对我来说，你还是小孩

我就像个小孩 一心要爱
你就像个小孩 痴痴地爱

到底是谁像呢？

~ whatever happens, happens for a reason. =)

超爱吴镇宇这里真情流露的感觉！

见了姚明之后，在同桌吃饭时说：
吴镇宇：“从来没试过这个感觉”
陆毅：“第一次那么近距离（接触）……”
吴镇宇：“对！……我现在理解人家怎么看我。（众人笑）真的！”
姚明：“您不能理解的是我们小时候怎么学您那样子…老师一般都找我们家长去了。”

《爸爸去哪儿 第二季》第三回

哈哈，超粉丝！

~ whatever happens, happens for a reason. =)

猜拳定生死

從前有兩個好朋友，他們遇到了死神。

死神說：「你們兩個只能活一個，你們猜拳吧，輸的就得死。」

最後，一個輸了...另一個抱著死去的朋友說：「兄弟，說好一起出石頭的，為什麼我出了剪刀，你卻出了布。」

若能與故事中『出布』的那位朋友成為好兄弟，真是死而無憾！

朋友有很多種，能遇到『出布兄弟』當然最好，但這類朋友不多。



有些人，走著走著就走進了心裡。有些人，走著走著就淡出了視線。

有些人，認識了一輩子，卻只若初始，難以交心。而有些人，一朝相識，恰似故人歸。

如果說人與人之間的相遇靠的是緣分，那麼人和人的相處則靠的是一份真誠。

不要將別人的給予當作理所當然，不要一味的索取而不知回報，
不要以為別人對你的好是取之不盡用之不竭的，再濃的感情也禁不起揮霍浪費。

以真誠換真誠，以真心交真心，珍惜才是永遠，感恩才是快樂！

朋友，不在於陪伴多少，而在於真正懂我的有幾個。

真誠的人，走著走著就走進了心裡，虛偽的人，走著走著就淡.

虛偽的人，認識了一輩子，卻只若初始。難以交心，心與心之間有隔閡。

“酒逢知己千杯少, 話不投機半句多”最後以這一句老話作結語，遇上要珍惜這知己的緣份。

来自《老友記週末電子報 26/9/14》

~ * ~ * ~

这个故事的确感人。
不过，我用蓝色标出的文字……却见仁见智啊。

以上的情况，就是知己俩对彼此非常熟，彼此都知道彼此会为对方而牺牲，所以“出布”的抢先牺牲了自己，不让“出剪刀”牺牲。

但是，若他们俩并不是知己型的好朋友，出什么并不是那么看了，对吗？
想“出剪刀”的是为了牺牲自己，所以出了剪刀。
但是，“出布”的其实并没有意识到对方愿意为了他牺牲，反而认为对方若出石头，自己出布，反而占了便宜。岂知，竟然是以其人之道还治其人之身，害了自己。
所以常言道，防人之心不可无，害人之心不可有。 千真万确。

然而我觉得以上故事美中不足的是，它的文字的雕琢给我的第一印象就是我刚叙述的。我是看了那段我用蓝色标出的文字，才领悟背后‘为彼此牺牲’更深远的内涵。

~ whatever happens, happens for a reason. =)

An after note (from watching Galileo S2 weeks ago):

Galileo S2 is a pain to watch.
Don't get me wrong, Fukuyama is still as kakkoi as ever, but as much as I dislike Shibasaki Kou (from S1), she's still so much better than Yoshitaka Yuriko (in S2). In addition, it's quite obvious that she's given so much more unnecessary airtime (beyond the plot) together with Fukuyama (to the extent of scrimping on the airtime of investigation). eeeks.

I've seen a few of other dramas that Yoshitaka starred in, and I don't think I liked her at all. Argh, she spoilt one of my favourite dramas!!! :(

I've officially stopped at episode 2 since I last watched, and don't feel like continuing it anymore.

~ whatever happens, happens for a reason. =)

渔舟逐水爱山春 两岸桃花夹去津

(This photo does NO justice to the magnitude of grandness that this actual painting portrays)

　
　   渔舟逐水爱山春，两岸桃花夹古津。

　　坐看红树不知远，行尽青溪不见人。

　　山口潜行始隈隩，山开旷望旋平陆。

　　遥看一处攒云树，近入千家散花竹。

这幅油画上粗糙的颜料给了它立体感，把那意境活脱脱给体现了出来。远处的住处，那悬疑、那神秘、那犹近犹远，无不引诱这世人，让人充满了对仙境的向往。

只可惜，不疑灵境难闻见，尘心未尽思乡县……无论多完美，终究舍去这迷人的仙境，落得尘世间打转翻滚……

记挂在诊所内的一幅画

~ whatever happens, happens for a reason. =)

病気から…

When your body decides to break down, it'll break down without telling you when. 

Such an untimely junction to break down, completely.

Now that I look back on this past year, I realized there were signs and symptoms. Symptoms which I thought didn't matter.. and I pushed on, seemingly "renewed" or thinking they were minor issues cos I "recovered" after the pain. Life goes on.. until the inevitable strikes.
When the pain seems like the norm, it's time to take a step back and examine.

If only I had taken heed of the hints that my physical self is telling me softly. 

Looking at my previous post, the quote by Socrates is mocking at me. I posted that quote for a different reason before this break down, but then now it's telling me to look forward, to building the new wrt what's happened. Life, ironic as it is, goes on.

…絶対に負けない。

~ whatever happens, happens for a reason. =)

~ whatever happens, happens for a reason. =)

What Association does to You

You will never ever look at this product/item in the same light ever.

The lingering pain despite its alleged pain reliever. 
It's time to get it out of sight.

~ whatever happens, happens for a reason. =)

So long since I last looped music, today I chose 张宇、林志炫、张信哲. Not a very Eason or Power Station day. Haha.
Didn't realize 张信哲 《直觉》is such a nice song and 《太想爱你》MV is nice. 突然爱上张宇《当时》这首歌……看歌手们在演唱时都那么投入，真的让人听出耳油来……

~ whatever happens, happens for a reason. =)

Accomplishment.

Read the August issue of National Geographic (yay, finally!) + Chionged the last 7 episodes of a HK drama serial (Born to be King) + rewatched 1 movie I've watched in 2008 + sewn one little cute owl soft toy keychain (sewn a pink elephant then) + played Tsum Tsum game (super pointless but cute game) + DIY learnt the water braid and fishtail braid + made strawberries&blueberries jam with organic fruits.

Next thing to do： Fight the guilt.

~ whatever happens, happens for a reason. =)

One of the best holidays-to-dos:

1. Snuggle in with a good book

2. Do some crafts like cross stitch or sewing mini soft toys

3. Learning photography

4. Learning a new language

5. Learning music

6. Just to stay away from the crowded places

Wishing these would never end.
I really really need a break.

~ whatever happens, happens for a reason. =)

After some butter fingers and clumsy hands which deleted my draft in Blogger.. on last futile attempt, I decided to check out the app on my phone. Lo and Behold, it's still there. *tears of relief

Anyway, it was a draft that never meant to be published, but nevertheless, I had it published so that I can unpublish it on the desktop. hurhur. But before that, before the app got clever and knew that the post was already deleted CLEAN, I took screenshots before anything else heartbreaking and heartstopping happens again.

A total of 67 screenshots. 

OMG.

Nevermind. At least it's safe and sound.

I hate data loss. That's one of the worst things that could happen in this cyberworld... sigh.

~ whatever happens, happens for a reason. =)

I need to shrug off this feeling of ultimate boredom.

~ whatever happens, happens for a reason. =)

"It had been a collision of two people with an unhealthy need: I gave him tissues, and he asked me out to dinner."

~ The Cuckoo's Calling by Robert Galbraith p.505

~ whatever happens, happens for a reason. =)

阿嬷：头痛啊，哎哟……整整做功课，不要压力太大！休息休息，不要整整拼！整整拼对身体不好！

阿嬷的忠告。

最近好多人对我说这句话……

~ whatever happens, happens for a reason. =)

After today, the marriage of one of my bffs, I can definitely conclude for my life till now, my JC days, hall days, uni days and exchange program days were the best.
Thank you all for being part of it.

~ whatever happens, happens for a reason. =)