We continued our trip to NYC to attend the wedding of Jin Xiu and Zhung. We had met Jin Xiu while we were living in Arkansas. She worked at a Chinese restaurant near Bruce's office and he struck up a friendship with her from the first time they met. We would take her shopping and tried to teach her English. When she invited us to her wedding, she told us we would be like her American Mother and Father, since her family would not be at the wedding. It was a great honor to be there for her.


The ceremony was held in a restaurant/banquet hall. Decorated in red and gold. The bride and grooms' names are in the diamonds on the wall. This ceremony was done almost totally backwards from the way we Americans have it. The pictures were taken after the bride and groom came in, but before the ceremony officially started. Pictures were taken with every single person in attendance. The minister/host/emcee even pointed out that it was not normal for "foreigners' (which was us) to be present at these weddings. We got to sit in the chairs to have our picture taken with the bride and groom because we were the elders.

All of the tables were set so beautifully. Every single person got their own, personal bottle of wine. There were large bottles of soda placed on every table, but no ice. After the pictures were taken, the manager of the restaurant covered every table with another red table cloth. Bruce and I spent a lot of time trying to figure out why they did this.

Once they brought out the poppers, we understood why. These things are as big as roll of wrapping paper. After pictures were done the bride and groom left the room to make a big entrance. As the bride and groom come in they are pelted with these cannons that shoot confetti and streamers at them. They were also very loud. So, no rice at the end, they do it at the beginning.


The bride and grooms first dance together. After this dance the bride and groom went and changed clothes. Then the kitchen brought out lots of food.


This is the traditional dress. Members of the families would come up on stage and sit in the two chairs and present the bride and groom with gold jewelry (around their necks) which represents good fortune. Bride and groom would bow to the family members. At this time the families would also present the bride and groom with an envelope with money in it. Money was the only gifts given.

More food again, and the bride changed clothes again. The whole ceremony was in Chinese so luckily I had Bruce to fill me in some on what was happening. The minister/host/emcee talked through the whole thing too. He never stopped talking. And the guests never stopped eating. We ate through the whole ceremony.


It was a very exciting and unique experience for us. Jin Xiu was so excited to have us there and we had a wonderful time.