my papa
>> Monday, April 28, 2008
just came back from my cousin's wedding. well, another 'entertain relatives' session. I REALLY HATE IT ESPECIALLY TO PEOPLE WHO I REALLY DON FANCY.
if you can still remember, i had a aunt who didnt attend my sister's wedding back in january because she 'forgot' about it. so for this wedding my dear dad called his beloved youngest sister ordering her to go because she has done many 'xia suay' (throw face) incidents over the years... and it is never ending.
my dad said he will take care of the angbao. and i'm sure she didnt give. she is very automatic. (even worse than auntie automatic lah!)
and during that call, she asked a $10k loan from my dad to pay for her son's school fee in university. i think my dad will just give her the money lah. but you know what's ridiculous? the moment my dad stepped into the ballroom, she asked my dad for the cash!
my dad, who still got some 'sense' in him, replied "how on earth will i bring $10k out? if you want the money, come to my house and get it!"
but but but, the best thing is, that automatic auntie of mine stays in a condo, and the condo is fully paid.
need to say more?
sometimes i am really angry with my dad because he treats his brothers and sisters like oil (now oil more expensive than gold already), while his wife and daughters like rag. anything stinky and things which will bring alot of trouble, he will deploy us to do it. not that i am complaining because i already gave up but i still need to get it out of me.
a week ago, my dad gave me a sum of money which he claimed that it is for my account and not the joint one with my mum. i was wondering how come he is so nice to me suddenly.
then he bought my mum a watch.
but the person who receives the biggest present is his sister.
i love my dad but i hate the way he take us for granted. :( and he is getting fatter and more and more health problems are surfacing.. we worry about him but he is alot more stubborn than me.
like yesterday, he was eating MY chocolates and i screamed at him at 12am. he laughed at me after i took all my tidbits and hid in my room. he can still rebut and say "the tidbits are going to expire already, if i don't eat waste food!"
then the other day he complained that his feet are very painful. i asked him "papa you know how come your feet aches?"
he shook his head.
i said "cuz you're too fat. please go and have a diet" [my papa is 100kg, and that's a prudence estimate!]
he pretended he didnt hear.
then another day, he complained he got gum ache. so my mother cooked porridge and i am dragged down to having porridge for dinner, which i hate cuz i will get hungry by 9pm.
so after 2 days, i forgot what i was cooking and he said he wanted to eat but i asked him "i thought your gum still aching?"
he replied "not anymore."
so i said "you want to eat so you pretend your gum recover already izzit"
he very shy-ly said "i didnt have a gum ache. i realised i was wearing the wrong dentures."
how to be angry for a person like that for too long???!!
