While Randy was in college, he attended a lecture about Santa and how he detracts from the true meaning of Christmas. As a couple, we decided that we wouldn't encourage Santa in our home. We were discouraged by many for this choice. Some said we'd look like freaks. Some said our kids would be made fun of for being different. Some said we would ruin the "spirit" of Christmas for our kids. An incident that happened on Saturday proves that none of this is the case. We've been asked "how" we keep Santa out of our Christmas. We've been asked "why." We've had our share of disgusted looks, and belittling comments. However, it works for us. Here's what happened. We went to our Ward's Christmas party. We ate some yummy food with even better desserts, and took part in the Nativity where Caden was Joseph, Keilie was the Angel that proclaimed Christ's birth to the shepherds, and Shelby was a cow. After the sweet nativity, we thought the party was over. Nope. Out came Santa. Randy was super surprised to see Santa in a church building since we've never seen one at a Christmas party in the 12 Christmases we've been married. As the other kids were racing to get in line for Santa, we loaded up our own kids and left. Not once did they kids cry. Not once did they ask why they didn't get to see him. The only thing we heard from the back seat was the kids talking about their parts in the nativity. We didn't hear one complaint. Not one! From the very beginning we haven't discouraged our kids from learning about Santa at school, or even believing in him, however, we just don't encourage him at home. We don't talk about him. We don't have any decorations with Santa. We don't purchase wrapping paper with Santa. We don't put "From: Santa" on their gifts. If the kids ask about him, we turn the questions around to Christ. "When is Santa coming?" "Well, there's 5 more days until we get to celebrate Christ's birth." We never talk about him. He's just not apart of our Christmas. So, as we were walking with our kids out of the church, we couldn't help but think that our kids remember the true meaning of Christmas. Santa has never been apart of it, and he never will. We knew it could be done. To those looking at us from the outside, they wouldn't see any less excitement from our kids. You'd never know that our kids don't hear about Santa from us. In our home, Jesus Christ is the only person we celebrate "coming" on December 25th. And that's just the way we like it!