Here at this Post you will find a glimpse into the lives of the five Beards. Our life long goal is for God to be happy with us as we live our lives here on earth. We love the home school lifestyle and all the peace it brings to our family. If I could sum up my mission statement as a Mom to three and wife to one, it would be "educating for eternity."
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
A DAY IN THE LIFE OF..................
6:30am -arise, shower, dress - stumbling over suitcase, mound of dirty laundry, and clutter
7:00am -ascend to the attic, pull down Hope's fall winter box of clothes, have daughter try on
8:00am -all fall clothes are either on hangers or in a bag to give away
8:05am - begin the daunting task of a week's worth of laundry
8:15 am - proceed to kitchen to make waffles. It's not too hard because I have the mix made up. Hope can plug in the waffle iron, measure 1 cup of mix, buttermilk, crack and egg and she's good to go. She wants chocolate chips on hers. She's in luck, there are a few in the bag!
8:30 am - time to start school. This is our first year to try this. Hope has a new Latin program and she LOVES it. She picks Latin to start her week. Also, I have the boys up by now to get an early start on chores and school. This place is a train wreck!
Sometime Micah makes his own waffle - with chocolate chips too.
9:00 am - Latin, Cursive Without Tears Handwriting, and Spelling are complete. I've also taken a couple of work calls and have payroll "issues" to deal with. I set Hope up on www.freerice.com to work on her vocabulary while I deal with payroll.
9:30 MATH - not Hope's Favorite and we eventually have a few tears today. Don't they make a MATH WITHOUT TEARS program TOO?
9:50 Ethan leaves for work at the local diner. He works a double shift on Mondays. We won't see him until after 8pm.
10:00am Mommy needs a break from Hope's math as bad as Hope does. I switch out laundry and fold the 3 loads that are in baskets (some laundry was left unfolded from last washing).
10:30 I check on Micah who is working on Algebra upstairs. He moans he's OK. I think some protein and fruit would help his thinking power, so we all have apples and peanut butter for a snack.
11:00 After more laundry and loading the dishwasher, Hope and I head back to the desk for more school.
11:15 Tuna Fish Salad is on the menu today for lunch so I proceed to kitchen to boil a couple of eggs. Return to help Hope. Micah calls for help on ALGEBRA. He's frustrated because he can't tell if his calculator rounds the last digit or not. He's studying terminating and infinite integers. I don't remember studying this in school. I have to look up the answers and work backwards to be able to help him.
12:00 I continue reading MY SIDE OF THE MOUNTAIN to Micah and Hope. I am enjoying learning the things I should have learned a long time ago, with my kids.
12:15 LUNCH TIME. Hope makes GRAPE KOOLAID, we open some fresh LAYS chips and make our sandwiches. We usually go upstairs and watch a 30 minute program like DICK VAN DYKE, or JOHN and KATE PLUS 8. Today we watch VERMINATORS on DISCOVERY. The feature of the day was a house infested with cockroaches. I don't know why we are watching this while eating lunch?
1:00 More laundry. It's time to hit the books again. I review the first 2 chapters of American History with Hope. I am pleased with her progress. She is frustrated she can't remember all the names and places. When I asked her who PONCE DE LEON was - she told me, "Wasn't he the guy who searched for that POND OF YOUTH?" She cracks me up!
Micah is finishing his ALGEBRA and starting SCIENCE.
2:00 Sometime I unintentionally fall asleep on my bed, which is where I was reading to Hope. I wake up face down, my left arm and hand are asleep, in a pool of drool. Hope has gone AWOL since I fell asleep. Ethan calls and needs a phone number.
3:00 I head to town to check the mail at the office. Then head to the bank to deposit a check for work. I'm back home before 4pm. Of course more laundry is washed and dried so I switch and fold again.
5:00 Hope is roaming around bored and telling me there's NOTHING TO DO. So I get her to help me clean my bathroom. Micah cleans the other one. We are all busy cleaning with the stereo cranked up. Things are looking better.
6:15 meatloaf and potatoes go in the oven to bake. Richard is home. Micah mops the kitchen voluntarily - because he's "tired of stepping on crumbs with his bare feet." He also says he'd like to know what it's like to have the whole house cleaned at once. ME TOO!
7:15 We toss a salad and burn some toast. We eat dinner and watch an episode of DICK VAN DYKE.
8:00 Richard's phone alerts an appointment. It says WALK.
8:30 Richard Hope and I set out on a walk in the dark. Hope thinks it would be fun to walk in her PJ's. Micah rides his bike. There is no moon tonight, so it's pretty dark. Ethan arrives home right before we leave.
9:00 pm more laundry, load the dishwasher. Porch swing time with hubby
9:45 reading with Hope
10:00 Tuck Hope in Bed
10:15 Ethan and Micah are doing a Literature Through Movies program this year. They settle down with blankets and THE QUIET MAN with Cary Grant. They will watch a total of 17 classics and write essays on each one. This course is refreshing after so many years of books.
Switch out laundry again. Thankfully my sheets are clean and dry just in time for bed. I check on a couple of home school programs in my TOP 100 PICKS book.
10:35 Clean sheets are on the bed - Richard and I call it a day.
Every day is very different around here. There was nothing spectacular about our day. But I am thankful for our time together. It was a good day, just a long and hard one.
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
Saturday, September 20, 2008
HOW MANY POLOCKS DOES IT TAKE?.......
By the time I got to Nashville, it was after dark. Richard emptied the Amanda's gas can into his tank and we left. Andrea called to let us know that Pilot at 231 still had gas and her husband was able to fill up there. We headed strait to the 231 exit and waiting a while. I noticed there were 2 pumps with no cars. I didn't see the familiar wal-mart bag over the pumps and pulled over to them and so did Richard. We filled up both vehicles. I went back to my in-laws, switched vehicles, and got back in my nearly empty van, headed back to the gas station. The wait was much longer this time. Most of the gas must have been gone from the station. It took me over 10 minutes to pump 16 gallons. By the time I got home, it was after 10pm.
Some days, things just don't work out like you plan them. We were very excited to finally have full tanks of gas. We were also thankful to be home safely. There were 3 people killed in the wreck that shut the interstate down most of the afternoon.
I was upset to read today about the "energy bill" Nancy Pelosi rushed through Congress yesterday. From what I can tell, the bill pretty much locks offshore drilling for the next 30 years. It makes no sense to me...............
Friday, September 19, 2008
NO MORE GAS!!!!!!
Last Saturday, I'd already gone through 1/2 a tank and decided to fill up again. The first 3 places were completely out of all grades of gas. Walmart bags encased the pump handles, and these stations reminded me of some freakish ghost town. This was the first time I'd ever gone to purchase fuel, and there was NONE. After going to 3 stations, I found gas at our Kroger station, topped off the tank and paid $4.19 a gallon which was a bargain, from what I hear.
Later in the week, those gas stations had removed their Walmart bags from the pump handles and everything seemed to be back to normal. I didn't even think to fill up last night before our weekly trip to Nashville today. Of course, I was back on E again, so Dear Hubby put a couple of gallons in the tank to get me to school this morning, and save me having to stop en route.
I had planned to fill up this afternoon at Providence before heading home. One mom from school called to tell me to avoid I-40 because a wreck had shut it completely down. Right after her call another mom called to tell me she'd been past 5 gas stations in Mt Juliet, and they were ALL out of gas.
I figured if I could get back to Lebanon, I'd surely find gas in my home town. We took all the back roads and paths and finally got back to Lebanon. Only traffic was a mess on Main Street. If there were any gas stations which had supplies of gasoline, traffic had blocked all 4 lanes of Main Street. People were waiting out into the street to fill up. The police had arrived and were keeping cars from entering the gas stations since there was no more space to wait in line. I was below E at this point. I manuvered through traffic, made a sharp turn off Main and decided I'd try the Farmers Coop - it's off the beaten path, but they do sell gas. It too was closed down. Kroger was closed with orange cones in the fill up lanes, Kangaroo - closed - and the $$ per gallon numbers had been removed from their sign. In all, I passed 10 gas station this afternoon. 3 of 10 had gas, but these were so overrun with panic stricken drivers I couldn't get to them. I decided it best to simply get home and hope there's enough lawn mower gas in the cans to get me back to town.
Richard just called while I was working on this post. He's on Nolensville Road in Nashville with an empty tank, and can't get near any stations with gasoline. His options are to keep driving until he runs out or just stay put. I don't know if he will come home tonight or not. I can't resuce him if he calls, because I'm empty too!
This is MADNESS! I don't understand how Nancy Pelosi and the majority Democrats can refuse to address our national energy issues any longer. Maybe those who have to walk home tonight will have a lot of time to ponder voting - if there's any gas to drive to the polls come November.
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
Hispanic Outreach - Monday Tutoring
These kids are picked up at their school in the church bus, brought to church, given a drink and snack, and then receive help with their home work. Most of these students can speak English pretty well. The problem is that most of their parents do not speak much English. Therefore, the parents are not able to offer much help with home work. So each Monday afternoon, we help out in any way we are needed. Here are some pics I took a couple of weeks ago.
The amazing outcome through this tutoring ministry is the number of Hispanic children who return for worship services and Bible school. Last I heard, we have 40-50 Hispanic children in our Bible Classes. Sometimes the parents come too.
I'm so happy my children can help out with the tutoring. I think it helps them realize there are many people right here in our home town who need our help. This ministry helps them focus on something bigger and better than self. I hope and pray they always have a passion for helping others. Finally, if my Mom were still alive, I know where I would find her on Monday afternoon!
Thursday, September 11, 2008
REDNECK OIL CHANGE... A "HOW TO" GUIDE
First you must be in the heart of REDNECKVILLE to perform a REDNECK OIL CHANGE. The exact location of this oil change will remain an'namus. But we were campin' in the heart of moonshine country, with ample supply of sticks and snakes over Labor Day weekend.
Next jest whack the tops off those 1/2 gallon milk cartons!
Only the sharpest RED NECKS will think to remove the oil cap from the engine. It makes the oil drain a 'hole lot faster when you remove the plug.
Now hold on to yer britches, we're almost dun. Next ya gotta remember to put da new oil filter on. This may require contortin' the body to get her dun right. Then by all means DON'T FORGET TO PUT DA PLUG BACK. Cars and trucks don't like it much when owners forget to take care of the plug!Next, put that RED NECK oil funnel into the opening of the engine. By da way, this water bottle was the best fit ever and narry a drop of oil leaked from this home made funnel.
Now fill'er up with fresh clean oil. If yer ride has high miles and you been driving a long way to get your moonshine, or to date your cousin, we recommend oil fer high mileage vehicles.Now don't fergit to replace the oil cap after you'uns is finished pourin' in the oil.
Saturday, September 06, 2008
GOD, POLITICS, and "ISSUES" FINAL GO ROUND
The tax burden on all Americans and the growing deficit - I firmly believe that increasing taxes will only send America further into recession. (This was the consensus 20 years ago when I was pursuing my Finance Degree. Something called Trickle Down Economics) Our Govt has proved itself impotent in regards to taxing and spending. So much corruption and waste is involved in the process. Have you considered the combined total of all the tax you pay? Income Tax, State Tax, Sales Tax, Capital Gains Tax, Property Tax, Taxes on every license you need for life and business, Business Tax, Payroll Tax, Inheritance Tax, Social Security Tax, Medicare Tax, tax on electric power, gas tax, city tax, Internet tax, cell phone tax, land line tax, water tax....... And when you die, your family will have to pay tax on your funeral expenses as well. There must be more accountability and responsibility to the taxpayer. I say we appoint a committee consisting of successful small business owners, successful charity organizers, Dave Ramsey, and the lady who runs www.moneysavingmoms.com. Put these people in charge of the budget and lets compare the financial status of the treasury in 10 years.
Illegal Immigration - We can send men to the moon, and yet our leaders cannot lay their hatred of each other aside long enough to find a solution for this problem. Protecting America from future terror attacks should be top priority. Having a secure border is only common sense. However, a compassionate solution should be worked out for our southern neighbors who depend on working here in America for their on survival. I appoint a committee of military and engineer experts to handle securing our borders immediately. I also appoint a committee made up of compassionate people who love God and understand the needs of those wanting to work here, or become Americans. I'd pick Becky and FH Gates - missionaries in South America, Douglas and Vanessa Ribero (Vanessa is Becky and FH's Daughter). She grew up in Brazil, married a Brazilian, is tri-linqual too. She and Douglas work with immigrants in the Atlanta area and know first hand the struggles they endure. I'd put Cindy Spickard (she handles the Hispanic after school tutoring at our church) on the committee too because she understand the educational needs of the children of our immigrants. Cindy Herring would have valuable insight through Healing Hands International.
Defending the Defenseless - The oppressed always need a voice. I'm not comfortable with a global tax to "feed the poor" because of the mess the UN made with the food relief in the past. But I'd much rather pay more for gasoline and keep the price of grain at a minimum. It gives me such joy to privately support relief efforts. I'd rather write my own check and know those in desperate situations will received 100% of my donations than have to hand over more taxes to our govt or worse yet, a world govt and let the bureaucracies decide how much they will keep and what smaller percent would be given to the needy. One of the most compassionate and wise persons I know is my brother Jason. He'd thrive on such a committee and I'd volunteer to help him. I'd also pick the head of C OF C Disaster Relief, Healing Hands International, and Cindy McCain.
Environment and Energy - I probably don't have to say much here. It sickens me that America relies on nations who chant "DEATH TO AMERICA" for anything, especially a valuable commodity such as energy. We are putty in their hands. I say we do what ever it takes to reduce our dependence on foreign energy. George Washington warned that America should not make treaties and trade with ungodly nations. Perhaps the dead white man's words have come back to haunt us? Let's drill and produce our own oil now. The need to develop natural energy is now beyond URGENT, it's an EMERGENCY. Did you know you can now install a solar grid panel system on your home which could power your whole house, not just your water heater? You can also sell any extra unused electricity to the power company! How incredible is that? Let's give a tax incentive to all Americans who switch to this type of energy. Think about the reduction in pollution, energy saved, and money saved if this switch could be made in the next 10 years! Also, give me a hydrogen powered car than I can actually afford to buy - I'd be in the driver's seat in a heartbeat. Maybe a tax incentive to pay for one??
In summary I think most of our problems are rooted in apathy, ignorance, and spiritual sickness. We can't expect our government to solve all our problems. Solutions begin with self first.
Now that's all I have to say about politics. May God bless us with a man of character, integrity, compassion, and endurance as our new Pres. I'm also looking forward to posting some family photos and sharing some other things going on in our lives.
Enjoy your weekend!
Tuesday, September 02, 2008
GOD, POLITICS, and "ISSUES" PART 2
How do such thoughts relate to the approaching election? If I didn't give a care about the future of our children, my fellow countrymen, and God, my voting decision would be a lot easier. I'd consider only my own needs and forget about everything else. But I do care and I feel a tremendous responsibility to make the best decision possible.
So here's my big "ISSUE" for this post. What about WAR? How does God feel about warring with one another? And should America's past involvement in wars affect how we vote? Does God endorse war? Does God use one nation to protect another nation through war? I am speaking mainly of military war here. I have to ask a lot of questions as I con tine this debate with myself.
You don't have to read the Old Testament long before coming to the victory stories where God lead the Israelites through some gruesome battle and countless lives were lost on the opposing side. I've always had a hard time understanding why "DO NOT MURDER" was on God's top 10 list and yet His "chosen" people were really good at making war. The explanation I was always given was basically those nations the Israelites wiped out were unclean anyway. Perhaps that is true - but I am sure Jesus' take on all the slaughtering would be different. You know, the speck of dust in the brother's eye, cast not the first stone, turn the other cheek? I am being humbly honest here, I just have a problem with this.
Then you can read all the history of wars in the past 100 year that America became involved in. What would have happened if nations refused to stop Hitler? He idolized Musolini and patterned his socialist ideas from him. Both Italy and German had become spiritually blind prior to turning socialist and through socialism - the Germans lost their freedom to a tyrant. Since Hitler believed in a MASTER RACE, he called for the killing off of weaker races -especially Jews. Since Germans so readily believed in evolution, they accepted Hitler's ideas. Soon public hospitals began to practice euthanasia and abortion. And tragically, between 1934-1945 over 6 MILLION JEWS were murdered!
America eventually helped Europe put an end to Hitler's reign of terror and to WWII. On Aug 6, 1945, the first atomic bomb was dropped on Hiroshima killing nearly 100,000 people. Another atomic bomb was dropped on Nagasaki 3 days later. President Truman believed using the bomb would result in LESS loss of life than if the war continued. In all over 60 MILLION casualties were estimated as a result of WWII. Millions more were wounded. Following WWII, many small countries relied on America to either liberate them from dictators or to protect these weaker countries from being invaded - Cuba, Guam, South Korea, Venezuela to name a few.
The most controversial war in my life-time is probably the War in Iraq. Saddam Hussein was supposedly responsible for over 2 million deaths of his own people and neighboring countrymen. I've read of the horrifying acts of terror he and those in his service would perform on the innocent. Regardless of how America feels about this war - Saddam was a tyrant.
So my questions in relation to war are these. Should Americans support war at all? Was America wrong to get involved in WWI? WWII? The War in Iraq? Does God expect stronger nations to protect the weaker ones against dictators and tyrants? Do you think He has ever used a nation to stop the suffering of another through war? Is war a necessary evil to prevent worse evils?
I'm sure my humble little post here won't solve anything. I'm mainly thinking' out loud and debating with myself. Feel free to chime in if it helps your thinking and decision process.
I am going to close with a quote from General MacArthur. He noted, "The problem of war and violence had, at its root, the spiritual failure of men, and their need for a spiritual rebirth."
Monday, September 01, 2008
GOD, POLITICS, and "ISSUES"
The reason I'm losing sleep this go round is because there are several issues at stake which are breaking my heart. I can think of no higher compliment God gives humankind, than life itself, full of innocence. While I am thankful cruel partial birth abortions have been banned during the current administration's term, there is much work left for the incoming "team" where abortion is concerned.
Here is my first "politically" related post. There may or may not be more to come. It just depends on how much I am willing to reveal of myself. The following article best resonates my feelings on a touchy issue. Some would argue this issue should not be a pivotal one in any election. Others strongly disagree. I wonder how God would answer this "LETTER TO THE DEMOCRATS" by Father Jonathan Morris. I urge you to please read the article through. It is well worth your time. My heartfelt comment is at the end.
I watched your convention last week. As an independent, I want to share with you my concern for the direction of your Party and its role in preserving the health of our country. I should start by saying my Catholic grandparents called themselves Democrats, even if they couldn’t tell you why. I assumed their lingering loyalty to the Party was fruit of the warm welcome their ancestors received. As immigrants, they were the weak, and the Democrats gave them a home.
This sentimental attachment changed with my parents’ generation. There were a number of reasons, I’m sure, but the Democratic Party’s embrace of legal abortion on demand was the deal breaker that pushed my parents and most of their brothers and sisters to the other side of the aisle. For this new generation of Christian voters, the defense of life was a non-negotiable issue which flowed from their most basic understanding of God and his divine will.
As you know well, over the last twenty years, the Republican Party has taken full advantage of the abortion debate to style itself as the political home for religious and moral values, even though this is not always the case. But many religious Democrats, wittingly or not, have reveled so much in being anti-Republican, that they have hidden their religion under a basket and have dismissed the defense of the unborn as a Republican cause.
And the political polarity has grown and grown, with religion and abortion serving as the great divides.The more I have witnessed this, the more uncomfortable I have felt. In a two-party system such as ours, our country can’t afford to allow one party to have a monopoly on God. That’s why I couldn’t have been more delighted when I saw the plans for a religion-friendly Democratic convention where public prayer, religious belief, and alternative views on abortion (ever so slight, as they were) were to have a place at the table.
But then something happened that brought into question for me whether your Party was on the road to such inclusiveness. Just days before the convention, your presumptive nominee said it was beyond his pay-grade-scientifically or theologically-to know when babies get rights. Then your Speaker of the House, Nancy Pelosi, said that as a fervent Catholic she too has struggled long and hard with the issue, but has now come to agree with a 4th century theologian’s take on human embryology, that pre-born things aren’t human babies (with the right to continue living) because of their supposed incapacity for sensation (St. Augustine’s antiquated argument).
Something very serious was happening. Two very smart people, at the highest levels of your Party, were pointing to science and theology as having something to say about the abortion debate. Yes, Senator Obama and Speaker Pelosi were saying that determining the physical and moral status of a human embryo actually matters. But strangely, Obama hasn’t cared enough to clear up his many doubts and Pelosi has decided to accept the view of an African theologian who lived 1,600 years ago.
Now, Democrats, I would argue the unique approach here by your new leadership of superficial scientific study will be detrimental to your goal of attracting more people of religious conviction. For 35 years, abortion rights in America have been about a woman’s Constitutional right to privacy. But not far beneath the surface of that argument was the scientific and moral assumption that the life in the womb was somehow less of a life than every other life, and so privacy, in this case, should win out. The law, of course, would never allow a woman to take the life of an infant in the privacy of her own home, because an infant’s life is real life, or so the argument would go.
But, warning, if you look seriously at science to re-examine abortion you may jeopardize your current platform and its short-term political force. For over 150 years scientists have known a new human individual comes into being from the union of sperm and egg at fertilization. That is not theology. It is not religion. It is not Republican. It is science.
If as a Party you pursue with Senator Obama and Speaker Pelosi some clarity about the status of the human embryo (a question they both consider important), you will eventually have to make a decision. You will either decide pre-born babies have rights because modern embryologists say they, too, are unique human individuals, or you will be forced to take the very hard line of saying some human individuals just don’t deserve human rights, for whatever sordid reason.
Planned Parenthood and NARAL will be watching. Their influence on last week’s convention is proof of their stranglehold on policy and candidates. At their bidding, the Democratic Party not only reaffirmed its total support of abortion on demand, but also made the new demand that a woman has a right to abortion, “regardless of her ability to pay,” meaning the government has an obligation to use tax dollars to fund it for her.
This old way of thinking of brushing aside the rights of the unborn because, “they aren’t really human humans,” in my opinion, will not stand the test of time because it is anti-science. There are simply too many pictures and videos of beautiful pre-born babies, reaching out their tiny hands or reacting to intruders.
Now is the time for you, rank and file Democrats, to take seriously the science and theology exams that Obama and Pelosi bombed last week. In the short-term, it will hurt — but don’t you agree our country will be much better off in a system where no single Party can claim to stand in for God in the defense of the weakest?
God bless,
Father Johnathan Morris
It breaks my heart that so many innocent lives are ended and those babies never have a chance to contribute to our society as God intended. Now if the Dem's have their way, my hard earned tax dollars will be used to fund abortions - To me that makes me a party to murder. What would God say to that I wonder? No wonder I can't sleep!