aye. i'm so upset now that i want to rant every bit i can here. i'm really disappointed at my parents again. they are doing things which are eroding my respect for them.
once again it is over my sister's wedding (which is about 2 weeks away) as they are giving my sister this 'i cannot be bothered that my daughter is getting married' attitute. you know initially when my sister asked my parents about the banquet, my parents told my sister (i was a witness) "aiyah don need lah don need to invite any relative it is so troublesome" but my sister, and my other sisters know that my parents' words are unreliable. so my sister set aside 5 tables for them. that was september i think.
then, when we went food tasting, my dad gave the 'i don want to entertain u' expression which made my sister embarrassed as her fiance's parents were there and it is not very nice. then these few days, we were quarrelling about the guest list and the invitation cards. a simple thing like invitation cards, my parents need to ask this long-distant relative of ours to "write" the cards.
"WE DON'T HAVE HANDS MEH WHY NEED OTHER PPLE TO WRITE?" that was what i asked them. then they gave reasons like "you need to address those elderly properly and not just their names..... blahhhhhhhhhhhhh" till today, 9th december, the cards are not even written when the wedding dinner is on 2nd january.
today's argument is over the number of tables. now my parents want my sister to set aside 10 tables for them and it really made my sister crazy because the ballroom is only able to fit 25 tables and now it amounts to 30. although the ballroom can be changed, but the venue of the ballroom has been printed on the invitation card..
why can't my parents understand the whole situation and gave us all the shit? firstly, they don wan to confirm which relatives are going. and they don wan to confirm WHO will be going and just saying things like "aiyah if they never go i'll just pay for the extra tables". it is not a matter of money but also the trouble for my sister, the hotel and all other parties involved.
hais. it's really saddening to see how my parents are reacting when they ought to be excited and happy that this is the first time they are marrying their daughter. and the next sister's wedding is not far away. hai. i wonder by the time i get married, will my parents show some concern and "excitement". poor sister and brother-in-law. they are having so many problems everywhere, be it their wedding... their house... i really hope i can help them as much as i can to lessen their load and problems. my parents are hopeless.
this is like the first time i am really "sad" to have this kind of parents. i've always look up to my parents but.. hai. am i revealing too much personal stuff here? hai. i don care :(
ok enough of sad things. yesterday i went kim's house with jinpei to bake some cupcakes. to my horror, i arrived kim's house before kim reached her house so i started shouting at the door "kai weiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii" and her mum replied "kai wei went out haven't come home yet!" wahseh, so paiseh can. kns kns. then jinpei keep laughing at me. lol.
so we spent 1.5hour sifting the flour and cocoa powder due to kim's inefficient sieve, and took turns to mix the stuff and to bake. the outcome is not too bad although we suspected kim to convert the quantities of the ingredients wrongly but i'm still fine now. we're definitely not going to be prima-deli number 2 :)
today we are supposed to have a cycling outing but due to bad response, bad weather and for the fact that i was lying on my bed when everyone started asking me if the outing is confirmed, it was cancelled. i spent my afternoon watching those repeated channel 8 shows like the unbeatables and wok of life. oh gosh how i missed those shows! i think the shows last time are much nicer and funnier, unlike dramas now which are full of exaggerating expression and dull plots. i'm definitely watching tomorrow's star awards!
went to tampines to meet my sister and her 'jie-mei' for the wedding. anyone has any fantastic ideas for gate crashing? my brother-in-law's gang like very pro leh... then my sister's jie-mei like very weak so we must jiayou at gate crashing so tt we wont be so tiu lian. ok to end the post, i shall post a pic of my sister's wedding photo! (not like u guys are interested but i think the photo is very nice! hahahaha)

look like those models for bridal shops hor? hahahaa.
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