(only not exactly of the romantic sort . . .)
It's starting to become clear to me that perhaps I ought to post more frequently--particularly the later I get in my pregnancy and the more my already weak memory seems to abandon me. By the time Sunday rolls around, the beginning of the week is shrouded in a dim mystery from which I doubt it will soon be uncovered. Suffice it to say I can't remember anything at all about Monday, except that we got through it and we had family home evening on some topic or another.
When I was pregnant with Andrew, Dan and I faithfully captured my growing belly on camera on a month-by-month basis (mostly at the request of family members who weren't around to see things developing). Anyway, with this pregnancy we've quite neglected anything of the sort, but, for those who haven't seen us recently, here's a shot of me at 7 1/2 months.

On Tuesday, which dawned cold and cloudy, I had the brilliant idea of trying to while away some time with Andrew using an idea borrowed from a magazine: use marshmallows and straight pretzels as a kind of edible tinker toy to build things. Of course, Andrew's idea of "building" generally consisted of making a kind of marshmallow barbell, biting the pretzel out of the middle (with two miniscule bites off each marshmallow) and then reaching for new supplies, leaving the sticky remnants of his previous construction on the table. I helped him build the two shapes you see below (a process that took all of five minutes, if that), and then we were pretty much done. As far as an entertaining process, the construction thing wasn't a very big hit. On the other hand, Andrew spent most of the rest of the afternoon eating marshmallows and pretzels and occasionally condescending to share with others (like his grandpa).


Tuesday evening I managed to complete another of my pre-delivery goals: I submitted a chapter of my dissertation to an academic journal. Of course, there's no guarantee that anything will happen after this point, but since the process of turning the chapter (some 50+ pages) into a document under 10,000 words (including works cited) took me several weeks, I thought it merited mention. Besides, I blame this on the shopping spree I indulged in Wednesday night: in a celebratory mood, I convinced my mom to go with me to Gymboree, which was holding their annual spring sale. By so doing, I not only doubled my mom's weekly spendings at Gymboree (she'd spent Tuesday in Park City at the outlet mall, which includes a Gymboree outlet), but I also, apparently, ditched my conscientious visiting teachers who showed up some 20 minutes after we'd left the house. In my defense (if any is possible), I honestly did not remember anything about the appointment. As it stands, I have only a vague recollection of talking about an appointment . . .
Wednesday was a little nicer weather-wise than Tuesday, so I packed Andrew into the car and drove to Jeni's house, where we followed them to a nearby park. The kids enjoyed running around for about half an hour, before our visit met an untimely end when Emi announced that she had to go potty. Since there was no bathroom on the premises (presumably that was going to occupy the concrete building currently under construction), this meant loading all the kids back in the car and returning post-haste to Jeni's house. No one really seemed to mind, though, especially since the older kids retreated to wreck havoc on the basement while Jeni and I made lunch for them.
Thursday afternoon, my mom's sister Myra came into town for a brief visit. Of course, this meant that all of my mom's sisters descended on our house for dinner that evening. I personally enjoyed listening to them exchanging stories, but I think Dan was secretly a little glad for the excuse of Andrew's bath to retreat into the basement. Of course, when they started exchanging war stories about their respective foot surgeries and comparing foot structures, I had to relinquish the field as well! Still, it was nice to see everyone.
Not much happened on Friday. Andrew and I hung around the house in the morning (I think Andrew may have watched Cinderella, which is his newest Disney discovery--although she can't touch Belle in his affections), and then I took him with me while I did my visiting teaching. At the first home my companion and I visited, the almost-two-year old daughter greeted us at the door sans clothing. Andrew seems to have been much taken with this, since for the past two days he keeps repeating at random moments that "Abby was naked." (Incidentally, we were quite amused to see this same little girl this morning, determinedly walking to church in Belle princess shoes that were about three times the length of her tiny feet). But the visit wasn't without other distractions: this family also has a pet bunny, which was a big hit with both Andrew and my companion's three-year-old son. Friday afternoon I took Andrew to see the doctor--he'd been coughing a bit the last few days and was pretty congested and we thought it might be allergies. The doctor confirmed as much, but also said Andrew had an ear infection, so it was just as well that we took him in. I'm hoping that the ear infections were the explanation behind his 5:40 a.m. wake-ups this week, rather than a new trend.
Saturdays, of course, are always our busy days. This week was no exception. Dahnelle (my mom's next oldest sister) had invited everyone to her home for brunch. She just moved into a beautiful home on the side of the mountain in Draper (south Salt Lake) with a spectacular view of the entire Salt Lake Valley. Jared came with Joshua and Brielle, and Jeni brought her kids, so it was a fun cousins reunion for the kids. And I suppose I got to see a few of my cousins as well . . . Dan commented afterward on how taken my aunts all seemed to be with the children, but I figure it wasn't so surprising since, with the exception of my mom, none of the sisters in her family have grandchildren and they'd clearly all like some! Emi seems to have adopted my aunt Tera--she nearly wouldn't let go of her when it came time to leave. This was amusing to me, since I remember a time, some 25 years ago, when her mom was just as attached to Tera. My aunt Myra gave Jacob permission to blow milk bubbles in his cup, and, as you can see, he was pretty elated--and pretty proud of how high he could make the bubbles go. (Andrew and Emi both insisted on trying, with much less successful results).
Neither Brielle nor Enoch were very conciliatory towards strangers--both were pretty much attached to their parents for the duration of their visit. Still, they were pretty cute (even if Enoch does look a little dazed in this second picture here).

Jeni and I had planned on taking the kids to Thanksgiving Point after the brunch for a Baby Animal Birthday celebration. We even talked Jared into bringing his kids with us. (Well, actually I think Joshua did the persuading, since he didn't want to be separated from Jacob). However, this proved to be a singularly unfortunate outing. We didn't leave the brunch until later than we'd planned, arriving at Thanksgiving Point just after noon. Dan and I got a little lost trying to find the barn, and Jared, who was following us and assumed we knew where we were going, got lost with us. Luckily, we got reoriented pretty quickly, but this didn't improve tempers (in our car at least) any. We finally found the right location, parked, unloaded all the kids and found Jeni (who hadn't gotten lost, but who was last in our little entourage and so none of us noticed her taking the right turn-off) only to discover that a) there was a huge line to get into the farm country and b) it was really cold and windy at the point. After a few minutes of discussion, we decided it would be better to come back next week when not everyone else in Utah County would have the same idea. Unfortunately, this decision did not sit at all well with Andrew, who was devastated. He had his little heart set on seeing some baby animals in the barn. As we drove away from Thanksgiving Point, he sobbed, "But I weelly want to stay and see the animals!" I was all for turning around then and taking him back, but, luckily, saner heads (i.e., Dan's) prevailed. After crying desperately out for some ten or fifteen minutes (not all our promises of returning next week could soothe him), he finally quieted and then fell asleep before we reached home. Dan had tried to tell me that about 90% of Andrew's tears were born of exhaustion, but I was having a hard time resisting the appeal in his tragic face--I don't think I've ever seen him quite so disappointed. Hopefully we'll have a more successful report from next week!
After Andrew woke up from his nap, we tried to distract his mind from his animal woes by taking him to a local park. The park had a lavish spread of tulips in full bloom, so we had to take a few pictures for Bubby. I have to say, these were much more impressive than what I saw at the tulip festival last week--and much, much cheaper!

Andrew was particularly excited by some swings we discovered at the far side of the park, a neat little contraption with three extra long swings attached to a circular frame that moves in the wind. The chains on the swings were long enough that Dan could easily give Andrew an "underdog," and Andrew squealed delightedly the entire time. I wish I could have caught a better picture of his face, but this is the best I could do.
We also took Andrew to the pet store to satiate his quest for animal life. However, we did have to do some explaining: we wouldn't be seeing any cows or sheep at the pet store. (We didn't realize Andrew was confused about this until, on our way to the store, Andrew asked suddenly: "What is Daddy going to sit on?"--meaning, what kind of animal is Daddy going to ride?). We were particularly amused by Andrew's reaction to a black lab we saw with its owner in the checkout lab: "I love baby doggies. They're SOOO cute!"
Our other favorite Andrew anecdote from this week: my dad asked Andrew what was on Dan's face. Dan explained that they were whiskers (he hadn't shaved for a couple of days). Andrew said, "They're fake fur!"
Last, but not least, we've included a little video of Andrew "singing." He's started this new thing where he makes up songs to accompany what he's doing. In this one, you can't hear much except a kind of moaning for the first little bit, then, if you listen, you can hear him say/sing "take a picture of me singing my song" and then he starts listing off all his animals.