I consider myself fortunate that my twins were pacifier babies. It made bedtimes so easy. And with all the travelling that we did, it made things a breeze. Austin named his pacifier Ba-Ba when ba-ba was the only thing he could say. Kadence followed along and the name stuck. They started out with the pacifiers clear back when they were in the NICU. The pacifiers were almost half the size of their tiny heads!
From the beginning the Ba-Ba's and Silkies (their little silky blankets named by David) were a "crib only" activity. And if they were sad and needed some extra comfort, they could go to their crib for "silky time".
One day the babies were on the front porch while I was trying showing them that they could see into their room from outside and I was in their room and I decided to mess with them a little.
Kadence even tried multiple ba-bas but didn't find it very satisfying.
But oh how nice to get them to sleep on planes!
This is what we called the ba-ba kiss.
One time Kadence even tried to smuggle her ba-ba and silky out by hiding it in her hat. I thought it was nice that she was helping get ready to go by putting her hat on by herself until I was zipping up her coat and noticed something sticking out of her hat.
I had been looking forward to and dreading taking away the pacifiers. I didn't want to do it until after our trip to Hawaii. But that would put them at 3 years old. Really old for getting rid of the pacifier. I had read up on different ideas and we had been talking to the twins about it. But I was totally chicken to "pull the plug". I mean, really, with one kid it's bad enough, but two! I just knew that I would get one consoled and over it, then the other one would bring it up and the memory would be revived and I would have 2 screaming kids at bedtime for weeks. I was NOT looking forward to it.
Then one day at bedtime Austin bit a hole through his pacifier and I couldn't find Kadence's. We were getting low and I didn't want to buy more, so there were only a couple around. I gave Austin his broken one and told Kadence I couldn't find hers, but that I would go look, but if I didn't find it, she would have to go to sleep without it. Austin threw his out of his bed because a broken one wasn't satisfying. I went off to look for Kadence's which was down on my bed because she napped down there that day. I decided to wait to see if they cried out for it. If they did I was going to take Kadence hers and get the emergency pacifier out of the diaper bag for Austin. But no one cried, no one called out for it. Then they fell asleep. So for the next several naps and bedtimes I told them I would go look for more, but I didn't know if I would find them. Not a single tear and it was over.
Bedtimes are not as easy and we frequently have to separate them to get them to fall asleep (without the pacifier to keep their mouths busy, they could talk and sing all night!). But the pacifiers are gone. That's it.
These last pictures I took at the beginning of October not knowing that they would be the last ba-ba pictures.
Awwww!!!