Tuesday, January 29, 2013

So what do you think about that? Oh yeah, you aren't thinking....you're being sold!

It is so very easy to get distracted by the easy things in life, to get our panties in a bunch over a singer who may have lip synched (all of them do at these big events! deal with it! the president has teleprompters and speech writers and isn't speaking from the heart/ from memory)

......that a athlete falsified info about a girlfriend, or wtf ever that story is.......

Don't you think we are being spoon fed bullshit? Has it ever occurred to you that just maybe someone has 'bought' the media and are keeping these superficial bullshit stories at the front of each newscast as to avoid the real issues. The issues that matter?? I believe so, and I doubt everything!



People in my home town love to get all riled up over the event center we have. The one that was voted on, and approved. The one that is already built and not going anywhere, the one that in all reality isn't that big of a deal.  But it is an easy distraction. Let's not concentrate on the cold and hungry and unemployed in our town....nah- not easy enough!

People love to throw Walmart under the bus. Call into the wind how they screw their employees and are the death to towns!  Let us not forget just how many people that company employs. That company started as a 5&10 basically and built itself up.  That company where the employees are not FORCED to work at, but chose to- otherwise they would leave right? I've worked at some crappy jobs and chose to stay, because it was money or benefits, or easier than what else I could be doing, or it fit the hours I needed....get it? Right..... So, I understand being mad because Walmart moved in and another store closed due to loss of business.  It sucks, and it does happen, not denying it.  But, let's ponder this- that store employed maybe 5 to 8 people at a time, it took up one store front and while it kept maybe 3 families in some money....it wasn't a big employer.  Walmart moves into our town and employs hundreds of people! People moved into town to work there. Thousands of people a year come to our town to shop here (spending money elsewhere while here) because we are the town with Walmart. BUT it is so easy to ride your high horse and shout -evil....why? because you were told it was?  Nice.

A teacher in town gets accused of sexually assaulting students.  A town 3 hrs away, with a bigger media, picks up on the story and performs one of the worst examples of high drama/stirring the bee hive reporting I have seen in awhile. Our local media goes about it the right way- waiting until there were charges placed before reporting the story. People in town get upset because he is being 'covered for' by local media who wasn't doing their duty. Ummmmmm, really? You think it ok for a media source to potentially ruin the life of someone who may or may not be guilty in a small town, forever ruining their life regardless of the outcome of a trial- if there was going to be one.  The attorney said off the record he felt pressured into pressing charges now without a full investigation BECAUSE of this out of town media source! Grrrr.......  and we just buy right into it. Sickening.  The guy has a $5000 bail. I personally would pay the bail and then I would....well, bail!  I'd flee like no other!  He has no chance at a normal life ever again- if he is found guilty or not.

I just am so sick of people's ability to latch onto the senseless with little information and poor sources for the info they do seek out .  Stop being fooled. Stop falling for it.  What is really going on out there?  What are the real issues?  This is coming from a middle of the road (not extreme) conservative btw! *gasp! Imagine that.


Monday, January 28, 2013

One forgets to say-Hey, I'm ok...today

The last couple of days have been better. The warmer weather has really helped. It is 60 degrees warmer this week then it was last week.  Of course it is still only 30 degrees out there, but soooo much better than negative 30.

It started to snow tonight, and is still dumping the white stuff. Not top of the mountain - 3 to 18 feet accumulations but enough to be sizable. It is so very needed. 

Just thought I'd check in quick, seems it is easy to cry or bitch but hard to remember to stop by and say-  Hey, I'm ok....today 

my town tonight, photo submitted by someone in my town

Friday, January 25, 2013

FFI





 1. Wow, this weekend couldn't have come fast enough.
2. I am not a master at trivia.
3. Finally, I'm getting to sit down to a real meal and a cold beer.....ahhh Friday night.
 4. Not accomplishing anything tonight is all right with me.
5. Sweet or savory: I don't care, as long as I get dessert after this.
6. I can not identify anything on me and say they  are new.
7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to doing absolutely nothing, tomorrow my plans include a youth wrestling tourney  and Sunday, I want to start our taxes!


 copyright- Jules

I still think of you- an ode to ex's

image from tumblr
Oh my dear,
you touched me in a way I will never forget.
However, forgetting and carrying on are two separate things.
I know that now.
Oh how long it took me to figure this out. 

I am forever grateful for you, for your time in my life...
for how you shaped my life and changed me completely.

 Everyone comes into you life at the right time for a reason.
Sometimes they must then exit as well.....we grow and appreciate, or we dwell and suffer.
 I need to be done suffering....

But you are never forgotten,
and sometimes you are still brought to mind- in the naughtiest of ways
*grin

Thursday, January 24, 2013

Damn I love my girl....even if she smokes

Smoking is bad for you kids!
BUT!
Inhaling smoke from a girl's mouth as she touches your lips and and slowly blows it in......

It is a Damn fine way to ruin a lung!

and I'm not talking cigarettes here

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Not sure this was a normal conversation

at the water park this last weekend, husband and I had the following conversation:

Oh my goodness, you missed the best ass I have ever seen! - me to him

Which one? - him to me

The lady, she was over there, she's gone now though .me pointing off to the side of us at a group of tables

The one in the black bikini? he asks me...

OH GOD YES!
Her! 
She has the most amazing ass I have seen my whole life! 
I didn't want you to miss it! I'm glad you didn't! I beam to him

Oh I didn't! Is it odd we will be fantasizing about the same person tonight? - he asks with a smirk?

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I hope it wasn't wrong, because I can pretty much guarantee you that (or rather who) we were both thinking of that night in bed......mmmmm, dang....I wish I could have met her!  Kind of awkward though to approach a mommy out of the blue- a married one at that ... as she is in the pool playing with her two very little boys.....and say..."You have the best ass ever, I have violated you 50 ways in my mind already"  I guess the fantasy will live in my brain.

... sigh....


Sunday, January 13, 2013

Just another day at the beach

dreaming of sunnier days.....
It's hard not to get down when THIS is sunny. This is a very real picture(s) that I took here where I live. This is indeed the landscape, the horizon, the view, the way it looks with and without the sun.  It is hard not to let it get to you after awhile.

I am slowly losing the battle.....


Saturday, January 12, 2013

yikes

some people's genetic combinations are so much better than others. I am so very bold? rude? honest? to admit that some people are just a bad combo of DNA!!! 


Wednesday, January 9, 2013

Wow 1.5 minutes of wow!

A client who is also an acquaintance came in today.  He gave me a quick shoulder massage. Oh My God!!!!  I can not remember the last time a guy gave me a massage.  I can not remember the last time I got a massage I didn't pay for quite frankly!!!!

He is a bigger guy. His hands were so strong, and he applied just the right pressure.  It lasted about 1.5 minutes but I felt better after that stint then I have in months if not years.

I sooo miss that. Sigh...

I had a b'friend in college who was pretty damn good at back massages, I knew I was giving that up when we didn't stay together....I just didn't realize it would be forever.


Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Caution: Deep Sorrow within. Leaks may occur


My heart hurts today. I have an indescribable ache deep within it. It has welled up most of the day and now as I try to sleep I find a knot in my throat.  I have no idea why, I don't know that there is a particular reason, but it just hurts. There is deep sorrow within it and I guess every once in a while it leaks out a bit. 


Sunday, January 6, 2013

I don't wonder where I wander to

9 times out of 10 my mind goes to 1 of 2 places. Both are related, I guess. So I guess I truly do know where my heart is ....since that is where my mind usually wanders. Sigh.....

click thru is an outtake from HNT
and not related to this post

cold

Alone again. Bed is cold.

Friday, January 4, 2013

Let me explain something.....

1 finger = clinical
2 or more fingers = sexual

Get it straight. Thanks

Thursday, January 3, 2013

Craig's list...I don't get it

So for fun I will skim Craig's List. See who is 'desperate' or 'horny' or wanting 'nsa' connections.  It cracks me up when someone asks for a female over 65 who is wild and into kink (alrighty then!) But I never understand 1 thing.  Why do guys post pics of their dicks??? Am I the only female who would rather NOT see that? Show me your chest/arms/ass.  These are the things that matter to me more than if you are erect and able to photograph at the same time. I am not switching from pic A to pic B to compare. I just do not understand.  Honestly a guy's face and bod would be the deciding factor for me on that sort of listing. THEN his performance after a meeting.

Now, I AM NOT CRUISING THE LIST HOPING TO MAKE A HOOK UP!!!!!!!!!! Please understand that, I am doing it to get a giggle.