My Month in Numbers ~ December 2011

Out with the old….

….in with the new!

10 = the number of inches lopped from my hair.

25 = the number of years since I last had a fringe.

12.1 = the number of mega pixels my new Canon Power Shot has. A vast improvement on the 4.0 of my old one.

5 = the number of family together for Christmas dinner at home.

0 = the number of sprouts cooked by me for that dinner!

19 = The number of family gathered for a sit down bubble and squeak lunch on Boxing Day at the inlaws.

2 = The number of dogs lurking under the tables, waiting for any tasty morsel that might come their way.

All this counting was the clever idea of Julie at Notes on Paper and if you pop over there, you’ll be able to see her very own Month in Numbers.

2 = the number of hours left of 2011, so all that remains is for me to wish you a Happy, Healthy and Creative New Year. I’m looking forward to sharing it with you.

Merry Christmas!

All is calm here. Now that the food is prepared and the presents are wrapped, I can relax. Tomorrow we will be at home and my Mum will spend the day with us.

When I was a little girl we always went to my Gran’s house for Christmas Day and spent it with my cousins.

Here they are resplendent in their seventies jumpers, brown of course. We lost my eldest cousin earlier this year, as many of you will know, and I have been thinking of her a lot this week.

And here I am with my little brother. Happy times.

Wishing you a Christmas filled with love, laughter and perhaps some quiet reflection.

Virtual Cookie Exchange

I’ve seen and heard a lot about Cookie Exchanges, since I’ve been following blogs from across the pond. I think it’s a brilliant tradition and one we would do well to adopt as our own. Beverly happens to be hosting a Virtual Christmas Cookie Exchange today, so I had to join her. Well it would be rude not to!

I’m cheating just a little bit, because I shared this recipe back in May, after a few requests from friends. I’ve converted it into US measurements for this blog post, but you can find the original version here.

Peanut Butter Cookies

For a dozen large cookies you will need:

1 stick of butter

1 cup of soft brown sugar (firmly packed)

1 egg

1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract

2/3 cup peanut butter

1 1/2 cups all purpose flour (not sifted)

1 teaspoon baking soda

1/2 cup chopped bitter sweet chocolate

Mmm…well that was a lot trickier than I thought. I started by using an online conversion site, but it was very complicated and the amounts seemed a bit off. It then occurred to me that the easiest way to do it, would be to weigh the actual ingredients out into my own set of cups.

The method is in the original post linked to above.

If you need more yummy cookie recipes to add to your repertoire, then head on over to Beverly’s place, where you’ll find plenty to make your mouth water.

ETA: It would seem that even our teaspoons are not the same, from one side of the ocean to the other. I think in the US they may be bigger than here in the UK, but I’m reading conflicting advice. If anyone knows the answer to this, I’d be very grateful.

Five Things I’m Loving This Friday ~ It’s a Wrap!

A few ideas for wrapping that special gift.

Brown paper with gold accents from 100 layer cake.

Gift bags made with envelopes from How about Orange.

Typography on brown paper from Bugs and Fishes.

Muslin roses on brown paper (are you sensing a theme?!) from Poppytalk.

Brown paper, doilies, gingham and twine from A Creative Mint.

I’ve made the gift bags from How about Orange, using kraft envelopes (no surprise there then) and they are really simple to do. Very handy if you need to package a gift at short notice. I hope you found something to inspire you among those ideas.

10 Things on the Tenth ~ Deck the Halls

If you are a regular follower of my blog, you will know that I usually post Five Things I’m Loving on a Friday. It should have been Christmas decorations yesterday, but there were so many lovely ideas, I couldn’t choose just five of them. Instead I saved it for today, so that I could go wild and share ten of my favourites.

Tiny fairisle stockings to knit from Little Cotton Rabbits.

Stars made out of re-cycled drinks cans from Milo Made.

A Felty Christmas Tree in rainbow colours designed by Julia Crossland.

No sew Vintage Stockings from Susie Harris.

A table top Christmas Tree made with old book pages from Recycled Lovelies.

A simple Doily Garland from Steph Loves Ben.

A jug full of twigs and pinecones from A Creative Mint.

Punched tin (Pringle tube bottoms) decorations from Fun in the Making.

3D Star Wreath made with scrapbook paper from Little Birdie Secrets.

Winter Ornaments from A Bit of Pilli Pilli.

So that’s my 10 Things. If you want to see a whole host of others, head on over to Shimelle’s place for the full list.

Next Friday’s 5 Things will be ideas for wrapping your gifts. Maybe I’ll see you there.

It’s Behind You!

Over 35 years behind me, now that I think about it.

Christmas plays were a really big thing at my little village primary school. We went all out to put on a great show and it was such an exciting time, my absolute favourite part of the school calendar. I remember this particular year, because Mrs C’s class were putting on the main pantomime of Cinderella and I had recently moved up into Miss E’s class, so I was going to miss out. My little brother is there, in the front row, playing a white mouse. He’s the one on the left.

My class told the tale of St. George and the Dragon and I got the part of St.George. Before I could slay the dragon (I had a bit of a crush on him) I had to first fight the Turkish Knight and banish her him from the kingdom. I had the line, “Be gone thou little heathen knight.” That brought a few laughs, due to my diminutive size.

A team of mums came in to make the costumes and they did a brilliant job every year. I had chainmail painted on the sleeves of my skinny rib jumper with gold paint. I don’t think my Mum knew that would be happening and she was not best pleased when I took it back home!

Mrs H, the school secretary was our wardrobe mistress. We each had to take in a coat hanger with our name on and a bag for any accessories. The costumes were all hung on a rail in Miss E’s classroom and it was a hive of activity on performance night.

During the year there was a partition wall that divided Mr and Mrs C’s classrooms from each other. At the beginning of December that was taken down and the stage was erected at one end of the now seemingly enormous room. I couldn’t concentrate on my lessons, I was too busy running through my lines and imagining myself up on that stage.

The afternoon before the main event we always had a dress rehearsal, to which we invited the older folks of the village. In the morning Mr E, the photographer, would come into school and we’d all have our pictures taken. Something which I’m most grateful for today as I write this. I feel very lucky to have these photographs of such happy times.

I’m a little late, I know, but this memory is brought to you courtesy of Sian’s Storytelling Sunday. I’m looking forward to reading all the other stories later on this week. I’ve really enjoyed taking part, although I didn’t begin until quite late in the year. Thankyou Sian.

That Was The Week That Was

Although it somehow turned into a fortnight.

It’s been a pretty tough couple of weeks around here. Aspergers is the kind of thing that bubbles just under the surface and I never quite know when it is going to erupt. I just know that it will. The triggers are many and varied. I’ve got to know what a lot of them are over the years and learnt to organise things, the best I can, to minimise the likelihood of a meltdown. They can still take me by surprise though.

It’s very hard to watch my lovely boy being taken over by a rage, so strong that he has no control. It hurts to have him scream and shout at me, even though I know he doesn’t really mean it. In that moment it feels like he does. I can’t always prevent my daughter from witnessing these outbursts. I know how distressing she finds it and I feel like I’m failing them both. It makes me feel helpless.

This is the worst time of year in many ways. Returning to school, for the Autumn term, after such a long summer break. It takes that much longer to get back into the routine. Just as we begin to settle in, it’s time for another week off and that sets us back again. Then it’s Bonfire Night, which is no fun when you can’t bear loud (and often unexpected) noises.

Next there is Christmas to look forward to and that brings challenges of its own. It creates an atmosphere, which can be unsettling, when it should be exciting. As the end of term approaches, classes become a little more relaxed and sometimes teachers provide a DVD, quiz or other ‘treat’. This can be an absolute nightmare for a child who struggles with any change in routine and needs the reassurance of the usual boundaries for behaviour.

I do everything I possibly can to keep things on an even keel at home, but the school day is totally out of my hands. Any unexpected thing could prove to be a catalyst. He almost always manages to hold things together while he is at school. It will all pour out, within moments of him walking through door. We are his ‘safe place’, where he can let go of it.

After a meltdown, he often feels physically unwell and always feels terrible for the upset he causes everyone. It’s heart breaking, it really is.

This post is not meant to be a pity party, but I felt like I couldn’t blog about anything else, until I had put this down in words. If you’ve got this far, thanks for reading. Normal service will be resumed shortly and I’ll be back to comment on all your blogs very soon.