I haven't blogged for a a half of a year! And this account is still alive, so to celebrate it's "not dead" status I thought I should just put in a few posts before the year is over.
Had dinner at some friends' house just now. And met someone who was so LCLY I hope I never meet him again.
He ignored me when I tried to introduce myself. Me and my extended hand. Hello???
He continued to ignore my attempt while he interrogated my housemate about his work. For the record, my housemate has ALSO just introduced himself.
When my housemate tried to introduce me, he actually said, "ya, ok.. later... " and continued to ask my housemate about his work, dept, etc until he was satisfied and finally turned to me.
Me: Hi, I'm YL.
Him: Surname?
Me: Er... Lim.
Him: So I should call you Lim.
Me:Call me YL. I'm more used to YL.
(He pointed to my housemate)
Him:But he is Kong. So I should call you Lim.
Me: I prefer to be called YL. He introduces himself as Kong, because he is used to being called Kong.
Kong: Kong is an uncommon surname and its easier to remember than my Chinese name.
Him: No, Kong is not an uncommon surname.I know more then 10 people by that surname.
Seriously... seriously... this is how you make friends? By questioning what their preferred name is???
Second attempt at being friendly. Only me and him in the room now, got to make sort of conversation.
Me: I'm new in the company, just joined in March
Him: I see. I am also very new.
Me: Oh, when did you join? (Happy to have a common ground to start a conversation)
Him: 4 years ago.
*wtf*
Me: Wah, if that is new. Then I am very very very very new lar. (hoping to inject some humour)
Him: I'm very new compared to the people who has served 20+ years.
I er.... dunno what to say. Maybe you can't tell from the conversation. But he had this farking LCLY-I-am-more-intelligent-than-you-look on his face all the time.
In the short 2 hours, I already know he can run 10km in 40+ mins, he does triathlons on a regular basis, dances all sorts of ballroom and latin dances, does performances at functions, flies so often for business that he has Enrich Gold and enjoys upgrading his friend's to business class.
Luckily Kong was sick so I can escape dinner early. Gawd... Some people...