loss. nothing scares me more than the loss of a loved one. or that of something deeply cherished. and as we grow older (and hopefully wiser) we inevitably come to the age whereby our parents seem to be aging too rapidly for our liking. when things happen that make one realises how close my peers and i are to that age, it never fails to set one thinking. when (not if) will it happen to me? twas of good fortune / luck / divine blessing that the incident my dear fren experienced turned out to be a 'false' alarm, and i am glad for my fren too. for she now has a second go at it, and she knows it too (and i am sure that she'll do a great job ;)).
usually when one is insulated from such occurences, the second chances that they are getting often goes to waste. and to the relatively 'more informed' observer, it just seems such a waste. such a waste to see how people treat the loved ones around them. be it family or friends, just because what's being said isnt what one wants to hear, words and actions motivated mainly by concern gets treated as irritants in one's life. one never realises how short lived their time together is (..and can be). before one knows it, and begins to cherish a loved one, many 'second chances' would have already come and gone. and too soon, much too soon, their time would be up.
which is why its so sad when one sees the things certain people do (or do not). little do they realise that many of those things they will come to regret later in life, wells most would anyways. so those among us who can and do see speak up and hope that they hear us. but in the end, its not our lives to run and live you see. sometimes experience just is the best teacher in life.
its not easy to see certain things unless you've been there,
a little harder to pass the message on to the next,
and almost impossible to let others learn
from your experiences.
i see and i say. but i dont do enough just the same. i'll keep trying and may it never be a cause for regret. that, is what scares me, all the freakin time. ;)
"we never tell them enough, how much we love them"