Tuesday, January 01, 2013
What a good way to start the year off by writing down your thoughts and reflections for 2012 and setting realistic goals and resolutions for 2013. #2013Resolutions #2012Reflections
I'm sure in 2012, There are some pretty real good and bad memories. Whatever it is, it mold and shape us into the person we are right now. I believe everything happens for a reason. To some of us, it maybe an eventful and fruitful year while to others a bittersweet and regretful year. But that's alright, we are given another opportunity to start this year afresh and to make it right.
Lastly I wanna thank every single one who plays apart in my life, be it big or small, you guys play a role. It may be a shame to have lose some friends here and there but I have gain quite a good deal of awesome friends this year and experiences. I want to say sorry as well to those I have offended or may not live up to the mark of what you expected me to be. After all I'm just a mere human being and we all have flaws one way or another. If possible, I would definitely love to keep in touch with every single one of you if you guys still want to.
Let's embrace forgiveness, love and hope as we embark this year of freedom for me!
Love, James:)
This Song is for you! haha "It's Not right, But that's ok - Titanium Remix.
Above Posted At 11:58 AM
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Saturday, December 29, 2012
Time flies, It's 29 Dec 2012. In a few days time, everyone will be out celebrating the end of year and welcoming 2013. In a blink of an eye, one more year pass us by. To some of us, it could be an eventful year while to the others, it could be a bittersweet one.
Once again, get ready to plan and write down your #2013Resolutions. There's this saying: "If you fail to plan, You plan to fail." With that it is important to write down our goals for 2013 as it give us direction on where we will be heading in the coming year.
Looking back at this year, I should write about it soon.
Above Posted At 2:47 AM
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Tuesday, December 25, 2012
MERRY CHRISTMAS
Hey guys it's once again Christmas! Merry Christmas!
"Traditional ways are some times better than the Conventional ways."
Doing Christmas cards and writing letters are so much more heart felt and thoughtful than just sending a text. I am not saying texting are bad, but overall it is the thoughts and sincerity that counts =)
Merry Christmas -James-
Above Posted At 4:11 AM
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Friday, November 02, 2012
'Never to fall in love easily ever again'
Sometime we learn it the hard way not once nor twice but multiple times.
We ended up down at the valley wounded and broken hearted ..
But as the saying goes: whatever doesn't kill you, only makes you stronger.
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Saturday, October 20, 2012
All the things we accomplished, achieved and improvements are just masquerade for our deep insecurities and emptiness in our heart. Ever felt that you accomplish so much yet not so much after all? Ever felt that you are so busy with life yet you don't feel a single sense of fulfillment? Ever felt that you have been doing great just to realize you actually stuck at square one, not moving on? Ever felt that all the things we done, to improve ourselves, our accomplishments and accolades after all just to makes us feel better from what we are suffering inside? after all we don't feel much better actually.
when will we be enlighten about the things of life? life itself's a thousand of mysteries, contradictions etc. Everybody are made for greatness, when everyone is just insignificant and small compare to the size of the population, when will our turn come? To shine..
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Tuesday, October 09, 2012
time flies, it is the starting of October now. life has been rather repetitive doing the same thing week after weeks. guess life in MEC is not that bad after all, there are always two sides to a coin.
looking around just to find out that actually i have not been accomplishing much this year. at the age of 23 and the fact that i'm still in ns just makes me remember of the bad decisions i have made in the past. it is the past and i know i should not make the same mistakes i did.
many a times, the answer we are trying to find all along lies deep in our heart. the answers to our question about our life, purpose, ourselves. like what my friend said: "everything happen for a reason. you either understand now or in time to come". sometimes adversity and setback may hinder us from getting what we want. but this shouldn't stop us from getting what we always wanted. we should not feel discourage or disheartened, i mean it is perfectly fine to feel that way, after all we are human beings.
what i meant was to "detached" from those feelings and emotions and come up even more triumphantly. no use living behind the shade of those feelings and emotions, it won't bring you anywhere nor it will make you feel any better. i came up with this quote when i'm feeling terrible about my life the other time.
"When upward mobility (height) seems impossible during this period of your life, go for inward mobility (depth), be a better person with improved character, personality and skills, whatever it takes.
The higher you go, the deeper you must go too".
it may sounds cliche but i found comfort and definitely feel much better than before when i confide in it. when you feel that you are not progressing in life, maybe because of the current situation you are in or some other reasons. when you feel that life are as stagnant as they have never moved before or there are simply no excitement or expectation about life itself. when upward mobility seems impossible, you are stuck at square one again and again.
change the approach. go for courses, take up some sports or arts lesson, learn new skills, pick up an instrument, go for some self improvement or enhancer course, excel in what you are good at, travel, just like the movie "Eat, Pray, Love" where the female lead take a year long break from her work to go to Italy to enjoy good food, India to find spiritual enlightenment, to Bali to find love.
just when she experience a divorce, not progressing at work nor in her life, everything is in a mess, not to her favor. she aims to let go of everything on hand, go for a long trip and the main purpose is to pull herself back, find back herself. we may not be as dramatic as in the movies, but the logic applies. change the approach and start working on yourself, "a happy you is the greatest present you can give to yourself or at least to the people closers to you".
James
Above Posted At 9:05 PM
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Monday, June 11, 2012
it been around a month plus since i last updated my blog. life in camp was pretty alright maybe due to gotten use of it. anyway it a day more to my birthday! 23rd this year.. it just feel that as i grow older, i am going off course in my life.. it's like i am becoming even a harder nut to crack than before.. .. ..
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