I guess Rosie and I can only hope.
Rosie has made a lot of friends during her short 7+ years in AZ and many of them Rosie looks to as mother figures. One such friend she has grown close to while serving as one of her Visiting Teachers and tonight we were invited to attend her and her husband's 50th Anniversary. It was a great night and surprisingly we weren't as out of place as I might have expected when I first heard that we were going.
Don't get me wrong, I like the people we were there to celebrate, but I assumed the people that would be there would be family (which we are obviously not) and/or older people who we share nothing in common with (some may argue the old part). That all said I was, for the most part, wrong.
First, I should give you and idea about what these people are like. They were called to serve a mission somewhere in the Carribeans a number of years ago and during their farewell talks in church, Bro. White mentioned that he had always dreamed of walking an island beach with a beautiful blonde and now the Lord was answerring this AZ boys dream. Or at least something to that affect.
While there we were able to socialize with some of the older couples from our ward who, admittedly, Rosie knows better than I do. It was a quite enjoyable.
With all this, Bro. White got up to say a word, or so, about how thankful they were for the attendees and then began telling the story of how they met. I won't go into that too much but suffice it to say that it was a good story. Towards the end though; and this is the part that struck me, partly for its laugh and mostly because it started me thinking about deeper things in life, he mentioned that "Marla and I have 6 kids so far...."
I happened to be sitting across the table from Marla when the comment was made and the look on her face was priceless.
Anyway it obviously got people laughing and after I got my chuckles out of the way it started me thinking about how we should always be thinking about the next big thing.
I thought about my dad and my mom and their 40th.
I thought about Rosie and I and our next big thing (or more to the point of what that might be).
I thought about discussions Rosie and I have while laying in bed talking about our relationship and intimate things.
I thought about adoption. A lot.
Then I went and found Rosie who was sitting with the Carr's and chatting. And again thought...