I am here again!!!anyway i was browsing through some blogs and i realised relationships can be really fragile be it boy-girl relationship or friend-friend relationship...hmm...lets start with boy-girl relationship (BGR)

BGR:

hmm this is a tricky one that is why i choose to start with this...anyway i just find it very weird....two people fall in love with each other and there begins their honeymoon period as a "new" couple...both of them were very sweet to each other...buying little gifts for each other as and when and text each other non stop via sms, whatsapp( the new technology) etc...and they will start to miss each other deeply even they just bid farewell to each other at the bustop... they go out together and love to snap pictures of whatever silly little sweet things they do such as holding hands or wearing their couple rings together...usually this honeymoon period will last around 6 months to 1year? and after that i guess it will be a transtition stage? oh before i continue my point...just want to say that my point of view of this will be my point of view as a female(of course right?i cant be possibly writing on behalf on males)so here it goes for the transition state...suddenly, the texting has been reduced drastically....usually the guy will start to reply shorter smses to the girl...soon, the guy would be lazy to plan for the outing and the girl would start hang out with their girl friends because they seem not to miss each other so much that they need to meet each other every single second.... usually they guy will not be as sweet to you as in the beginning and quarrels would soon began.now...there are 2 types of guys or girls...the first type is that they arent really interested in you anymore (sort of bored about you and decided to spend more time doing their own things) and the other type belongs to the group where they are so used to having you that they dont really feel any difference when you werent around and they think that both of you are really meant to be so it doesnt really matter if he sweet talk you or vice versa...if lets say you belong to the first group...let me tell you...your relationship will not last...and this is usually the beginning of the end of the relationship..but if you managed to survive this, i would like to congratulate you that your relationship is ready to proceed to a "pre-matured" stage...of course in my younger days (oh my god, i really sounded old now) my relationships would usually end at this transition stage where they guy would usually starts to get bored and have lots of excuses to pick up a fight...moreover, he tend to pick on every little bit of you?and the female would starts to get frustrated in every little thing that the guy do...if this happens, i suggest a break up would be better? In the pre- matured stage...why pre- matured? because there is no marriage plans or hdb flats application yet...its just that both of your family know about the presence of the relationship and are supportive of it...and you get along well...in this stage...sweet talk and beautiful surprises and smses arent really important now...its more important how he took care of you when you are feeling unwell...how does he (for my point of view) help you to do little little things :) of course there is occasion quarrels but its unaviodable...which couples dont quarrel at all? haha

fortunately, in my present relationship, i passed this stage and i can gladly say that i am in the pre matured stagen where i really love my boy no matter what (although we quarrel and i really hate him like crazy when we quarrelled)...hmm although we have not started with our marriage plans as we are still young (i guess so) but i can roughly guess whats the outcome...unless something really happens (he has a mistress) haha....

anyway after this stage...it will be the matured stage...but sadly to say, i cant continue this here as i myself, is inexperienced in that:) and for the friend - friend relationship, i shall continue another day as i need to go back to my ligand field again >_<"

Rachael

I have decided to come back to blogging...anyway i know nobody will be reading my blog after being "dead" for so long...haha...really envy those people who can blog as a living and earn tonnes of money...haha while i am penniless here...anyway life's been great since i ended my job a few weeks ago...however, like i mentioned in the previous sentence, i am penniless now...only left with a handful of students to teach which i earn pathetic amount...

school is great too...but i think i screwed up my first module :( dont think will do very well...but i think i will pass..haha....so now i am trying my best to pull up..at least do better for the module that i am doing now...week one for second module was motivating because i understood whatever the charming lecturer said...however, second week for this module was horrendous!!! i dont even understand what the professor was saying! i tell you not a single word...so there goes my motivation and the thought that hmm i could at least do better for this (for you infomation, they are 2 different lecturers...the first was tall, good looking and young:) and the second...was totally OPPOSITE of the first...so no need to further elaborate )and the saddest thing to say is the lectures for this module is completed!!! oh gosh...i told myself i will die if i dont put in effort to study myself...so being the nice me... i am recapping my electronic confirguration now...on this s, p, d, f thing and so that i can proceed to read the crystal and ligand field theory (wth are they?) haha...and there are still so many concepts to learn...ligand field splitting parameter which give the transition metals their colours?oh gosh...i think by the time i finish everything i will faint !

ok i shall go read about it now..at least a bit before i am off to bed...

wish me luck!

Rachael

i cook this myself!!!

i went out with my family today:) have not been having family outing for a very long time....anyway we went to some ulu place called City Plaza...i guess many people do not know where is the place right?Its near Geylang....and usually the place would be crowded with those indonesian domestic workers on week ends..of course we went there for a purpose...to repair the padding on my glasses...I usually have my glasses made there :) after that we went to Plaza Singapura...i ate pepper lunch for dinner...actually i always told myself not to...because pepper lunch is supposed to be lunch not dinner...anyway was too busy eating and stirring the rice that i had forgotten to take pictures of that salty rice...i had added too much sauce...and this morning i woke up with a headache...i cant eat too much salt...haha not good for my brain i guess?

gonna start school soon...having mixed feelings ....confused...worried...anxious...excited...and SIANESS!!!

haha hopefully i can meet up with my dear cousin on wednesday:)

Rachael

my blog is turning rusty!!!since i am kinda free now..i shall blog for a little while...well life has been pretty normal these days but yesterday was fruitful:) did quite a few things...went to watch the child's eye at cathay at downtown east...i love cathay...because their seats are comfortable and the theatre smells nice haha..

the child's eye:

The show was okay i guessed?it wasnt fantastic but it was within my expectations...the good thing was there was a story line and i managed to understand what was the whole story about...shall not reveal too much...go watch it...the ghosts are not very horrifying haha...

today is Friday:)spent my day shopping with mommy after work...bought a pair of shoes from DMK...my favourite brand for shoes because i could not fit into charles and keith...not because my feet is too huge..its just that my feet is very wide and thus i have to squeeze into the shoes which makes it so uncomfortable...DMK shoes are just nice for me haha...bought a dress too:) regretted not buying the other dress as well because i just saw it on some blogspot which is selling $6 more expensive than what i had seen just now:(

tomorrow will be another busy day for me...

looking forward to Sunday :)

Rachael

Happy Teacher's Day to all the teachers who have taught me before:)

thanks for teaching me...but however, there is one lecturer that i wont thank her for it...because of her...i am in this state..she doesnt even wanna help because she thinks that it is too troublesome...thanks ya...

Rachael