Saturday, August 4, 2012 was a typical Saturday for us lately. A day consumed with yard work and house projects. There is always something to do when you move into a home on a 2+ acre property just 2 months before having a baby.
I had been been dilated to a 4 and 90% effaced since Monday so I figured that today would be the day to naturally induce myself into labor by doing yard work. I worked outside in the 100*+ weather all morning. After my snack/lunch of Ritz crackers and cheese I began working on cleaning the garage. It's quite sad when we have lived in our new home for 2 months and have a 4+ garage storing not one vehicle in it because of the unpacked or loose items not put away.
At about 3:30 I was tired and ready to be done with the garage. It wasn't completely done but at least we could fit the vehicles in.
I took a long shower. It felt so good not to be drenched in sweat. I thought a pedicure sounded good so Ty took the kids to buy a few more chickens and I went to get a pedicure. It wasn't until 5:30pm that I finally got to the nail salon and I don't recall having any contractions, at least none that bothered me. But during the hour that I was getting my pedicure I think I had 2, maybe 3 contractions, nothing bad though, just felt a little crampy.
After my pedicure I went to Chipolte to get a couple burritos for dinner. Tyson was just getting back to the house with the chickens and then was going to go to the store to get the stuff to make homemade salsa.
I got home at 7:00pm. Instantly the contractions hit. I put the last few items needed in my hospital bag telling myself that tonight was the night! Ty came in to door about 10 minutes later. I began fixing Emmry a grilled cheese sandwich. Although I only had gotten as far as to get the bread and pan out when a contraction stopped me in my tracks and made me stop to breath through it. Ty asked if I was ok. I told him I was having a contraction and needed to lie down. He finished making Emmry's cheese sandwich and the salsa as I layed on the couch timing my contractions which were about 3-5min apart and lasting 1 minute. I told Ty that we needed to get ready to go to the hospital soon.
At 7:20pm I called my friend Aimee giving her the heads up that I was going to bring the kids over and letting her know what was going on.
As I layed on the couch trying to begin my hypnobirthing, I would holler out what needed to be done next....put more wipes in the diaper bag....don't forget your toothbrush Tage.....put Emmry's jammies on....
An hour later we were in the car headed to drop of the kids. Emmry loves to go to her little friend Caroline's house so I knew that she would be ok, which is comforting and sad at the same time. Comforting because I know that she is happy and in good hands, but sad because she is getting more and more independent and doesn't need me at her side all the time. I guess this means she is growing up and no longer a baby anymore.
By now it is 8:30pm and we were on the freeway headed to the hospital. I made a quick call to my Mom telling her what was going on and to stay close to the phone. Then I continued to listen to my hypnobirthing. 8:45pm we arrived at the hospital. Tyson had to just take over and answer all the questions as I tried to relax through contractions. All I could think about was the pressure. I was having a hard time getting into my hypnobirthing like I had been hoping for. I asked the nurse if she had called my Dr. yet, she said no and that she had to check me first. I thought to myself, 'well dang it all lady, then check me already!' She did and I was dilated to a 7 and 100% effaced. HORRAY! She quickly said, "Oh! ok, I will call your Dr. now." And then left the room. (Duh! I told you too!)
I was then transferred to the labor and delivery room. My contractions were stronger and about every 2 minutes lasting what seemed to be forever, but only a minute. The nurse asked me if I wanted an epidural. At that moment I said yes and to bring it in but to check me before I get it to see where I am at. I can't believe I said that. I wanted to do natural childbirth. I was having doubts I could do it. But then I thought, 'I'm at a 7! I can do this! Focus, Cherice. Just relax. Head to toe. Deep breathes all the way down.' and that's what I did. I worked through the contractions trying hard to relax without my Ipod hypnobirthing or any relaxing music. Just my mind.
It had only been about 30 minutes since the nurse had called Dr. Bryan when he walked in the door. Wow! That was fast I thought but was instantly relieved that he was there. He came straight over to me, touched my shoulder and said nothing but positive, encouraging words and telling me that I was doing a great job. He said he was going to check me to see where I was at and asked that if I was at a 9 or 10 if I just wanted him to break my water and have my baby. I nodded my head yes as I closed my eyes through another contraction. (He knew that I was wanting to to natural childbirth) He checked me. I was at a 10! YES! Let's do this! He broke my water and after 3 good pushes Trey entered the world! He was calm. Didn't make a sound. I was worried. I rubbed his little body trying to stimulate him to get a good cry. He didn't make a peep. The nurse took him and put him on oxygen just for a minute or two. He was breathing, but still calm and seemed to be doing fine. They weighed him, cleaned him up a bit, did his little feet prints, poked his heal and still not a cry out of him. I started to nurse him. He latched right on. I was smitten. In complete love with him. He was perfect.
I was still a little concerned but just held my baby boy close, praying that everything would be fine. Immediately I became just as calm as he was. I knew that the Lord was watching over both of us. Then, I just held his warm little body against my chest trying to capture my thoughts and feelings of what had just happen.
I was blessed with an easy and smooth pregnancy and delivery. No problems or concerns the whole time. I wanted to do natural childbirth and I did. I am so happy with how everything turned out. Everything happen so fast! Crazy fast really! From the time I started to have real, noticeable contractions, to the time little Trey was born was only 3 hours! And only 1 hour of that was spent in the hospital! Wow! I'm glad I even made it there! Heaven forbid I deliver on the side of the freeway. Maybe next time will be a home delivery!
I feel so blessed and honored to be given this healthy, handsome, perfect baby boy to care for. I couldn't be happier. I am
so in love with this little guy.