HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR 2010

Long weekends but 1 day left...yesterday I went to Jinjin's house for CNY gathering. I wore this cute blue cheongsam top with jeans. Haha. It was a nice gathering though with lots of food but ate only few slices of pizza and a chicken drumstick...shy lah...hehe :P

Finally today I get to relax at home. How I define relax is when I'm able to do the chores and do my own things with peace! Enough abt getting beauty sleep. I'm not like that anymore.(yeah rite!).

I guess this month it's going to be relax at work due to CNY period and promised myself to take care of my health. No more MC already. My incentives got affected pretty bad due to my 1 week MC last month when I looked at my payslip for this month. haiz...but never mind, I can still save though. That's my top wishlist for 2010. Jinjin once told me this quote; 'It's not about how much you earn, it's about how much you save' and I truly agree 100%.

FEBRUARY 2010

Nizam finally got hitched during the weekend. It was Kayden's 3rd birthday as well. Though his wedding was kinda simple but overwhelming with so many guests that I stayed upstairs instead. It was also due to my menses cramps...it was unbearable. Unfortunately I didn't take pictures because I forgot to bring my digicam...

"The real test of true love is having all the things go wrong but there is always special way to love in spite of all the wrong things that may happen..."

Well the word 'marriage' is kinda subjective. It depends how people define it. Some get married because they love their partner while some others got hitched because of such circumstances their partner happens to be pregnant. Or some women wants to get married because they expect their partners to support them and etc. People get married for so many reasons. I brought up this topic because I guess many close people around me are getting hitched this year.

For Nizam I guess he's really fated to be with Siti despite him being a 'playboy'(I'm not kidding!). I guess that was in the past. He's happily married now. For Nadirah's issue, she went through lots of obsticles especially when it's close to her wedding which is like 4 mths from now. I think she need to plan for alternatives in order to really settle down with her partner.

How about me then? How I define the word 'marriage'? Though I think it's still a long way for me but sumhow I begin to understand a lil bit of it.(I guess?) Of course it all started when a man meets a woman and falls in love. Then they are in a relationship. Soon after they begin to understand each other and their differences and accept one another for who they are. Soon as the relationship blossomed they began to talk about going a step further: Planning for the future and what lies ahead of them. Then putting the plans into actions by settling down..THE END! I have to put a 'full stop' here otherwise the story will never end.. I guess I may only know the real meaning of 'marriage' only when time really comes. As of now it's about how I cherish my realtionship with my boyfriend and love him for who he is...as well as his family. A typical advice given by my mum; If you love someone, you'll have to love his family as well and vice versa...

"The purpose of relationship is not to have another who might complete you, but to have another with whom you might share your completeness."