Welp, we are one more month away from the boys being a year
old. How is it even possible that they are 11 months? Where has the
last year gone? It is crazy! What happened to the summer, the fall, and the
winter? Life with twins makes the already fast clock fly by even faster. The 11th
month has been a super fun one and I couldn’t love these little guys any more
than I do.
| The TV is in jail... |
We are all but toddlers in the Feuling house these days and
boy are they are ON THE MOVE. My house has been overtaken by “baby jail”, and
because we are dealing with 4 little hands and 2 little curious and mischievous
minds, we have taken baby proofing to the next level. The living room is
completely gated off, the TV surrounded, and the giant shelving unit is
attached to the studs in the wall with safety straps. They get all their own
toys out from the toy shelves all by themselves, are communicating things that
they want more and more, and one hand their bottles like they are just
chilaxing and drinking their milk at the same time. They are getting big, and
they know it. Rarely are either one of them still, and while baby jail helps
some, things are pretty crazy around here. I thought I was busy before, but I had no
idea.
Unfortunately in the beginning of the month our household
was blasted by an awful flu bug. Both boys had it coming out both ends and then
were gracious enough to share it with me. At one point I was standing in the
kitchen holding B while I was barfing in the sink. It was a CRAZY week. Thank goodness for Woolite
Oxyclean carpet cleaner to help get the bright red projectile vomit spots out
of the guest room floor, down the hallway, and everywhere else it landed. I
swear I cleaned up more barf than someone would after a frat party. Fortunately
Michael didn’t catch the plague, but the 3 of us were sick enough that he
didn’t have to catch it to feel bad. Flu is gross.
But on a more positive and less pukey note, Braxton started
out this month (12/30) by actually getting up on his hands and knees and
crawling for real. I think he just got fed up chasing Carter around and not
being able to keep up with him. We were all so excited for B’s new achievement,
but that only lasted a few days before he decided he would much rather stand up
and cruise around anything he could get a hold on in the living room. He can
side step, step over, and go from the couch to the chair to the bouncer to the
TV jail without much effort. I know it won’t be long before he lets go and
takes off. That scares me to death. Carter isn’t too far behind and pulls up on
everything and cruises a bit too, but he is such a speedy crawler that he finds
it much more efficient to just huff it on his hands and knees. He’s right in
most cases because once he’s on the move, he’s hard to catch. It blows my mind that
a month ago we had them at my parent’s house for Christmas without a single
gate in sight and just a box or stuffed animal chair was enough to detour them.
Now they are getting into everything, going where they want, and we are making
GREAT use out of all those play yards we bought for Dudley all those years ago.
Ha.
Baby food is all but a thing of the past in our house and
the boys are eating almost exclusively table food these days. When we go out to
eat they can order off of the kids menu, they want bites of everything I am
eating, and they have an ever expanding pallet. This month they discovered
quinoa, which quickly moved up to the list as one of the favorites. They also
love pickles, pizza, teriyaki, and Mexican. There is no doubt that they are my
children. If it has flavor, spices, and seasoning, they are in, but anything
bland or plain, they could do without. Thai food is next on the list for them
to try. What makes me the most happy is that they love steamed broccoli and cauliflower.
All I have to do is give is a quick steam and toss it with a little sea salt,
or garlic and they self feed like champs. I swore I was going to raise healthy
eating not picky kiddos (their dad doesn’t eat vegetables and is SUPER picky)
and we are headed in the right direction. The only baby food like thing we
really have left are the organic food pouches I have come to love. Seriously, I
owe whoever came up with those things a thank you letter. The fact that I can
take the lid of one of those things, hand a pouch to each kid, and they suck it
out like a straw all on their own makes life easier on all of us. With as much
as we are on the road, these are a lifesaver. Plus it’s a quick way to make
sure they get extra servings of fruit or veggies when we are out and about. Their
favorite flavor is Spinach peas and pear, or banana beet and blueberry. Yum.
| All you need is your brother. |
As I have said multiple times before, both boys are
incredible eaters, but it is so funny how different they are. When you look at
B you expect him to wolf down his food. He eats plenty for sure, but he is a
dainty eater. He uses his little fingers to pinch each piece of food and nicely
place it in his mouth. Carter on the other hand grabs a whole handful and
shoves in as much as humanly possible. The funny party is Braxton still
outweighs Carter. I guess maybe its just that old story of “slow and steady wins
the race.” This month I had to give up nursing and go back on my MS medications. This was one of the hardest things I have had to deal with. I wanted so badly to get them to a year of nursing, but I guess 10 1/2 months was a good go at it. Plus they still have some stored in the freezer so they are getting little bits of it here and there. I cried the last time I pumped, mostly because I knew that breast milk was the best thing for them. But my MS was a little more active at my last appointment than we were hoping and I needed to get it calmed back down. Most importantly I need to be mobile and healthy for my boys, so that takes priority. At least I know they are good eaters and get so much of the good nutrition that they need and 10 1/2 months is a pretty good start.
This month the boys and I were back on the road again (I
know what’s new) and we took a trip home to Seattle and then east across I-90
to Coeur d’Alene where I hosted a bridal shower for my cousin Tiffany. The
twins were rockstars on all legs of the trip. I couldn’t believe how content
they were hanging out with their DVD players, stuffed Mickeys, and the said occasional
food pouches. I shouldn’t expect much
different I guess, after all they have been traveling since they were 9 weeks
old, but I wasn’t’ sure well they would in their car seats for an extended
period of time now that they are so mobile. With a few built in breaks like a
stop at IHOP in Ellensburg where they were chowing down on all you can eat
pancakes, they did awesome and it was no problem for all of us. Next month we
will brave a much harder travel endeavor when we FLY back to Idaho for the
wedding that went with the shower. Wish me luck as I attempt in taking 2 almost
1 year olds on the plane for the first time.
| Those faces make my heart smile. |
I am happy to report that signing is kicking in a whole lot
more now. Carter is deliberately and completely understanding the sign for “MILK”
and when I am not making bottles quick enough he furiously signs milk at me
with a few grunts to make sure I understand. It’s pretty freaking cute. Braxton
is starting to get the hang of “MORE” although it looks a lot more like a D:1
bouncing on a ND:5 (Sorry, interpreters will know what I mean). As long as he
has meaning behind it, I know the dexterity and correct hand shapes will come
with time. What BBoy is a pro at is signing #1. The kid throws up the #1 what
seems like a billion times a day, sometimes on his own, and sometimes when you
ask him to. With the Seahawks heading into the Superbowl this was pretty handy
for me anyway. What a goofball. I try to
encourage signing at every opportunity and I’m hoping it will just click with
them soon.
We hired a new Nanny this month. Our wonderful Danielle got
a once in a lifetime opportunity to take an internship in Rochester, New York
starting in January instead of the end of March. We of course had bittersweet
feelings about her leaving because she really had become part of our family.
However, somehow we lucked out and she had a friend who was interested in
taking on the craziness that is our family. Amanda is our new Nanny and she is
doing awesome. The boys love her and so do we. I am not sure how I got so lucky
to have the child care thing work out so well, but it has for sure been a
blessing.
Carter-man decided this month that he was He-Man and I
randomly went up to the nursery to get them up after their nap and he had
completely pulled down and broken his crib mobile. They are both so big that
when they stand up they can reach so many things and Carter apparently didn’t
think the mobile was necessary any more. So down it came even though it broke
my heart to put away one more “Baby Thing”. Baby things are vanishing quicker
and quicker these days, and I’m not sure this Mama is ready. I don’t think they
care. J
Now that the mobiles are down they are totally enjoying being able to stand in
the cribs and reach for each other. Nap time has become so much harder since they have been able to stand up. I am NOT a fan of the "cry-it-out" method so this means I have to go back in there several times and lay the standers back down, but the end of the month was much better than the start of the month so we are making progress. They are also getting to sleep with their stuffed animals now and like to snuggle more. It will be interesting to see which one picks what animal to be their ongoing lovey as they get older.
| The Ham at his finest with his favorite measuring spoon. |
If nothing else, Braxton is my little ham, and this month it
has gotten even more silly. The kid spends 90% of this days with a big goofy
grin on his face and makes everyone around him giggle too. He’s always been a
pretty happy guy, but the older he gets the more intentional it becomes. He
loves it when you chase him around the living room and he looks over his shoulder
and giggles and giggles knowing you are getting closer. Any time the camera is
out he also gets that same cheesy smile on his face, which has made for some
pretty priceless pictures. This month he discovered that he can shove little
people in his mouth and continue playing. Many times a day I can look over at
him and see ¾ of a famer, airplane traffic controller, or random little person
hanging out of his mouth like a cigar. He also does this with the corn and fake
mustard that goes with his baby bbq. What a nut. BBoy is also my media kid and LOVES to watch
TV or talk on FaceTime. Both boys know what Facetime is, but if you have the
camera turned around and Braxton cannot see who is talking to him he has a fit.
He also is completely dissatisfied by speakerphone because he thinks anytime he
hears someone’s voice he should be able to see them too. Both boys can work my
iphone like they have one of their own. They are definite children of the
technology era and that’s scary.
| If he could be naked all the time, he would. |
The older he gets the more Carter loves Dudley. However this
month he has moved from just feeding him to full on tackling him. We have
actually had to separate the two because they won’t stop roughhousing. I
expected that I’d be doing that with the Twins, not with the dog. Jeeze.
However Carter is turning into my little bruiser. He is rough, tough, and we
are trying so hard to teach him he can’t bite. Michael actually put Carter in
timeout (which was just being forced to stay on Michael’ s lap and not be
allowed to crawl around and play) where he “owed his dad a minute” for biting his brother. Timeout for and 11
month old isn’t so effective, but I had to give Michael credit for trying to do
something since I was at work. Carter also continues to be my little lefty, and
this moth has discovered how much fun it is to throw things. We are working on
playing catch and he’s starting to figure it out. Hopefully we’ll have a south
paw in the family.
Our favorite toys this month include a little person farm
that Danielle bought them for Christmas, their dino popper, and any of the ride
on toys they have accumulated. Both kids like to put shapes and balls into
things and love to pass things back and forth with you. They also are quite
content in their high chairs with some of my plastic serving utensils and wisks
that they can bang on their trays. Of course we could buy them the most
expensive things, and they love wisks the most. Go figure.
And finally I can wrap up this month’s update with the most
fun thing both boys are doing these days. Dancing. They move, grove, and rock
back and forth any time music starts. It is so funny to turn around and see
them sitting on the floor rocking and bouncing along with the songs on TV or
out of their toys. Thank god they are getting their Dad’s rhythm because lord
knows I am not the dancer in the family.
So that’s all from my soon to be 1 year olds. We’ll be back next month with I’m sure more crazy shenanigans. When I became a Mom I knew I was going to love it, but I had no idea it would be this awesome.
| Go Seahawks! #1 |















