Last spring my mom and I were doing some work in my yard when this kind of scraggly older gentleman who was walking down the street stopped to run his mouth about how my house is a piece of crap, etc. I can't remember exactly what he said, but I do remember feeling somewhat hurt. You just don't stop and trash someone else's home. I happen to love my house and feel that God led me to this neighborhood for a reason.
Anyway, today it happened again. I was out shoveling the driveway at about 6:30 tonight. I had been putting it off all day because I'm just sick and tired of shoveling. So it's dark out and there's no one else around and I seen a man walking down the street. He got closer and I said "hello". He stopped and I recognized him instantly.
Initially he was friendly, saying, "It looks like you've done this before."
"Yes I have, but it's getting a little old. I'm ready for spring," I replied.
Then he starts in again.
"This house isn't worth half of what you paid for it. . . blah blah blah."
I immediately felt myself getting defensive and said,
"Sir, you stopped by here before and made some unkind comments. I would appreciate it if you would just keep on walking. Bye."
Maybe that wasn't the best thing to say because he replied, "I will, when I'm d--- good and ready."
Uh oh. This could be interesting. At least I had a snow shovel as a weapon. :) Thankfully he kept on walking. Maybe I should have handled this differently, but I can't figure out how some people can be so rude. Any suggestions on what I should have said?