The weather, for the most part, was beautiful and clear--although it was a bit cold in Cedar City. We woke up Thursday morning to snow, which Dan and Robert shoveled off with (or in spite of) Andrew's help. Andrew was mostly just thrilled to be going outside, which was one of his most frequent (and frequently denied) requests all week.

Later that morning, we drove down to Saint George, to help Sarah in her Thanksgiving preparations, prior to our group trip to Sarah's inlaws home for our Thanksgiving feast. On the way, of course, we had to stop at a local Mexican dive (Dan would know the name, but he's not here for me to ask--a sneak peak at Bubby and Poppy's blog tells me it was Alvaro's), to get enough food to sustain us until the Big Meal. Sarah had preparations pretty well underway (despite the numerous children underfoot), so all Dan and I really had to do was child patrol (which was easier said than done, especially since Andrew and Lydia, in typical toddler fashion, were really only interested in the specific toy the other one had).
We were a little late heading over to the Wells' home for dinner--not because we weren't ready on time, but because we were waiting for Sarah's husband, Aaron, to get off his shift at the hospital. Dinner, in the grand tradition of Thanksgivings all over the world, was quite good and quite chaotic. Sarah's in-laws had three of their children there, with attendant children, in addition to Robert, Trisha, and our little brood. To add to the confusion, Sarah's mother-in-law had not apparently reckoned on the toddlers when she set the tables (which were beautifully laid), so there was an additional moment of disorientation while we sorted out where to put everyone. (I suppose she must have thought that the little kids could sit on their parents laps, but there was no way this would work with Andrew, who not only weighs too much, but would never sit still that long without restraints). Dan and I ended up at the kid's table with Andrew. I never knew that the conversation of a group of eight year olds could be so, well, odd. It was a fascinating ethnographic experience to follow the topics that seem to obsess them (Hannah Montana, scary movies, the longest book they've ever read . . .).
I'm not entirely sure what happened in the aftermath of dinner (though I'm told that Aaron ate a heroic amount of food, and I'm sure the others weren't far behind), since we took Andrew back to Sarah's house for a late nap, where he was shortly joined by his cousin Lydia, and I ended up on baby duty while everyone else went back for more food. I didn't mind so much--I did some reading, surfed the web a bit, and got to enjoy a little alone time (a scarce, but necessary, commodity for an introvert at a family gathering!)--at least, not until Lydia woke up screaming and wouldn't let me touch her, followed within a matter of minutes by a crying Andrew. Lydia finally let me pick her up, but then I had to hold her and Andrew, both sobbing heart-brokenly, until Sarah could come rescue me. I have seldom been so happy to see another person--and my relief was nothing compared to Lydia's! That evening, after Andrew went to bed, Dan and I played Crowns with Robert and Trisha, and Trisha, of course, won handily.
Friday was another big day--at least for the Rogers' family. Trisha's family regularly holds a family get-together called "Dutch Christmas" (so-called because Trisha's grandmother hailed from Holland). This year, Dutch Christmas was at a park in Ivins, just outside St. George, which was a perfect site, as it provided ample room for the kids to run around. Andrew, of course, divided his time and attention between the tallest slide on the playground and the sandbox (we'll spare you a description of how much sand we found in his diaper).

He also discovered a latent talent for soccer, as he gleefully ran around the field saying, "kick, kick" and knocking the ball around.

Of course, the real highlight of Dutch Christmas (besides the food, of course) is the gift exchange. Traditionally, every gift comes with a poem that gives clues to the contents of the gift as well as the giver's identity. Since Trisha gave Dan and I the assignment of writing her poem, this momentarily stumped the audience, who figured out what the gift was and who it was from, but couldn't quite figure out the poem, as it wasn't Trisha's style or Robert's. I had written a particularly flowery piece to describe the "tea-party-in-a-box" that Trisha put together, with a brief nod to T.S. Eliot's poem, "The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock" (specifically, a nod to the oft-repeated refrain, "in the room the women come and go, talking of Michelangelo"), and was irrationally pleased when Dan's cousin and her father both asked, "who here knows T.S. Eliot?"

At any rate, the party seemed to be a success--at least, until a cold north wind broke up the festivities (well, they were relocated to the nearby home of one of the family members). We were among the first to leave, a mere four hours or so after the party started. On our way home, we stopped at yet another Mexican restaurant (this time, Albertos), where Dan and I enjoyed burritos of various flavors, and Andrew had his first experience of carne asada fries (french fries covered with meat, cheese, sour cream, guacamole, and some kind of salsa)--actually, I think most of the fries were eaten by his parents and his cousin Lydia. Andrew was too tired by then to enjoy much. Andrew had a wonderful time running around with hordes of cousins and second cousins, but as a result of all this spent energy and no nap, he was asleep before we hit the freeway shortly after five p.m., and only woke up for a little while when we reached home before zonking out for the night. We played cards again that night, a pretty competitive game of hand and foot--competitive, that is, until Robert and Trisha completely shut us out in the last hand, thereby effectively trouncing us.
Trisha organized a family tea party for Saturday morning. (And by "organized," I mean that she gave Dan and I the assignment of making the scones that constituted most of the repast!). I woke up to the smell of bacon frying and realized I was being remiss in my duties--I went upstairs to help Dan make the scones, one batch savory (bacon and cheddar scones), and one sweet (sour cream scones with a lemon glaze). The scones, especially the sweet ones, were a big hit. We also had some nice peach tea in Trisha's beautiful china tea set--even Andrew is slowly learning how to treat Trisha's tea cups gently. After breakfast, we took Andrew over to Discovery park--which is an absolutely amazing park for little kids, with a big fortress, lots of slides and swings, and creatively themed decorations. Andrew had fun sliding on the slides (in the snow, which meant he was soaked by the time we were done), but as the morning was brisk and cold (and Andrew was due for lunch and a nap), we didn't stay as long as Andrew would have liked.
Saturday afternoon, Sarah brought her kids up to Cedar City. While the men stayed home to hang up Christmas lights, we took Jake, Katie, and Andrew to the Cedar City Children's Christmas festival. (Lydia stayed home to nap, and I don't think any of the husbands were particularly disappointed at being left home). I wasn't sure quite what to expect from a small town festival, but I was pleasantly surprised by the intricate arrangements of Christmas trees that were set up. As you can see from the pictures below, they had trees for almost any child's (and some not-so-young children's) fancy.
For Trisha, of course, there was a miniature tea party, courtesy of Alice in Wonderland.

For all the little girls, there was an enchanted collection, with trees devoted to each of the Disney princesses (Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty, Belle, Ariel--there was even a Tinkerbell tree).

And of course, Jake's favorite part was the pirate cove.
I also had to include a few pictures for some of Andrew's absent cousins--the care bear, tree, of course, is for Emi.

The festival also had an elaborate "North Pole" set-up, with stuffed bears, penguins, wolves, etc. arranged artistically in a room that could only be entered via an igloo. Plastic snow-flakes and icicles dangled from the ceiling, testimony not only to someone's creativity, but to hundreds of volunteer hours putting everything together. Of course, since we arrived at the festival during the local Christmas parade, Santa was "out to lunch," but the kids still enjoyed looking at the decorations. Andrew, in particular, surprised me by pointing to one of the reindeer (they had all 9: Dasher, Dancer, Prancer, Vixen, Comet, Cupid, Donner, Blitzen, and Rudolph) and announcing delightedly: "caribou!" That he knew this word is no doubt testimony to the fact that he's watched the "Baby Noah" video (of the Baby Einstein group) way too many times--but it does also suggest that *some* learning happens when watching those videos, contrary to recent published reports.

Downstairs, they also had a few activities for children and some booths selling Christmas crafts. While Sarah and Trisha browsed, Andrew and Katie decorated sugar cookies. (For Andrew, this consisted of dumping as much of every kind of sprinkle as possible on his cookie. And, for a first in his cookie eating career, he actually ate the entire cookie, instead of just licking off the frosting. Of course, he also made a huge mess in the process . . .)

We came back to find that the boys had been successful in stringing their Christmas lights, and celebrated our mutually successful excursions by going to Bruno's, a local place that serves primarily Italian type food. While the grown-ups had some very tasty pizza, the kids worked on spaghetti and meatballs. Andrew split a children's portion with Katie--and if he could have licked his plate, I think he would have. He not only polished off all of his pasta, but he also finished off Lydia's leftovers. We returned home happy and well-fed, and while we attempted to play cards (hand and foot again) after the little kids had gone to bed, our efforts were aborted by Lydia's stubborn refusal to follow the plan and actually go to sleep. After Lydia had screamed in her crib for twenty or thirty minutes, Sarah gave up and packed her kids up for home. After they left, Dan and I played a couple rounds of pincochle with his parents (they won both times--I'm noticing that our track record for games wasn't very good this weekend!) before calling it quits.
We had a leisurely morning this morning--I even got to sleep until almost eight o' clock! (Andrew, of course, was up at quarter to six, but since he promptly went upstairs to have a "tea party" with his Bubby, I wasn't much fazed by that). We went to sacrament meeting with Robert and Trisha (where Andrew transformed into his evil twin Andy and had to be taken out in the hall for almost half of the meeting) before heading back up to Provo. It's been a nice weekend--nice to be "home" in Cedar City with Dan's family, and nice to be home again facing the prospects of our own beds.
















