Sunday, May 31, 2009

Dansagain

Two years ago a friend of mine talked me into joining a dance class.  I had such a great time that I did it again this last year and it even gave me an itch to start teaching dance too.  So to help with costs at my girls dance studio I started being an assistant teacher for Alli's class.  Just before Christmas, a position became available to teach two of my own classes.  I was so nervous, but I went ahead and jumped in.  I love it and I love dancing!

This year my dance teacher decided to enter us into a competition and it was a blast.  Some in the class were not so excited about performing in it, but I was excited to let other moms that love to dance know that it isn't too late!  I am a big believer in finding something that you love to do and doing it.  For years I felt like I was lost in wife and mother and have tried to figure out who I was in there too.  Being a wife and a mother is my greatest joy, but it has been so nice to have something that I just love to do and the kids have enjoyed having something to cheer mom in too.  The big bonus was getting to do something I love while spending time with friends and also getting to make so many new and great friends.

So here we are at our competition.  We did so well - they didn't expect much from us - that we were awarded the judges trophy for the favorite dance of the day!  It was a blast.  Here is the whole group with one of our trophies.

Just my class in the warm up room
It was SO HOT in the rooms, but the lockers were nice and cool!
My sister in law, Krista, joined this year and this is us with our trophies.
Sick of sitting on the hard ground, I moved to the hard bench to get some food!
Singing in our microphone trophies on our way home to good old 80's music!

Missy's 12th Birthday!

My baby turned 12!  
I can't believe that she is that old or that I am.  I am so proud of this girl.  She is a great sister, daughter, and friend.  She is still a kid and makes mistakes, but overall, she is a joy to be around.  I love her so much!  When Missy was born, I felt like my heart was more complete.  She tries to do what is right and has a love of learning and a desire to be great at everything she does.  She is a bit mischievous, like her father!  

My "Pretty" Missy

This year, Missy's Birthday fell on Easter and the day we left for Spring Break.  So, after we celebrated Easter, we started to celebrate Missy's birthday.  In the Easter spirit, we decided to send her on a hunt for all her presents.  Since she turned 12, we hid her 12 presents around the house.  The first 10 were pretty easy to find and consisted of various clothing items I thought she would like, but the last two were hidden in her dad's suit coat pockets.  She needed a little bit of help to find those.  The 11 present was a date with her dad.  She and I have many opportunities to do things together and we felt it important for her to spend time with her dad.  The last present wasn't actually anything we could give her.  It was something that she had to earn for herself.  It was her newly signed temple recommend.  What a great treasure and gift that will be to her in her life.  I find great joy in you Missy!

When we returned from our spring break trip, we were finally able to have Missy's birthday dinner of stuffed shells, yum!
A few weeks after that we finally had her birthday party.  She has so many great girls that she is friends with!  I love these girls too! They had a great time hanging out, talking, playing and watching a movie. 
Missy wanted an ice cream cake for her party - no I didn't boil a can of sweetened condensed milk for hers, I bought the carmel at the store like normal people!

Missy's favorites:
Color Green
Dinner Everything!  She loves to eat!
Dessert Ice cream cake
Movie The Ultimate Gift
Book Found by Margaret Peterson Haddix
Zack's Lie and Jack's Run by Roland Smith
TV Show Jonas
Song Viva la Vida by Coldplay
Candy bar Symphony
Activities dancing, piano, friends, family, reading, singing, outdoors, biking
Best friends McKenzie, Brooklynn, Erika, Natalie, Natalie, Lindsey, Camela, Jasmin
Breakfast Pancakes, eggs and bacon (she love's bacon!)
Lunch                     Grilled chicken sandwich
Restaurant Olive Garden
Primary song Called to Serve
Scripture story Jesus' birth because of the prophecies and miracles associated with it

Thursday, May 21, 2009

Mother's Day

I have written before about how I don't always like Mother's Day very much, but this year I decided to make that different.  I decided that I didn't have a good day because of my own selfishness.  So, I decided to quit worrying about myself.  I had the kids make a few extra Mother's Day cards and we went around our neighborhood and visited a couple of older ladies.  It was so much fun!  They had the best stories and I wasn't worried about me, so I was happier.  We tried to see my Grandmother too, but she was at my cousin's home, so we just went home, had a low key dinner and went to bed.  It was a great day!  

I truly love being a mom.  Some days are very trying and I worry about my kids growing up and making good decisions, but there is no other job I would rather have.  I even get to share all the joy and pain with Corry.  What could be better! :)

I am grateful for wonderful mothers in my life including my mom and mother-in-law as well as all the other women who have influenced me for good.  I love you all!







Monday, May 18, 2009

I found my CAMERA!

I found it today!  Yeah!  It was in the Kleenex box.  I know, just where you would expect a camera to be!  I'll be posting soon!  :)

Sunday, May 17, 2009

AAAHHHH!

I lost my camera and I am very sad about it!  I had it on Mother's Day when I took pictures with the kids, but I can't find it.   It has Fuzzy's Birthday on it and both girls' parties.   I went to upload my pictures and it was gone!  Friday was Missy's other party, tomorrow is my dance recital, Friday is Kindergarten and 6th Grade Graduation, and next week is field day, awards assembly and the dance festival!  I can't live without my camera!!!!!  :((((

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Girls Camp

I love church girls camp!  I loved it as a youth attending and I loved it as an adult leader just as much!  Now my baby is going to camp and I don't get to go with her as a leader!  Bummer :(  But... yesterday the stake organized their girl's camp hike and invited all the women and especially the mothers to attend.  Yeah!  I got to go on the hike, which really is one of the BEST parts about camp anyway!  So many memories of camp came back to me like singing, "There's a hole in the fruit loop, dear Cheri, dear Cheri" - and I am sure annoying all the other hikers singing it.  Also going on a snipe hunt, having a frosting fight, toilet papering other wards, retiring an American flag, 4th year awesome 3 day hike (sleeping under the stars), toilet papering other wards, bras up the flag pole, lashing a jail and getting thrown in it because I wore shorts, toilet papering other wards, being a JC and coming to LOVE the girls I served, water ballooning our home ward in the middle of the night (with adult supervision of course), fantastic testimony meetings, toilet papering other wards, church in "the sacred grove", camp songs, skits, bishops night, toilet papering other wards, dropping my sleeping bag on Megan EVERY night because I wanted to sleep on the top bunk, fantastic leaders (both stake and ward), friendships with girls I never would have known any other way, and I could continue to go on and on (as if I didn't already go on and on)!

So back to the present, our General Young Women's Presidency asked the Young Women this year to return to Virtue.  They made Virtue a new Young Women value along with Faith, Divine Nature, Good Works, Knowledge, Good Works and Integrity and asked all women of the church to join the Young Women in returning to Virtue.  So, our stake leaders invited all the women to hike up the hill that overlooks our homes and wave a banner of virtue and promise to return to virtue.  We met at the mouth of the canyon at 8 AM and all gathered about a mile up the mountain at about 9 AM.  Our Stake President, Pres. Atkinson, talked to us about the choice that we have to be virtuous.  He told us that at this moment, those willing to, were not only making a promise, but we were making a covenant with God that if we would return to virtue, He would bless us.  Since it was a covenant, then the place we made it was holy ground.  He asked us to remove our shoes and kneel down on the sacred ground overlooking our homes and pray to our Father asking for help to remain virtuous.  Then he offered the most beautiful prayer in our behalf that if we would do this, the Lord would poor out abundant blessings on us for our efforts.  Then we went to the edge of the cliff, waved our banners and shouted to all the world, Return to Virtue!  It was beautiful and more beautiful to do with my daughter.  (I forgot my camera, but when I get pictures taken by others, I will add them to the post.)

After that special moment, most of the women went home and most of the young women and their leaders continued up the mountain.  I LOVE hiking.  God has created such a beautiful place for us to live.  I love being able to hike through it and appreciate it a little bit more.  A few places in the hike were steep and a little exhausting, but I got to go with some great girls and help each other along the way.  At one point, one of the girls was a little bit tired and Missy volunteered to wear her pack for her.  She said she felt guilty for Missy carrying it for her and it was a prime opportunity to remind these girls of one of their baptismal covenants to "Bear one another's burdens".   We are all in this life together to help each other and lift each other higher.  At another point when we were all tired and the end seemed far away, I was reminded of what President Hinckley said about the second coming of Christ.  Something like, it is closer now than it has ever been.  The end of the hike was closer at that point than it had ever been.  Little by little we are able to conquer insurmountable tasks.  When we finally reached the top there was this beautiful spring.  We took our shoes and socks off and put our feet in the FREEZING water!  It felt so wonderful after that hike up the mountain.  

When the last of the group arrived, President Paul told a few stories.  The first one was about how the area we were in, is home to many cougars.  Two women he knew were attacked by a cougar years before.  It attacked the one and started dragging her off while the other lady grabbed hold of her friends legs and started playing tug-of-war with the cougar for her friend's life.  Later other bikers came up the mountain and started throwing rocks at the cougar.  Finally the cougar let up and help was called.  The woman had suffered many face and neck wounds and it took over 200 stitches and multiple plastic surgeries to reconstruct the damage.  (At this point I am wondering the wisdom in telling these 12-18 year old girls about cougars being in the area and how they attack at times.  Some were just scared of the climb up the mountain.)  Then he told his second story about a girl he met through work (as a policeman).  He was thinking about her and decided he needed to call her up and check on her.  Many years had passed, but he found her number and asked her to meet with him.  She was hesitant to visit the chief of police, wondering if she would be arrested when she walked in his office, but agreed to go.  He shared how she had the look of a meth addict, was pregnant with a child out of wedlock and was the mother of at least one more child.  As they visited, he asked her where she saw herself in 5 years.  Her response was, dead, and that she had no hope for the future.  He reminded her that she was a daughter of God and it was never too late to turn your life around.  He asked her if she knew who her bishop was and she mentioned that she had met him the other day and had set up a meeting with her that Sunday.  President Paul encouraged her to keep that appointment because as much as he could share with her, her Bishop was the only person with the keys and authority to really help her.  Then he asked the girls how many would play tug-of-war with a cougar to save their friend's life.  We all would.  Then he asked how many of us would play tug-of-war with satan to save the life of a friend like the second girl?  At least the first woman was a God fearing Christian who could meet her Savior in peace, while the second girl had so many sins, not only would she die physically, but spiritually as well.  He told us how important it was to be virtuous, but that was more than just being clean ourselves.  Sister Dalton (YW General President) said, "Virtue “is a pattern of thought and behavior based on high moral standards.” It encompasses chastity and moral purity. Virtue begins in the heart and in the mind. It is nurtured in the home. It is the accumulation of thousands of small decisions and actions. Virtue is a word we don’t hear often in today’s society, but the Latin root word virtus means strength. Virtuous women and men possess a quiet dignity and inner strength. They are confident because they are worthy to receive and be guided by the Holy Ghost. President Monson has counseled: “You be the one to make a stand for right, even if you stand alone. Have the moral courage to be a light for others to follow. There is no friendship more valuable than your own clear conscience, your own moral cleanliness—and what a glorious feeling it is to know that you stand in your appointed place clean and with the confidence that you are worthy to do so.”  President Paul taught that we need to be the ones to stand for virtue and help those around us fight satan.  He reminded us that just like his friend who fought the cougar, she was physically strong, prepared for physical battles in her path.  We need to be spiritually strong, prepared for the more deadly battles against satan.  

What an awesome day... spend time with my daughter, hike in God's country, and rededicate myself to being a virtuous women and in helping others to come unto Christ.  

Thursday, May 7, 2009

Alli


Driving down the road today, Alli asked why the crosses were buried under the road.  I didn't think I heard her right, so I asked her what she said again.  She repeated it exactly and I asked her what crosses she was talking about.  Then she told me all about how the cross that Jesus died on was buried under the road and the road was the dark sky that was very sad that Jesus had died.   Then she asked if there would be a dark sky that would be sad that she died too.  In some ways it is very sweet that she thinks about her Savior so much... in other ways it is slightly disturbing that she is obsessed with death!

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

Bees

I really wish I had pictures for this post, but you will just have to leave the visuals to your imagination!  So yesterday evening, I was out in my backyard BBQ-ing some chicken, when Scotty comes outside and tells me I have to come see this.  He takes me to the front door where my next door neighbor is screaming, flailing her arms and shaking her head saying there is a bee in her hair.  I start trying to help her get it out.  I can hear it buzzing in her hair, but I can't see it anywhere.  (Imagine the neighbors across the street watching out their window this whole time and the ones next to them out in their driveway watching, too.)  Finally, it frees itself, then comes at me and Scotty and into the house.  We get it out and shut the door, but we are now outside.  So we keep talking to Julane and it comes after us again.  We are trying to get away, but it is MAD by now and stings me in my eye brow at which point I start laughing.  I have never been stung before, so we go into Julane's house to get an insect ointment thing from her.  I would LOVE to have had a video camera on us.  It would have been almost as good as when the snake slithered over my feet (in flip flops) while I was cleaning my windows.  I screamed and high jumped the flowers to get out of there!  Anyway, I had never been stung before so it is good to know I am not allergic.  So, to continue the story, the neighbor next to Julane is a bee keeper.  His queen had died and all the bees were going CRAZY.  He was able to get a new queen and calm them down and came over feeling terrible.  I was really laughing at that point and was thrilled with the honey he gave us for our trouble.  All ended well and made for a great story.  Thanks Julane!

Monday, May 4, 2009

Birthday Parties

I saw this on my friends blog and I loved it, so I thought I would do it too.  

I set a budget for Missy and Fuzzy's Birthday parties at $25 each, so $50 total.  Here is what we did:

Fuzzy wanted to play games at the park and decorate cupcakes to earn tickets for a big prize.  We also decided on no presents this year.  We don't need any more toys, so we opted to put instead of presents, bring a snack or treat to share to the party.  So we had a bubble blowing contest, hitting a beach ball contest, decorating a cupcake contest, and played capture the flag.  For everything they won, they earned a ticket and at the end, the friend with the most tickets won a cute bag.  Besides that, they played on the play ground and ate lots of snacks and everyone went home with a bag of treats.

Here was the break down:
Invitations.................... free - printed them off at home
cake mix ....................... free - had in the basement
frosting......................... free - had in the basement
sprinkles...................... free - had in the cupboard
paper plates................. free - had in the basement
knives to spread.......... free - had in the basement
tickets........................... free
beach balls............ ....... $3.00
Bubbles......................... $0.80
Capri suns............. ....... $5.00
Candy for gift bags...... $6.00
Cute bag for prize ....... $8.00
Bags............................... free
Total $22.80

For Missy's party, she also declined gifts, and actually wanted two parties, one with friends from school and another one with the neighborhood kids (we are still trying to find a time for that one).  She wanted to play games and earn tickets too.  We did this party at home.  They jumped on the tramp, played the Wii, and watched a movie.  It was so low key and fun for everyone (including mom)!  The biggest part was making her ice cream cake.

Invitations.................... free - printed them off at home
ice cream...................... $2.50
Oreos............................. $1.25
carmel........................... $1.90
Cool whip..................... free - had in the freezer
Chocolate sprinkles.... free - had in cupboard
paper plates/cups....... free - had in the basement
tickets........................... free
glow sticks............ ....... $3.50
Candy for gift bags...... $6.00
Cute bag for prize ....... $8.00
Bags............................... free
Total $23.15

Lots of fun for both parties and I came in under budget, spending a total of $45.95!

Scotty - getting so big!

Scotty is getting so big!  He was out in the yard moving dirt with the men.  It is so much fun seeing him grow up.  To think I was SCARED to death to have a little boy!

OK, he isn't growing up too fast

Sunday, May 3, 2009

One great evening

Tuesday night Corry and I had a great opportunity to take Missy to the temple for the first time.  In our church, we believe that baptism is vital to living with God again one day.  We believe that Jesus himself taught us the importance of baptism by being baptized.  We also believe that God is a just God who will not punish those who did not have the ability to be baptized in this life, so in the temple we perform vicarious baptisms for the dead so that they can receive the same blessings as those who were baptized in life.  When children reach the age of 12, if they are worthy, they may enter the temple and perform these baptisms for those who have died.  What a neat experience for Corry to be able to perform the baptisms and see my baby dressed in white in the temple.  My heart was full of gratitude for Missy and the wonderful young woman that she is becoming and gratitude for my Savior for providing a way for all mankind to be saved.  I cannot wait to do the same with my other children when they are old enough. 

Missy and Corry in front of the Temple
Me and Missy - it was so cold but completely worth it to have this moment!