to know. The teacher is obviously from the south so you get the southern drawl for English along with the Latin. Salve Magistra!
I know Saxon Math is the Bible of Mathematics to most home schoolers out there. But our kids hated it. When I would break out the Saxon math books, our children would instantly grow fur, fangs, and claws. Our kids and Saxon math simply didn't bring out the best in each other. So our top pick for math is MATH U SEE. Hope better understands the meaning of math because of the manipulative that can be used through all levels of the program. And there is also a DVD of Mr. Math U See presenting EVERY lesson of EVERY level. Sweet. Oh, and don't let the level titles freak you out. The levels correspond to the Greek Alphabet. Alpha is level 1, typically for 1st graders. Currently Hope is the middle of Delta. Since we switched from Saxon to Math U See in the middle of the year, we are lagging a bit behind.
We also have the Timeline Notebook. It is quite attractive and our kiddos can work on this for several years as we study history in chronological order.
I am loving the Mystery of History Series. The first book starts with creation and moves forward through both Biblical history and World history. It is pretty neat to learn what was going on in other civilizations when certain Biblical events were occurring.
We are also reading from the Story of the World Series. I lucked up at a book fair and got Volumes 2,3, and 4. I think another volume or two may be released soon. These are a must have and a must keep for us. I can picture us reading these stories to our grandchildren someday. Also, each volume is available on audio CD so everyone can get a dose of history while spending time on the road. With Mystery of History and Story of the World, we are using our Timeline Figures and printing the pictures of people and events, then coloring them with pencils, and placing them in chronological order in our timeline notebook. What a fun way to learn history. Wish this were available when I was a kid. I might know more about history today!
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
18 Months and Counting
Does anybody watch 18 kids and counting? For some reason that show is one of my favorites. From what I can tell, the family is genuine in their love for each other and mankind. It is fascinating to watch a family with 18 kids do anything. 18 is a big number!
With the approach of October, we have an 18 month anniversary here at the Beard house. 18 months clicks by quickly if you are "in love" for the first time, or are pressing full speed ahead to finish a remodel job, or some other goal you've dreamed about. In some ways the past 18 months have passed quickly because I have been busier than I can ever remember. In some ways the past 18 months seems like a lifetime. Almost 18 months ago, my dear hubby found out his talents, loyalty, and presence were no longer needed at his place of employment. He'd been there 18 years BTW.
I'm taking a few moments here to reflect - not to whine and make folks feel sorry for us - that's not very becoming. It would be helpful to me just to share some of our struggles, and some lessons we've learned along the way. If you don't like raw honesty, you may want to out click now.
Loosing a job is just what it is, a loss. And just like any other loss, one needs time to get over the shock, go through all the emotions of fear, anger, WHY ME?, sadness, depression, grief, ect. And the series of emotions is a cyclical one. I still process through the same cycle over the loss of Mom, Dad, Josie Mae, and even health issues and Dad's been gone over 2 decades. I've found that people who have suffered great loss need to take ownership of all these emotions, even if society may not grant them same privilege. I am thankful Richard and I give each other permission to express the less desirable emotions through the rough times. If we couldn't - I think we'd both be wards of Bellview by now!
No matter how hard we try, we can never be fully prepared for the worst, weather the worst happens or not. Initially we viewed our situation as "temporary." For me, 18 months has crossed the line from "temporary" to "permanent." As usual Richard is the more optimistic partner in our marriage. I like to think I'm realistic, but I'm probably viewed as cynical pessimist.
So we were somewhat prepared, thankfully, for hard financial times. Richard has always made giving to the Lord a top priority. And the Lord promises to return back, "pressed down and overflowing." God has graciously kept a roof over our heads, clothes on our backs, and food in our tummies and we are humbly thankful for all our blessings. I'm also married to a wise man, who made saving a financial priority. Although the savings was set aside for the "golden" years, it has kept us afloat through the storm so to speak. But accounts and funds do eventually run dry when they are no longer being "fed".
Now our family finds itself at a fork in the road. We know that very soon, something drastic must take place. Either the Lord will make clear His plan by blessing Richard with work to do, or we will become renters instead of home owners. To be honest - I'm exhausted from trying solve the financial puzzle each month. And there will be some relief and blessing in renting for a while -if we have to.
Like many Americans, we have learned some valuable and hard lessons these past months. A consumer report was issued last week indicating that over 60% of Americans vow they have changed their spending and savings habits both drastically and permanently. There has been a financial awakening and folks that have jobs are rethinking how to spend. And people who are still searching for jobs know they are forever changed when it comes to saving and spending.
I have a better understanding and appreciation for my sweet Grandmother, who still models the "Use it up, Wear it Out, Fix it Up, or Do Without" philosophy. I always tried to be a wise spender, but I have now learned to be "wiser."
Although our family has been "wandering in the desert" for a year and a half, we have hope that the Lord will deliver us into a physical promised land. Of course we'd prefer delivery sooner rather than later. But no matter when He delivers us, we know some things with deep certainty. As husband/wife, our bond is even stronger now because we of the battle wounds we share. I adore Richard so much, and would be first to come to his defense if anybody wished to cause him harm. He's my man, so don't mess with him! We have also learned that God is often on a different time table than we are. Sometimes I don't like that very much. God always answers us, but it may not be what we wanted to hear. It is much easier to accept a YES, than NO, or WAIT A WHILE. Sometimes the WAIT A WHILE answer FEELS as if God isn't listening, or He's given up on us and abandoned us. I know this isn't true, but knowing and feeling are two entirely different things. Finally I'd like to emphasize - especially to those who are facing similar struggles, one final point. When we examine what we value the most in our lives, often it's something or someone who could never be bought with money. What a blessing to know that often what makes me the happiest is not something attainable with $$$. It's been said that one is rich if they value most what can't be bought. I'd rather be rich in spirit. May the God of peace and joy grant us all a rich spirit.
With the approach of October, we have an 18 month anniversary here at the Beard house. 18 months clicks by quickly if you are "in love" for the first time, or are pressing full speed ahead to finish a remodel job, or some other goal you've dreamed about. In some ways the past 18 months have passed quickly because I have been busier than I can ever remember. In some ways the past 18 months seems like a lifetime. Almost 18 months ago, my dear hubby found out his talents, loyalty, and presence were no longer needed at his place of employment. He'd been there 18 years BTW.
I'm taking a few moments here to reflect - not to whine and make folks feel sorry for us - that's not very becoming. It would be helpful to me just to share some of our struggles, and some lessons we've learned along the way. If you don't like raw honesty, you may want to out click now.
Loosing a job is just what it is, a loss. And just like any other loss, one needs time to get over the shock, go through all the emotions of fear, anger, WHY ME?, sadness, depression, grief, ect. And the series of emotions is a cyclical one. I still process through the same cycle over the loss of Mom, Dad, Josie Mae, and even health issues and Dad's been gone over 2 decades. I've found that people who have suffered great loss need to take ownership of all these emotions, even if society may not grant them same privilege. I am thankful Richard and I give each other permission to express the less desirable emotions through the rough times. If we couldn't - I think we'd both be wards of Bellview by now!
No matter how hard we try, we can never be fully prepared for the worst, weather the worst happens or not. Initially we viewed our situation as "temporary." For me, 18 months has crossed the line from "temporary" to "permanent." As usual Richard is the more optimistic partner in our marriage. I like to think I'm realistic, but I'm probably viewed as cynical pessimist.
So we were somewhat prepared, thankfully, for hard financial times. Richard has always made giving to the Lord a top priority. And the Lord promises to return back, "pressed down and overflowing." God has graciously kept a roof over our heads, clothes on our backs, and food in our tummies and we are humbly thankful for all our blessings. I'm also married to a wise man, who made saving a financial priority. Although the savings was set aside for the "golden" years, it has kept us afloat through the storm so to speak. But accounts and funds do eventually run dry when they are no longer being "fed".
Now our family finds itself at a fork in the road. We know that very soon, something drastic must take place. Either the Lord will make clear His plan by blessing Richard with work to do, or we will become renters instead of home owners. To be honest - I'm exhausted from trying solve the financial puzzle each month. And there will be some relief and blessing in renting for a while -if we have to.
Like many Americans, we have learned some valuable and hard lessons these past months. A consumer report was issued last week indicating that over 60% of Americans vow they have changed their spending and savings habits both drastically and permanently. There has been a financial awakening and folks that have jobs are rethinking how to spend. And people who are still searching for jobs know they are forever changed when it comes to saving and spending.
I have a better understanding and appreciation for my sweet Grandmother, who still models the "Use it up, Wear it Out, Fix it Up, or Do Without" philosophy. I always tried to be a wise spender, but I have now learned to be "wiser."
Although our family has been "wandering in the desert" for a year and a half, we have hope that the Lord will deliver us into a physical promised land. Of course we'd prefer delivery sooner rather than later. But no matter when He delivers us, we know some things with deep certainty. As husband/wife, our bond is even stronger now because we of the battle wounds we share. I adore Richard so much, and would be first to come to his defense if anybody wished to cause him harm. He's my man, so don't mess with him! We have also learned that God is often on a different time table than we are. Sometimes I don't like that very much. God always answers us, but it may not be what we wanted to hear. It is much easier to accept a YES, than NO, or WAIT A WHILE. Sometimes the WAIT A WHILE answer FEELS as if God isn't listening, or He's given up on us and abandoned us. I know this isn't true, but knowing and feeling are two entirely different things. Finally I'd like to emphasize - especially to those who are facing similar struggles, one final point. When we examine what we value the most in our lives, often it's something or someone who could never be bought with money. What a blessing to know that often what makes me the happiest is not something attainable with $$$. It's been said that one is rich if they value most what can't be bought. I'd rather be rich in spirit. May the God of peace and joy grant us all a rich spirit.
Monday, September 28, 2009
Does Anyone Really Blog Anymore?
Does anyone actually check this blog anymore? I mean it's been over 3 months since I posted anything. This morning my daughter informed me that I really need to post something new here. She's tired of looking at The Barefoot Farmer. The rare times I've visted FIVEBEARDS lately was only to use my sidebar as a short cut to reach some of my favorite sites or people! Now that's really lame.
I hope to get back to blogging about our lives, thoughts, hopes, and happenings. To be honest, I've had little desire to create or communicate much over the past year and a half. Our family has been on a long journey through a spiritual and emotional desert -metaphorically speaking - for several months now. With work, housework, homeschooling, and all the other gremlins that have been hurled our way, the Beard fam has been operating in survival mode.
I'm threating myself to shut down this blog if I can't give it some much deserved attention. So I'm giving blogging one more chance. Hopefully I can find something worth saying that you will find worth reading. So for now....stay tuned! And don't mess with my man!
Thursday, June 11, 2009
Barefoot Farmer Bluegrass Bonaroo Anyone?
I can't help it, redneck blood flows through my veins. I've discovered a kindred spirit in a true TN grown redneck - green hero - Jeff, The Barefoot Farmer. He owns 300+ acres between Whitleyville TN (birthplace of Granddaddy Bybee) and Red Boilin' Springs, TN. He has an organic farm, and advocates CSA (Community Supported Agriculture). I want to join the CSA group and get in on the great deals for all that beautifully biodynamically grown produce!
But Jeff The Barefoot Farmer doesn't just grow organic veggies. He opens his farm each year to happy campers everywhere for the Summer Solstice Celebration in June. There's Bluegrass nearly round the clock, free pizza and burgers, camping, hiking, canoeing, and lots of good old fashioned fun. Who's with me? Bluegrass Bonaroo Anyone??
Sunday, May 17, 2009
Congrats!
There once was this little red headed Lad:
Who was an eager, proud Pre-K Grad:
He had to wear this dumb sweater:
But a red truck made his life better,
Congrats to Ethan - Love, Mom and Dad!
Ethan Ross Beard, Heritage Christian Academy, Class of 2009
Monday, May 11, 2009
Another Strong Reason to Consume Organic
Many natural health care providers have been warning of the dangers of GM (genetically modified) foods for a while. Frito-Lay is a big user of GM corn products. Don't take my word for it, go here to find why German and other European countries have banned GM corn.
Friday, April 24, 2009
Scary
Last week I worked up a post on our local TEA party. I wrote my post "tounge in cheek" and mostly out of humor. Today I found out that I should have taken the whole issue with the DHS a little more seriously. Go here to read about our government sending out the FBI to covertly spy on honest, hard working Americans who are concerned about the future this country holds for the next generation. Funny thing is that none of the major networks are covering this story. Folks, if we can no longer disagree with our government by peacefully protesting - we just lost our constitutional right to freedom of speech. The irony of the situation is no longer humerous, but frightening.
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
Detox - The Martha's Vineyard Way, But Tara's Way
Sunday on Facebook, I announced my detox. I've have numerous inquiries as to WHY, HOW and FROM WHAT am I detoxing. First I wanted to set the record straight that this is not a drug or alcohol detox program. Although I keep a supply of Tylenol, Advil, and Aleive on hand - I am very reluctant to use them. I did purchase a bottle of rum in Grand Caymen 3 years ago, but my rum cake didn't taste anything like Mary's and plenty of rum remains in the bottle today. (Side note -rum mixed with honey and lemon gives welcome relief to a wicked sore throat. Grandmother Bybee was right. Thanks Grandmother!)
Ideally, one would be making fresh juice, but my life is too complicated right now and the Bolthouse juice is cheaper than buying fresh fruits and veggies. Also, the instructions have the detoxer make a vegetable soup for dinner and just eat the broth. I have not made a batch of soup yet, but I substituted a protein fruit shake in place of the soup.
It would take way too much of our time for me to give my medical history. Let's just say that I have some auto immune issues, am prone to a lot of inflammation, and have felt older, heavier, and puffier lately. A couple of moms in our home school group did the Martha's Vineyard 21 pounds in 21 days detox with impressive results, which motivated me to attempt my first detox.
The book recommends this detox for a weekend, 7 days, 14 days, or 21 days. My goal is to make it 7 to 14 days. I cannot afford to do everything the book recommends and figure any cheaper measures could only help me. Basically, I drink 6 times a day. I get 8 oz of high potency juice, 8 oz of herbal or green tea, and 8 oz of water every 2-3 hours.
I purchased an organic whole body detox/cleanse at our health store for around $30.
Kroger had all varieties of Bolthouse Farms juice (in health section) on sale so I stocked up. I am to drink 3 different varieties of juice throughout the day, a green juice, a berry juice, and a veggie juice. These all taste fantastic and I put 2 oz of aloe vera juice into one drink each day.
Ideally, one would be making fresh juice, but my life is too complicated right now and the Bolthouse juice is cheaper than buying fresh fruits and veggies. Also, the instructions have the detoxer make a vegetable soup for dinner and just eat the broth. I have not made a batch of soup yet, but I substituted a protein fruit shake in place of the soup.
This is day 5 of my detox. I am sleeping better at night. I can tell my fingers, ankles, and feet are less swollen. I feel less bloated. I have more energy. I've only had a couple of moments when I felt empty or hungry - but I had waited more than 2-3 hours between feedings. Since I am drinking a lot of fluids - potty breaks are frequent. I'm glad I'm home for most of this week :)
I think I can make it to day 7. I will evaluate how I feel and hopefully get a few more days of detox in. The herbal cleanse product I purchased at the health store is a 14 day supply. I plan to finish all the capsules regardless of when I end the juices and teas.
It is important to end a detox gradually. I will need to make a slow transition back to solid foods. I have not weighed myself before or during this detox. But wearing pants is no longer painful :)
Tuesday, April 21, 2009
Hannah Montana The Movie Review
Initially, Hope was a big fan of Hannah Montana. But she tired easily of all the marketing hype. The day we found Hannah Montana glue sticks last year was the day which marked her limit. Disney continues to flood the market with everything from Hannah Montana bedding to lotions and potions and Hope has expressed little interest in this pop tart music queen lately.
Last week, Hannah Montana The Movie debuted everywhere following her guest appearance on American Idol (which we all thought was sub-par). Since a good portion of the movie was filmed here in Tennessee, several locals were cast as extras. Some of those extras were home school friends of our kiddos, so Hope and I felt we should go see the movie. We did not have a chance to see the movie on opening night - which was probably a good thing since the movie was SOLD OUT at our local theatre. Being flexible home schoolers, I was able to take Hope to yesterday's matinee before "real" school let out. It's cool to have the whole theatre to yourself.
We heard other folks rave about the movie. Even Suan Hannity gave the movie a great family review and spent at least a whole minute giving it praise on the radio. All of Hope's friends at church had already seen the movie by Sunday. Honestly, I wasn't expecting much when I bought our tickets. I figured the movie would be geared towards young girls and I'd be bored for 2 hours. (I've fallen asleep during more than one kid's movie).
The only complaint I have with the movie is that some of the southern accents were fake and overdone. If you didn't grow up 'round here, it's hard to sound authentic. But I must confess the movie was a pleasant surprise. The Tennessee setting was beautiful. The story line didn't put me to sleep and there was more than one positive message in there. Miley can certainly sing pop music well, but I LOVED her "country" voice and those songs in the movie.
We've already downloaded CLIMB and HOEDOWN THROWDOWN from ITUNES. And although I am not a big fan of Hannah Montana, I think Miley has her head on straight. I'm looking forward to future achievements from this little powerhouse. And when she's a faded pop star, I hope she finds a permanent place in country music. She is certainly growing on me.
Last week, Hannah Montana The Movie debuted everywhere following her guest appearance on American Idol (which we all thought was sub-par). Since a good portion of the movie was filmed here in Tennessee, several locals were cast as extras. Some of those extras were home school friends of our kiddos, so Hope and I felt we should go see the movie. We did not have a chance to see the movie on opening night - which was probably a good thing since the movie was SOLD OUT at our local theatre. Being flexible home schoolers, I was able to take Hope to yesterday's matinee before "real" school let out. It's cool to have the whole theatre to yourself.
We heard other folks rave about the movie. Even Suan Hannity gave the movie a great family review and spent at least a whole minute giving it praise on the radio. All of Hope's friends at church had already seen the movie by Sunday. Honestly, I wasn't expecting much when I bought our tickets. I figured the movie would be geared towards young girls and I'd be bored for 2 hours. (I've fallen asleep during more than one kid's movie).
The only complaint I have with the movie is that some of the southern accents were fake and overdone. If you didn't grow up 'round here, it's hard to sound authentic. But I must confess the movie was a pleasant surprise. The Tennessee setting was beautiful. The story line didn't put me to sleep and there was more than one positive message in there. Miley can certainly sing pop music well, but I LOVED her "country" voice and those songs in the movie.
We've already downloaded CLIMB and HOEDOWN THROWDOWN from ITUNES. And although I am not a big fan of Hannah Montana, I think Miley has her head on straight. I'm looking forward to future achievements from this little powerhouse. And when she's a faded pop star, I hope she finds a permanent place in country music. She is certainly growing on me.
Saturday, April 18, 2009
Taxes, TEA Parties, Terrorists, and Twins
Wilson County held a TEA party on tax day at the Charlie Daniels Park in Mt. Juliet TN. TEA parties across the nation were held within hours of folks filing tax returns and writing checks to Uncle Sam. The Department of Homeland Security's most recent report was also HOT off the press, warning folks of "right wing extremists" and "returning veterans" who may pose a terrorist threat to our country.
A couple of new terrorists were spotted at the local Wilson County TEA party this past Wednesday. This team, which secretly carries out right wing plots to wreak havoc on America, can double for each other. Their secret cover was blown when they showed up at Wednesday's TEA party to protest together. One of these extremist agents had the audacity to take the stage and sing AMERICA THE BEAUTIFUL and THE STAR SPANGLED BANNER with a group of children.
These secret extremist agents really let their guard down by allowing someone to photograph them. I am sharing this valuable information for your own protection. If you see these little terrorists near your neighborhood, school, or place of employment, RUN FOR YOUR LIVES! They should never be reckoned with by ordinary citizens.
Appearently, they are VERY upset about wasteful spending by elected officials -which will leave their generation with more debt and tax burden than they can ever afford to pay back. Their parents should make appropriations for such behavior and apologize for these agents being so selfish and unpatriotic.
What is this world coming to !?!
A couple of new terrorists were spotted at the local Wilson County TEA party this past Wednesday. This team, which secretly carries out right wing plots to wreak havoc on America, can double for each other. Their secret cover was blown when they showed up at Wednesday's TEA party to protest together. One of these extremist agents had the audacity to take the stage and sing AMERICA THE BEAUTIFUL and THE STAR SPANGLED BANNER with a group of children.
These secret extremist agents really let their guard down by allowing someone to photograph them. I am sharing this valuable information for your own protection. If you see these little terrorists near your neighborhood, school, or place of employment, RUN FOR YOUR LIVES! They should never be reckoned with by ordinary citizens.
Appearently, they are VERY upset about wasteful spending by elected officials -which will leave their generation with more debt and tax burden than they can ever afford to pay back. Their parents should make appropriations for such behavior and apologize for these agents being so selfish and unpatriotic.
What is this world coming to !?!
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
Catching UP!
I'm having a hard time keeping up with everything that has to be done around here. There's work work, school work, house work, cooking, cleaning, laundry, church work and the list goes on and on. A lot has happened this year that I failed to feature. Here are some snippets of the goings on.
Hope's science fair project was about taste and the tounge. She had a lot of fun stuffing this giant pink tounge. She had chips, candy, sour patch kids, and unsweetend chocolate for visitors to sample. It was alot of fun.
Here is Hope showing off her second place ribbon.
Micah took second place in his division for his pin hole camera project. Honestly, I didn't really understand the whole concept but that fact didn't hold him back.
Ethan turned 18 this year and it was quite uneventful for him. No party, no celebration. Hope made him his favorite chocolate chip pie.
The weekend after his birthday we had a pack of hungry teenage boys at our house. The boys came with their own toys. We had 2 wheelers and 4 wheelers and lots of action. Here's our boy another one's toy!
Micah turned 15 and we took a group to play paint ball. Don't mess with these guys OK? Also NEVER park near a paint ball war. The paint box says it is biodegradable. But it is murder to remove from your vehicle.
Thursday, April 02, 2009
Wilson Post Features Taracooks.com
A few weeks ago, we had the privilege to cook dinner for Ken Beck and his wife Wendy. Ken used to write for the Tennessean newspaper. He recently retired and is now writing for one of the local papers- The Wilson Post. He contacted us one day after hearing about www.taracooks.com and asked if he could come out and interview our family.
If you are bored out of your mind today and have nothing better to do go here to read the article. I hesitate to even post about this article, but our web-site has evolved into quite a family effort. I am so proud of my husband for the endless hours he has put into designing and developing Taracooks.com. The kids are having a blast helping me cook, and are always HUNGRY -so this is a good thing. We are learning a lot about gardening, healthy alternatives, and saving money by cooking more and eating out less. This is a group effort for sure.
Finally, since we have so many friends and family supporting our efforts, we feel the need to keep you updated on where Taracooks.com is taking all of us. I feel we are all kindred spirits in our kitchens together. I appreciate all your support and positive comments since we started cooking together.
Keep the pantry stocked and the pots and pans ready now!
If you are bored out of your mind today and have nothing better to do go here to read the article. I hesitate to even post about this article, but our web-site has evolved into quite a family effort. I am so proud of my husband for the endless hours he has put into designing and developing Taracooks.com. The kids are having a blast helping me cook, and are always HUNGRY -so this is a good thing. We are learning a lot about gardening, healthy alternatives, and saving money by cooking more and eating out less. This is a group effort for sure.
Finally, since we have so many friends and family supporting our efforts, we feel the need to keep you updated on where Taracooks.com is taking all of us. I feel we are all kindred spirits in our kitchens together. I appreciate all your support and positive comments since we started cooking together.
Keep the pantry stocked and the pots and pans ready now!
Monday, March 30, 2009
Frugality
Everyone I know is trying to stretch a dollar these days. This year we have saved by turning our thermostat to 62 degrees. We cook as much as possible at home. We research prices, clip coupons, shop online, barter or whatever it takes to get what we need as cheaply as possible. On our cooking web-site, I recently shared a recipe for home made laundry detergent. I absolutely love it. I found the recipe here www.thesimpledollar.com. I wanted to share the site because it has a lot of unique simple ways to save money. I will be adding this site to my side bar favorites.
Check it out, and start saving $$.
Check it out, and start saving $$.
Thursday, March 26, 2009
From Missing Mom to Red Headed Liabilities
I have not posted much lately, but there certainly has been a lot going on around here. I have failed to post about the science fair that Hope and Micah participated in. I didn't post about Ethan's 18th birthday or Micah's 15th birthday. I didn't post about the talent show where Hope sang in front of 200+ people and floored us with her voice. I haven't posted about our graduating senior, my husband who's decided he'd better start his own business, or about being interviewed a couple of weeks ago by Ken Beck. I didn't mention that our home school tutorial didn't schedule spring break until APRIL 10th and all of us are experiencing a bad case of BURN OUT. And I won't go into death anniversaries, even though today is a painful one for me. Mom has been gone 15 years today, and yet it seems like yesterday still. I'll just talk about boys and trucks.
About 18 months ago, Ethan purchased a red Dodge pickup truck on EBAY. He and Richard drove to Ohio to pick it up. I won't go into all the repairs that were made on that truck the first year. I'll just expound on what's transpired since October 2008. In October, Ethan's tags were due to be renewed. In Wilson county, our vehicles must pass an emissions test before we can get our tags renewed. Ethan failed the first time. He bought an O2 sensor and installed it himself. He still didn't pass emissions. He continued to drive without current tags. Between Oct and Dec, he had several hundred dollars of repairs done on the truck, and it was in the shop 4 times that I recall. In Dec, on the way to school, his drive shaft fell off in the middle of I-40. We had the truck towed back to Lebanon. We located a drive shaft in McMinnville at a junkyard. Richard got a speeding ticket on the way home. The drive shaft wasn't the right size anyway. The truck sat in our driveway, jacked up for most of January. Since we could no longer get a new drive shaft from the dealership, we had to have one custom built. There went another 400+ bucks. 4 days after getting the truck in working order, Ethan's foot slipped off the clutch and the truck lurched forward, hitting our garage, denting the door, and tearing up the front truck fender. He took the fender off and ordered an unpainted on from EBay. It arrived in imperfect condition. It's on the floor in his bedroom. He has continued to drive the truck without a fender or fog lights or front signals. Last Wed, he called from Mt Juliet. The new drive shaft fell off and some kind but hefty black fellow helped push him out of traffic. To save on towing Richard towed him home himself. The guys who custom built the new drive shaft that just fell off gave Richard all the parts to put it back on again. Ethan had to drive Richard's truck over the weekend. Ethan's friend Josh spent the night here Sat night. Ethan didn't see Josh's car parked directly behind Richard's truck and plowed into Josh's driver's door. Uh Oh Josh's car. Sunday night Richard and Ethan were able to put his drive shaft back on and the truck was drivable. The check engine light went off so Ethan took the truck to get emissions tested. HE PASSED! He got a ticket on the way home for driving on EXPIRED TAGS! Now he has to appear in court.
Micah is studying to get his driver's permit.........
I'm being chased by a psychiatrist
About 18 months ago, Ethan purchased a red Dodge pickup truck on EBAY. He and Richard drove to Ohio to pick it up. I won't go into all the repairs that were made on that truck the first year. I'll just expound on what's transpired since October 2008. In October, Ethan's tags were due to be renewed. In Wilson county, our vehicles must pass an emissions test before we can get our tags renewed. Ethan failed the first time. He bought an O2 sensor and installed it himself. He still didn't pass emissions. He continued to drive without current tags. Between Oct and Dec, he had several hundred dollars of repairs done on the truck, and it was in the shop 4 times that I recall. In Dec, on the way to school, his drive shaft fell off in the middle of I-40. We had the truck towed back to Lebanon. We located a drive shaft in McMinnville at a junkyard. Richard got a speeding ticket on the way home. The drive shaft wasn't the right size anyway. The truck sat in our driveway, jacked up for most of January. Since we could no longer get a new drive shaft from the dealership, we had to have one custom built. There went another 400+ bucks. 4 days after getting the truck in working order, Ethan's foot slipped off the clutch and the truck lurched forward, hitting our garage, denting the door, and tearing up the front truck fender. He took the fender off and ordered an unpainted on from EBay. It arrived in imperfect condition. It's on the floor in his bedroom. He has continued to drive the truck without a fender or fog lights or front signals. Last Wed, he called from Mt Juliet. The new drive shaft fell off and some kind but hefty black fellow helped push him out of traffic. To save on towing Richard towed him home himself. The guys who custom built the new drive shaft that just fell off gave Richard all the parts to put it back on again. Ethan had to drive Richard's truck over the weekend. Ethan's friend Josh spent the night here Sat night. Ethan didn't see Josh's car parked directly behind Richard's truck and plowed into Josh's driver's door. Uh Oh Josh's car. Sunday night Richard and Ethan were able to put his drive shaft back on and the truck was drivable. The check engine light went off so Ethan took the truck to get emissions tested. HE PASSED! He got a ticket on the way home for driving on EXPIRED TAGS! Now he has to appear in court.
Micah is studying to get his driver's permit.........
I'm being chased by a psychiatrist
Monday, March 09, 2009
Things That Make You Go, Hmmm?
Thomas Jefferson in some cases could be called a prophet. Here are some of his quotes for pondering:
When we get piled upon one another in large cities, as in Europe, we shall become as corrupt as Europe.
The democracy will cease to exist when you take away from those who are willing to work and give to those who would not.
It is incumbent on every generation to pay its own debts as it goes. A principle which if acted on would save one-half the wars of the world.
I predict future happiness for Americans if they can prevent the government from wasting the labors of the people under the pretense of taking care of them.
My reading of history convinces me that most bad government results from too much government.
No free man shall ever be debarred the use of arms.
The strongest reason for the people to retain the right to keep and bear arms is, as a last resort, to protect themselves against tyranny in government.
The tree of liberty must be refreshed from time to time with the blood of patriots and tyrants.
To compel a man to subsidize with his taxes the propagation of ideas which he disbelieves and abhors is sinful and tyrannical.
When we get piled upon one another in large cities, as in Europe, we shall become as corrupt as Europe.
The democracy will cease to exist when you take away from those who are willing to work and give to those who would not.
It is incumbent on every generation to pay its own debts as it goes. A principle which if acted on would save one-half the wars of the world.
I predict future happiness for Americans if they can prevent the government from wasting the labors of the people under the pretense of taking care of them.
My reading of history convinces me that most bad government results from too much government.
No free man shall ever be debarred the use of arms.
The strongest reason for the people to retain the right to keep and bear arms is, as a last resort, to protect themselves against tyranny in government.
The tree of liberty must be refreshed from time to time with the blood of patriots and tyrants.
To compel a man to subsidize with his taxes the propagation of ideas which he disbelieves and abhors is sinful and tyrannical.
Thursday, March 05, 2009
The Passing of the Baton
Recently, Hope and I spent a Saturday with my Grandmother Armstrong. Hope has been wanting to learn to knit for a while now. Grandmother taught me how to knit when I was about Hope's age. I got out my needles and brushed up on my own skills, but I didn't proceed to teach Hope. I wanted her to learn from the best. I wouldn't trade anything for the experience of Grandmother teaching Hope how to knit. The pictures tell a sweet story.
Here, Grandmother is "casting on" the stitches for Hope, which is the first step in the knitting process. Aren't Grandmother's hands just precious. She's done a lot of good with those hands in her 90+ years. Hope's hands wait patiently to learn. 
Here, Grandmother is "casting on" the stitches for Hope, which is the first step in the knitting process. Aren't Grandmother's hands just precious. She's done a lot of good with those hands in her 90+ years. Hope's hands wait patiently to learn. After casting on and knitting a row, Grandmother assists Hope with her first row.
I simply love this pose. It speaks to me. Does it speak to you? (Thank you Jordon for photographing these moments!)
Hope needed a little extra assistance from time to time. When Grandmother was pretty sure Hope had learned the basic knit stitch, she passed the pair of needles and yarn over to Hope. Hope did pretty well at her first lesson. She often added an extra stitch to each row without knowing it.
I believe it is so important to preserve our family heritage and our southern traditions. Grandmother, we wil do our best to preserve the heritage you have passed along to us. And we hope we make you proud. We love you Grandmother!
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Attack of the Hillbilly
Here's a quick 30 seconds of comic relief - great teenage minds that have overcome extreme boredom. Plus we now know what Micah would look like at 400 pounds!
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
Sweetness
For the past 5 years, Hope and her Daddy have attended the HCA Father Daughter Banquet. For the past 2 years, it has been held at Michael's Cafe. Our homeschool group offers this banquet so daughters can have some special bonding and memories with their Dads. This year's theme was Dance With Me Daddy. I'm not going to say anymore about the evening. These pictures say it better than I ever could.
I am so thankful we have a daughter and that she has one of the best Daddy's in the world.
Come on baby, do the LOCOMOTION!
I am so thankful we have a daughter and that she has one of the best Daddy's in the world.Come on baby, do the LOCOMOTION!Y M C A!
Great Fun, Great Times, Great Friends!
Sunday, February 08, 2009
Things That Make You Go Hmm
I wish I had more time to blog. I'd like to have a periodic THINGS THAT MAKE YOU GO HMM post. This would be something religious, something political, or noteworthy, which you might find thought provoking, ironic, or even funny.
Today this article caught my attention. I don't intend to bash our new Prez, but we still have the freedom to ask questions don't we?
President Obama lectured voters during the campaign about the need to make sacrifices for the environment. But now it's warm and toasty in the White House -- so much so that aides have likened it to a tropical hot house -- and Obama is under fire for turning up the heat. Obama made climate change a staple of his stump speech last year, calling on Americans to lower their energy use and set a model for the rest of the world in combating climate change. During a campaign event in Oregon in May, Obama said we have to "lead by example." "We can't drive our SUVs and eat as much as we want and keep our homes on 72 degrees at all times," he said. "That's not leadership. That's not going to happen." But for the first few weeks of his presidency, that's precisely what has happened in the White House. Obama's aides had a simpe explanation. Though he's spent more than 20 years in Chicago, the president was born in Hawaii. And so he "likes it warm" in the Oval Office, said Chief of Staff David Axelrod. "You could grow orchids in there," he told the New York Times.
Since TVA has slapped its customers with a whopping 40% rate hike in late 2008, and since Richard is still trying to find a job, we've had to make some drastic changes here at home. We've turned our thermostat down, way down, to 62 degrees. And we've heard whining, much whining and complaining from the kids about this change. And yes, I've done some whining myself. But we've learned to tolerate the temperature and it's been good for all of us. When the kids complain about being cold, I tell them to go put on some more clothes. I also remind them that there are many who are much colder than we are.
I am happy to report, that even with the huge rate increase, our electric bills have remained pretty close to last winter's costs. We've saved some money by being more miserly. Maybe the energy we've saved here at home can help compensate for the increase in consumption at the White House, or maybe not. I suppose if anyone should have the liberty crank up the heat, it should be the President. This just makes me go, Hmmm.
Today this article caught my attention. I don't intend to bash our new Prez, but we still have the freedom to ask questions don't we?
President Obama lectured voters during the campaign about the need to make sacrifices for the environment. But now it's warm and toasty in the White House -- so much so that aides have likened it to a tropical hot house -- and Obama is under fire for turning up the heat. Obama made climate change a staple of his stump speech last year, calling on Americans to lower their energy use and set a model for the rest of the world in combating climate change. During a campaign event in Oregon in May, Obama said we have to "lead by example." "We can't drive our SUVs and eat as much as we want and keep our homes on 72 degrees at all times," he said. "That's not leadership. That's not going to happen." But for the first few weeks of his presidency, that's precisely what has happened in the White House. Obama's aides had a simpe explanation. Though he's spent more than 20 years in Chicago, the president was born in Hawaii. And so he "likes it warm" in the Oval Office, said Chief of Staff David Axelrod. "You could grow orchids in there," he told the New York Times.
Since TVA has slapped its customers with a whopping 40% rate hike in late 2008, and since Richard is still trying to find a job, we've had to make some drastic changes here at home. We've turned our thermostat down, way down, to 62 degrees. And we've heard whining, much whining and complaining from the kids about this change. And yes, I've done some whining myself. But we've learned to tolerate the temperature and it's been good for all of us. When the kids complain about being cold, I tell them to go put on some more clothes. I also remind them that there are many who are much colder than we are.
I am happy to report, that even with the huge rate increase, our electric bills have remained pretty close to last winter's costs. We've saved some money by being more miserly. Maybe the energy we've saved here at home can help compensate for the increase in consumption at the White House, or maybe not. I suppose if anyone should have the liberty crank up the heat, it should be the President. This just makes me go, Hmmm.
Sunday, February 01, 2009
GOT TIDE??
This is what I will be doing all day Monday, and Tuesday, and Wednesday......There's probably at least 10 loads piled up in the wash room. That's not counting all the sheets on the beds, which also need to be changed. When everyone goes to bed and dresses in the morning - there will be even more! Go ahead and laugh1
Thursday, January 22, 2009
The New White House Agenda
OK, the link I posted earlier regarding the "new" agenda is no longer valid. It appears that information is no longer available for what ever reason.
I did find the White House home page with the new administration's agenda for America. You can take a look for yourself and draw your own conclusions.
I know change is coming - but I have to ask myself, At what price??
I did find the White House home page with the new administration's agenda for America. You can take a look for yourself and draw your own conclusions.
I know change is coming - but I have to ask myself, At what price??
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
Easy Printable Recipes Now On Taracooks.com
Hey all you wonderful cooks,
I wanted to let you know that my wonderful hubby has added a new feature to the www.taracooks.com site. All future recipes will have a printable format, without all my extra ramblings and ravings. We've had some requests for this feature and are happy to make this tool available.
See ya in the kitchen
Tara
I wanted to let you know that my wonderful hubby has added a new feature to the www.taracooks.com site. All future recipes will have a printable format, without all my extra ramblings and ravings. We've had some requests for this feature and are happy to make this tool available.
See ya in the kitchen
Tara
Thursday, January 15, 2009
We Could Have Danced...All Night
Many folks who don't know much about us home schooling families think our kids are missing out on "socialization." That topic is subject for a separate post. Honestly, I think our kids would miss out on more social opportunities if they went to "real" school.
Every December our home school group offers the Christmas Formal for students to attend. Tickets are bought, tuxedos are rented, and students and parents attend this formal event. Everyone who attends has a blast. This year, the formal was held at the Five Oaks Country Club. Everyone feasted on an Italian buffet. Each senior gave a short speech. Then the DJ cranked up the volume and everyone danced for hours. I am so thankful for the friendships our kids have made while at HCA. Here are some pics.
Every December our home school group offers the Christmas Formal for students to attend. Tickets are bought, tuxedos are rented, and students and parents attend this formal event. Everyone who attends has a blast. This year, the formal was held at the Five Oaks Country Club. Everyone feasted on an Italian buffet. Each senior gave a short speech. Then the DJ cranked up the volume and everyone danced for hours. I am so thankful for the friendships our kids have made while at HCA. Here are some pics.
Ethan and Chelsie
My Prince Charming
Ethan and his gang of friends
Some many ladies, so little time!
Wednesday, January 07, 2009
My Funny Guy
Here's a vintage 1980's photo of my funny guy. Remember acid washed jeans and mile high bangs? It's good to see those we love happy. My resolution for this year is simply to have more fun. Sat night at 9pm, we decided to join the school group on a ski trip to WV (which was departing at 7am Sun morning). We are certainly glad we came. Although money is tight for us right now, this trip was an incredible deal, and worth every penny spent. I will treasure all the smiles on the faces of my kiddos, but especially my man. It has done my heart good to see him relaxed, smiling, and having a good time on the slopes. He really is a funny guy!
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