（这是我的车子两个星期大的样子，她刚刚洗了第一次澡。 :P）| Your Inner Blood Type is Type A |
 You seem cool and collected, though a bit shy. You are highly driven and a perfectionist, but that's a side you keep to yourself. Creative and artistic, you are a very unique person who doesn't quite fit in. People accept you more than you realize, seeing you as trustworthy and loyal. You are most compatible with: A and AB Famous Type A's: Britney Spears and Hilter |
| You Are 70% Boyish and 30% Girlish |
| You are pretty evenly split down the middle - a total eunuch.Okay, kidding about the eunuch part. But you do get along with both sexes.You reject traditional gender roles. However, you don't actively fight them.You're just you. You don't try to be what people expect you to be. |
Your Personality Is |
You are both logical and creative. You are full of ideas. You are so rational that you analyze everything. This drives people a little crazy! Intelligence is important to you. You always like to be around smart people. In fact, you're often a little short with people who don't impress you mentally. You seem distant to some - but it's usually because you're deep in thought. Those who understand you best are fellow Rationals. In love, you tend to approach things with logic. You seek a compatible mate - who is also very intelligent. At work, you tend to gravitate toward idea building careers - like programming, medicine, or academia. With others, you are very honest and direct. People often can't take your criticism well. As far as your looks go, you're coasting on what you were born with. You think fashion is silly. On weekends, you spend most of your time thinking, experimenting with new ideas, or learning new things. |
| You Are 64% Abnormal |
 You are at high risk for having a borderline personality. It is very likely that you are a chaotic mess. You are at medium risk for having a narcissistic personality. It is somewhat likely that you are in love with your own reflection. You are at medium risk for having a social phobia. It is somewhat likely that you feel most comfortable in your mom's basement. You are at high risk for obsessive compulsive disorder. It is very likely that you are addicted to hand sanitizer. |
照片中的女人叫曾淑勤。 3月1日在《弹唱人》表演。
那晚替她伴奏的一个失明民歌手吴锦发是陈伟联的师兄，应该跟我差不多年纪。
曾淑勤赞他对她的歌很熟悉，他说：“我是听你的歌长大的。”惹得她佯装微愠。
在台下的我牵动嘴角，我也是听她的歌长大的。
她在这里并不是很红。
不过她有几首蛮红的歌《鲁冰花》、《客途秋恨》、《茉莉花的日子》等。
她歌声低沉落寞，擅长唱民谣曲风的歌曲。我觉得她很适合乡村摇滚风格的歌。
不过以前的她在舞台上很拘谨木讷，一点也摇滚不起来。但这次的表演令我惊喜。
听她唱《花房姑娘》，看她疯狂飙吉他，野性尽露，放得开了。
她真正属于舞台了，且演唱功力越来越棒。
即使是唱别人的歌，她也得心应手，崔建的《花房姑娘》、林慧萍的《说时依旧》、许美静的《城里的月光》都在她的歌声中，得到了新的诠释。
我喜见她的改变。年纪越大越自信，活得自在。
那一晚重温了她许多好歌，发现民谣就是不同，十几年前的歌现在听来却没有过时感。
真正的timeless。
《岁月的酒》是曾淑勤所唱，我最喜欢的其中一首歌，它很有意思。
岁月的酒 线上试听
曲:苏来 词:谢明训
岁月的酒 你只能喝一遍
喝过一遍 就走过一生
在这一生 你爱过多少人
有多少人 最后 还留在身边
喝吧 啊 喝吧 岁月 啊 干杯
喝吧 啊 喝吧 岁月 啊 干杯
清醒时说过的爱恋
等到酒醉 都变成谎言
流的是温热的眼泪
喝下的是 你我的岁月
附带提一下，曾淑勤每周末的傍晚6点至7点在台湾的音乐台《台北之音》主持节目。
可以上网收听http://www.hitoradio.com/showtime/onair.php。
现在我已习惯在线上收听这个电台的节目，因为是歌多话少，而且都是好歌，有许多节目主持人是歌手，播的歌真的比较有水准，而且至少他们说话听起来较悦耳。
Story 1
[Context:
Sec1 girl's parents request that she leave for home promptly at
Teacher: Do you understand the nature of XXX CCA?
Father: Whatever my daughter likes, I will let her join.
(Teacher: No wonder she insists on joining this CCA and refuses to budge, typical pampered spoilt brat.)
Father: My daughter said that you said since I'm fetching her home, can let me wait until
Teacher: I did not say that, I didn't even know that there's someone picking her up! She told me she goes home on her own by bus..
Father(Realising that it's his daughter who twist the words): Okay, that's not important.
Teacher: She’s going to miss out a lot if she were to miss the debrief every time, so I've advised her to change another CCA, but she refused.
Father(yelling into the phone): Okay, as the father, I'll advise her to change another CCA.
Not long after, the girl's mother called the CCA HOD, CCA HOD at meeting, so could not answer call, girl's mother called the office repeatedly, HOD of humanities informed CCA HOD that there's this parent who kept calling. CCA HOD still did not go and answer call. Girl's mother called again and again, until HOD of humanities told the CCA HOD to answer the call immediately before the parent drives everyone crazy. CCA HOD answers call, after which he hinted to teacher to let the girl stay in the CCA. Teacher insisted that for the benefit of the student, it'll be best that she find a CCA that fits her timing and she won't miss out any training.
The next day, both parents come to see the CCA HOD, demanding to talk to the teacher.
(Note: The mother's hair is golden in colour, and she wears tight-fitting bright orange top and green color hot pants, typical old Ah Lian look. )
Mother: She will be late (in picking up younger sister) if she has to walk to bus stop at XXX, take bus to XXX to change bus XXX to XXX.
Teacher: She did not tell me that....
Mother: As a teacher you should ask her! She leaves school at
(Teacher thinking: I am not the one who demands her to be home early. Why should I know the details on how she goes home? I'm not responsible for her transportation home.)
Teacher: At the end of every CCA training there'll be a debrief whereby a lot of learning takes place, if she leaves early every time and miss out on the debrief she’ll lag behind in the learning……
Mother: Then you’re a irresponsible teacher! You should make up what she missed to her! It's your responsibility to make sure my daughter learns what the rest learnt! The next meeting you must teach her what she missed! What kind of teacher are you?!
(Teacher blood boiling)
Mother: I've been to school before so I know what school is like! (Teacher thinking: You think we teachers never been to school before? Or you're conscious that the way you look and talk make us wonder whether you've been to school before?) School must let student join CCA that they have interest, school cannot ask student to join CCA that they don't have interest!
Mother: And you tell me which CCA ends before
Teacher: Library.
Father: But library 4 times a week leh!
Teacher: But our CCA can also be 4 times a week, even everyday!
Father: But she's not interested in library!
(By this time the teacher is too angry to say anything.)
Mother: Actually I demand an apology from you for asking my daughter to change to a CCA that suits our timing but she has no interest!
(Teacher boiling mad: I want you to apologize for insulting me!)
Mother: If really cannot then I either let her change school or this year don't let her join CCA!
(Teacher thinking: Go ahead and change school! As if I care!)
Father: Anyway CCA not important one right? Unless she wants to go JC, I checked with my friends they say if go Poly CCA points are not important.
(Teacher thinking: So the truth is you do not think that CCA is important that is why you want her to leave early!)
Break to cool down and get the girl over here for CCA HOD to ask her what she really wants.
Mother goes and complains to Principal who was just nearby.
Story 2
Parents come to school to look for a teacher, but didn't make appointment in advance. They talk into the intercom(to page for teacher): We would like to see Mdm XXX, please don't make us wait, our time is precious!
(Teachers who heard it: You think your time is precious so our time is not worth anything lah!)
Story 3
Boy often forgets to bring books and do homework.
Teacher informs his mother through the phone.
Mother: Thank you for informing me. (Teacher thinking: oh this is an appreciative parent)But can you not inform me only after a few times? Please inform me every time he forgets something.
(Teacher thinking: You think I only have to teach your son? I've got more than a hundred students to look after.)
Teacher: Well, usually we give a few chances, I've warned him that if he forgets to bring something for the 3rd time I'll call his parents……
Mother: No no no don't give chance, must call me straight away. He's still young I must keep a close eye on him.
(Teacher: A concerned and supportive parent, but I am not so free to call you every time!)
敏感寡言的双鱼座
极度慢热，朋友不多，
幸运的是，在朋友之中，知心好友不少。
倔强不肯把菱角磨平，
仇人大概不比朋友少。
越来越相信，我们来到人世，
是为了与别人相遇......
愉快也好，气愤也罢，
每一个交集都丰富我的生命。
谢谢你对我的好，
遇到恶人，气愤之余，
提醒自己：有所学，有所获，那就好。
呓语
我希望时间会驻足此刻，
最好能够往回走，到20年以前。
