12.27.2007
12.22.2007
Christmas Morning, 1 of 2
We had a wonderful family Christmas this morning. I was amazed at how excited and appreciative and happy the kids were with their 3 presents. Eli got a blue elephant towel, a fire truck, and a tool set. Oh, and he got an Eric Carle puzzle... guess that makes four. Oops. Anyway, it really taught me a huge lesson in simplicity and keeping the right focus during Christmas. I'm so incredibly blessed with two grateful children, not by anything I've done, but by God's design. They never even think to ask for more presents, to be unhappy with anything they have, or to beg and cry for things they didn't get.
I wish the world could have seen Eli's face when he opened his fire truck. In that moment, he was truly the happiest boy on earth. He impressed us with his ability to put his emotions into words joyfully saying, "Happy fire truck! Happy! I'm SO happy!" He was almost as happy with his blue elephant towel, and insisted on wearing it for at least an hour after opening it. As soon as I saw that thing at the store, I knew he had to have it, even if I had already bought the allotted number of Christmas gifts. Now I'm so glad I did.
12.20.2007
Daddy Blog: Morning Helpers
I have apparently developed a reputation in my house for being forgetful. Nearly every morning I am reminded to grab my keys and my lunch before heading out the door. The keys reminder usually is initiated by Eli and involves standing with his sister in front of the keys hanging on the wall and chanting in monotone, “keyskeyskeyskeyskeys.” Cute, but mildly freaky.
12.17.2007
It Takes Two to Tackle

Both kids think it's insanely funny to hug and laugh and hug and pull until both tumble into a pile on the floor. Of course, Chloe always finds it much less funny when Eli ends up on top instead of her. The uproarious laughter always ends with "Eli! I know you don't mean to hurt me! But you. are. hurting. me. REALLY. BAD! GET. OFF! (whine..whine...wail)"
12.09.2007
22 Months
He has really grown and changed and matured so much since the last time I wrote a substantial post about him. His vocabulary never ceases to amaze me, and although he doesn't know all of the letters and numbers yet, he has recently developed a great deal of interest in learning them. It's been neat to see him follow in his sister's footsteps in some ways, while being completely different in so many others. He has recently started pointing to the letters on my Carolina sweatshirt (I wear it a LOT, I am a SAHM, afterall ;) ) and naming them with random letters. Chloe learned her first letters by doing the same thing! On the other hand, he still thinks the only purpose of puzzles is to see how many directions you can get the pieces to fly when you sling them across the room.
I think that Eli is going to be my math child. While he does love books, especially manly truck ones, he is particularly quick to catch on to number related games. The other night at the table, he pounded a saltine into a million pieces, then proceeded to count them, reaching the number 17 with nary a mistake! I had never heard him count past 3 before, so I was certainly stunned.
He is completely excited about Christmas, and loves to look at lights, and touch things that aren't to be touched. Though, admittedly, after the first couple of days, he has been quicker to obey than to touch and break.
He loves to sing. He and I do a mean duet every night at bedtime of You Are My Sunshine. It's Billboard material, for sure.
He wants to be bigger than he is. He still can't jump, but he does a mean somersault. He spends his days adoring his big sister, and trying to be just like her. He is still a comedian, a cuddlebug, and a ladies' man. He brings joy into our home, along with a load of stress, but it's good for me!
Favorites:
Songs- You are My Sunshine, Away in a Manger, Eskimo Love
Foods- Pizza, Oranges, Peaches, Grapes, Fruit Snacks, Goldfish, Hot chocolate (aka "coffee")
Things to Do- Bug Sissy, Go to Park, Cry in the Swing, Go to the Store, Cry in the Cart, Go to Church, Cry in the SS nursery (never in the toddler nursery though), Playing every kind of ball (and he knows the name of each), Putting non-edible things in his mouth
Things He Likes- Train Tracks, Elephant, Christmas Lights (which he calls "Dora lights" for whatever reason), Airplanes, Flirting with the little girls
TV- Thomas, Barney, most of PBS Kids
12.07.2007
A Picture's Worth a Thousand Words
11.28.2007
Haircut Numero Two
Turned out pretty good despite the crying, screaming, and curling up into the fetal position while strapped into a beauty parlor chair.
11.01.2007
10.22.2007
Pups and Fluffy
10.11.2007
10.09.2007
20 Months
He also has become even more attached to his beloved Elephant. A new favorite song is sung to find him for every nap, bedtime, or car ride throughout the day. To the tune of "Square, Square, Where Could You Be?" it goes
Elephant, Elephant where can you be?
What do we look for and what do we see?
It's a trunk, it's a tail, it's a really bad smell
And a great cloud of germs that surrounds you.
He loves Mommy and comes in to my room to cuddle every morning at 5:30ish. He is a very good snuggler.
He wants to run and jump and flip and climb like his sister, but just can't yet. He tries so hard. He can, however, throw a football like nobody's business. He also occasionally catches. A feat that Chloe has yet to accomplish.
Favorites:
Food- one bite of anything, still. He prefers a liquid diet.
Books- Truck books, Bible, Goodnight Moon, The book with the sticky cake, Thomas (the abridged version)
Activities- Watching song videos- esp. ABC, Being tickled, Snuggling, Running, Chasing, Stealing whatever Chloe is holding and then running quickly away while laughing like a maniac and then crying hysterically when said object is taken away and his fun is ended, Going to "School" and playing with "friends", Baboons (balloons)
Songs- The Lord's Army, Itsy Bitsy Spider, If You're Happy and You Know It, Open/Shut Them
9.18.2007
Eli's Big Boy Bed
I can't believe what a great deal we got on Eli's new bed, and I can't believe I don't have a baby anymore. He slept through last night until 7:15 this morning (with the exception of the time I peeked in on him and it woke him up). I hope this keeps up! It looks much, much cooler in person :)
9.13.2007
9.12.2007
19 Months (and 4 days)
My eater has once again stopped eating. He went nearly a full week without more than a cracker or two a day, and has suddenly become quite fickle. I'm doing what I can to take it in stride. After all, his appetite has always been dramatic, waxing and waning drastically from week to week.
He has learned to unlock the deadbolt and quietly exit the backdoor, making things a bit interesting for me. He has a great teacher and sidekick who eagerly follows him into all kinds of mischief.
Favorites:
Food- Mostly just his milk cup, Chicken, Lemonade, "One Sip"
Books- His truck book from the library
Songs- Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star; Altar of God from Glory Revealed (he does a great harmonica for that song); Head, Shoulders, Knees and Toes
To Do- play with trucks, play outside, go places, follow Sissy, roughhouse with Sissy until tears are shed, chase Daddy
9.04.2007
8.31.2007
How Do I Love E? Let Me Count the Ways.... (an abbreviated list)
2. He cracks me up when he squints his eyes shut as hard as he can, puts his hands together into one balled fist, and is completely silent for a moment then yells, AMEN!
3. His love for trucks is adorable.
4. He loves attention and will turn on the repeat button when he notices he got a laugh.
5. He talks to everybody.
6. He's a really nice guy.
7. He runs all rigid with both arms out in front.
8. He loves his sister like nothing else.
9. The way he slurps his elephant tail. Disgusting, but sweet.
10. The way he takes care of Chlo's babies and gives them cuddles and kisses.
11. When we are at a park or the mall play area, he plays hard, but runs over every few minutes for a kiss and a cuddle.
12. His eyes light up when he sees me.
13. He can't walk in heels.
14. He cries for me everytime I drop him off, but immediately starts playing when I'm out of sight.
15. His voice is all low and gravelly like a young Johnny Cash.
16. He loves "Ashes, Ashes", and always wants to spin.
17. The way he mimics other little boys is hilarious.
18. He keeps me on my toes.
19. You always know how he feels about a situation.
20. He'll eat anything once.
21. He loves the great outdoors.
22. He loves church.
24. He can't jump yet, but he spends so much time trying.
25. He shoots me with lasers.
25. He makes the funniest George W. Bush faces.
26. He LOVES dogs.
27. He chooses Daddy over cookies, and chicken over ice cream.
28. The way he bows his head for me to kiss his crown when I say "Kiss Please."
29. The boy can throw!
30. I love how much he loves me.
8.21.2007
8.15.2007
Daddy Blog: Daily Report
8.14.2007
Seeing Red, Revisited
I found an interesting article from the NYT, written only a month ago, but before the big Mattel recall. A second recall, of unprecedented proportions, is set to be announced by Mattel later today. If they are the gold standard, I would hate to know who holds the silver and bronze.
8.13.2007
18 months (and some days)
Everyone loves Eli. He is such a people person, melting even the most thuggish hearts. It amazes me to watch him interacting with people, with no respect to persons. No matter who walks by our front porch or our shopping cart or our stroller, they receive a bright-eyed, smiling, "HEY!" that demands a response. If he is ignored and gains no reply, the "Hey, Hey, Heys" will persist until the recipient finally breaks and replies. Even the hardest ones usually give in with a grunted, "Hey Kid," giving Eli great satisfaction. His smile lights up a room, and everyone at church loves to see him come. He is funny and full of life.
Eli is quite the private eye, always noticing things. His favorite things to spy out are balloons and trucks. Not one within a mile radius are able to sneak beneath his super powerful radar.
Thanks to Chloe, his name has been shortened even further, and the girls of the family usually refer to him as simply "E". He doesn't seem to mind. In fact, I think he may like it. He loves his sister so much. His whole countenance lights up when he hears her yell, "Come on, E! Come play with me!" from another room. He immediately takes off running. Of course, he still loves his Mommy above all, and is most content when she is less than 6 inches away.
Favorites:
TV- Cedarmont kids
Books- Truck books (he always manages to find one at the library when I let him look for his own book), the Noisy Grasshopper, Eli's book (Good Morning, Good Night), and a paragraph here and there from his Toddler Bible
Things to Do- water play, playing with Thomas and Salty, tearing up Chloe's puzzles, running, jumping, sliding, jousting, throwing balls, getting into mischief
Places to Go: story-time at the Library (though not the actual stories), church, the pool, the park, the store, pretty much anywhere out of this boring (to him) house
8.03.2007
Seeing Red
Before you panic, no one here has had any symptoms of lead poisoning, thanks entirely to the grace of our most loving God. It's not because we have the right water hose and own only completey wholesome, incredibly expensive, non-China toys. And it's certainly not because our children are perfect examples of politeness, exhibiting only acceptable societal behaviors. To this day, everything Eli sees goes in his mouth. I am still performing the fingersweep multiple times a day. While for the most part we stick to classic, wooden toys, we did have one Dora toy that found its way into the trashcan last night.
Like all of America, we've been making a habit of checking labels, adding an extra half hour to every grocery store errand. We don't buy anything with partially hydrogenated oil. We know high fructose corn syrup tastes great, but it might just kill us. Trans-fats are a no-go. Because we care, because we love our children and want to do right by them, we take the time to read and buy responsibly. Since we don't buy foods that are potentially harmful to our bodies, why do we insist on supporting China's lead-tainted toy production, knowing well that these will also end up in someone's little, innocent mouth? We won't give our kids a real fruit roll-up or a not-so-real chicken nugget, but they can suck on Dora's face anytime they please. Let's stop the double standard. Read labels. All of them. Buy American. It just makes sense.
7.27.2007
7.20.2007
Shave and a Haircut, Two Bits
Today was a bittersweet day, Eli's very first haircut. The first haircut of either children, actually. I had no idea it would be such an emotional time. We went to JJ's Kids Cuts, and Suzette did a wonderful job.


DURING
RAZOR TIME
7.19.2007
Live By the Sword, Cry By the Sword
7.16.2007
In the Middle of the Night, He Goes Walking in My Sleep
7.14.2007
Daddy Blog: Twinkle, Twinkle
7.08.2007
17 Months
He of course is still my boy, and I love him. He is super playful and fun, and full of personality. He loves to run fast, turn everything within reach into a sword or dagger, break and throw things, and torment his sister. He has a ton of new words, and is so cute pointing and saying new things.
Favorites
Songs: Down By the Station, Row Your Boat
TV: Cedarmont kids, Blue's Clues
New Words: trash, Grandpa, Crocs, Choo-Choo All Aboard!, granola bar, Night-Night, Poop (when he needs a new diaper), Thank You!
Our Yankee Doodle Dandy
Eli loved our holiday trip. He had the most fun at the beach. Ocean Isle, to be exact. It was the only one he made it to. The bad nights mentioned in Wormy's post led to an illy Eli who didn't quite make it with us to Holden Beach, and fizzled out at Mimi's Beach before the camera even made an appearance. A couple of splashes in the wading pool and a few times being an annoying roadblock on the Slip-N-Slide, and his work was finished. At the beach, he especially loved being in the sand, and decided to dump bucketfulls on himself just as it was time to go. He loved being in the water as long as he was in Mommy's arms.




7.07.2007
A New Home
6.28.2007
6.27.2007
Traditions Revived
6.21.2007
Ry-Guy Turns Five
Eli had lots of fun at Ryan's big bash. He ran around training for Armageddon for awhile before he moved on to licking bubbles off of the wand. Men. They'll eat anything. "Soap? What's that for? I don't know. Hey, I have an idea, let's eat it!" Soon after, he broke down and spent the rest of the afternoon in Mommy's lap. No worries! He got to enjoy his pizza and cake from there.
(Here he is with his mentor.)
Eli-"Attaaaaack!!"
Aaron-"Ugh, will he never learn? Finger on the trigger, man!"
6.18.2007
Father's Day
Rocking in his own personal rocker before church.
Hands and knees and Sunday best. A classic combination.
The man of the hour.
Our new favorite hang out spot. In the left corner you can see the garden stones the kids and I made for Father's Week.
6.08.2007
16 months
He has been sick with a really icky cold for a week now, making him pretty much the most unpleasant creature on earth to be around. He is whiny and clingy and pretty much unhappy in all things. I hope it passes soon.
Favorites:
Activities: attempting to master the shapesorter in short spurts, Cedarmont kids videos (will it never end?!?), bugging Chloe, tearing things up, yelling, trying to run and jump
Songs: Itsy Bitsy Spider, Wheels on the Bus, Head/Shoulders/Knees/Toes
Books: The Noisy Cricket, Goodnight Moon, Good Morning/Good Night
5.30.2007
Daddy Blog: Master of Covil Girl Antagonizing
Mommy (excitedly): “Eli, tell Daddy…what does a duck say?”
Eli (equally excited): *makes munching noise*
Mommy: “No, that’s a bunny. What does a duck say?”
Eli: *makes munching noise*
Mommy (slightly annoyed): “No, no. A duck. What does a duck say?”
Eli: *makes munching noise*
Mommy: “Ok. What does a bunny say?”
Eli: *high pitched screech*
Mommy (exasperated): “No! That’s a whale!”
Eli: *grins*
5.29.2007
Different Blog, Same Excuse
This is why I haven't been blogging. That and pure laziness. Maybe a few pictures will tide us all over until this famine ends....
Lancey
5.15.2007
5.10.2007
15 months (and 2 days)
At fifteen months Eli is incredibly active. He is a good runner and climber and we even saw him jump with both feet off of the ground. Chloe still can't do that! Although, to be fair, we think it was an accidental achievement.
He is becoming more obedient, and is still easy to put down at bedtime and will eat anything you put in front of him. A refreshing change from his counterpart.
Favorites:
Toy- whatever Chloe has
Book- Goodnight Moon and The Noisy Cricket
Food- whatever Mommy is eating
TV- whatever Chloe is watching
Things to Do- be outside, aggravate Chloe, take a bath, push trucks, laugh and smile
Words:
Truck
"Thank you"
"Right there"
More
Milk
Choo-choo
Bible
Moon
Cat
Bubble
Star
"Ashes, Ashes" (from Ring Around the Rosie)
light
on
off
"All Done!"
"All Gone"
bath
Grace
Mama
Dadda
tree
house
5.02.2007
Pullen Park
Laughter is the Best Medicine
4.28.2007
Strawberry Fields
Finally! Eli can eat something off of the ground without Mommy performing the fingersweep! Unfortunately, he thought the new freedom carried over and added picking and eating clover flowers to his daily outside snack of sidewalk chalk, pebbles, sand, and bubble solution.
YUM!
4.24.2007
More From Mimi's
Making Sense
Water Fun
4.15.2007
14 months (and one week)
Eli is so extroverted- completely different from the rest of the family. He is in the middle of every group of kids, doesn't know a stranger, loves animals, flirts with all the girls, and smiles at everyone. He thinks everything is hilarious, and is a really, really fun kid. He brings a lot of joy to our little house, and I know he's going to be shaking it up long into the future.
4.07.2007
The Taurus and the Hare
Chloe: No Eli! That's Chloe's bunny!
Daddy: (Returns bunny to rightful owner) Eli, you can't play with Chloe's bunny, here's your new car. Anyways, cars are better because cars can run over bunnies.
4.03.2007
A Morning of Firsts
First time the crayons made it to the paper, instead of his mouth. (However, his tongue is still green from the PlayDoh Chloe and I overlooked on the floor this morning.) Pretty good picture for his first go!
First time he responded to "Eli! Smile!" by looking and smiling with typical toddler exaggeration.
Not the first time he has climbed up to the slide (he loves stairs.. too bad we don't have any!), but it is the first time I took a picture of it.
First time riding the tire swing. The first time we rode he did great, perhaps causing me to become a bit cocky. The second time, a dog came into the park. Naturally this caused Eli to excitedly wave his arms and bark loudly, forgetting my previous admonitions to "Hold on tight, Buddy!"and PLOP! right through the hole he fell. There he lay, flat on his back, confused, with Chloe peering down from above. He never even let out so much as a whimper. As I scooped him up, the dog owner remarked, "He's a resiliant one!" I can't say that I've ever heard that about Eli before... another first!



















