Communication Skills

Just happen to listen to 933 Program...

Guys should not say the following to his GF/wife when being asked for comments:

1. Anything
2. Up to you
3. As long as you are happy

Guys should try to give more suggestive comments.

Example : "DO you think i should buy this dress?"

"Do you think this dress will look good on me?"

Ladies would prefer to hear comments like " go on, try it on" rather than any of the 3 above..

Because we feel that if you say " anything" or " up to u", you doesn't care for us at all..

Many of such small issues and communication are able to make a relationship stronger and to make a woman feel that you still care for her..Women are emotional by nature..We act accordingly to our emotions.If our emotions are being satisfied, we will feel good and there will be less quarrels as well between a couple.

Accordingly to studies, nowadays its no longer third party or abuse that make divorce cases go shooting high..its a lack of Communication.

I am rather worried by this as it makes me ponder if getting married is afterall what i want..

Compromise

I just happen to listen to this song and i am in love in it..although only a few sentence apply to me but the whole song is so realistic..It just reflect on how love is..

妥协

你总爱编织谎言 我负责配合表演

所有改变 只为了进入你的世界

这情节 重复了一百遍

才发现 是你的心太野

你划定楚河汉界 我不能轻易犯规

所有时间 都是先给了你优先权

不自觉 爱到不敢冒险

成了你的傀儡一年两年

才看见我有多狼狈

爱到妥协 到头来还是无解

绑着你 不让你飞

历史不断重演 我好累

爱到妥协 也无法将故事再重写

你已下最后通牒

我躲在我的世界

你只是害怕一个人睡

我不想再为你掉泪

我了解 不会变 不再徘徊

开始自己的明天

There are things in life that we all should learn to compromise..But for me i won't tolerate Unfaithfulness or Betrayal either in Spiritually, Emotionally or Physically!

P.s. I use , and "or" in the above sentence so it simply means, either 1 of the crime committed is subjected to execution!! NO pleading allowed.

I have grown up after all these years and i strongly believe that if there is a " once", there will be a "twice"!! To men..Once bitten twice shy doesn't apply to them.

Oh yah..forgot to mention I also hate roving eyes of men especially when they are with their GFs.

its ok if they look at gals but their head turn 90 degrees or some 180 degrees towards the direction of the gals they are looking even when they are driving or walking! Looking at the ladies are more impt than their safety! This is too much.

This is simply no respect for their GF whom are beside them!! No one stop you guys from looking at gals but for God Sake pay some respect to the lady beside you! Do not do things overboard! How would you feel if your GF is doing the same to you?? Holding yr hands while heads turns at 90 degrees checking out at some cool guys out there??

Dont tell me you guys dun feel a thing..If that's the case you had better do something to salvage or end your relationship not to waste each others' time.

I will not tolerate this..Simply disgusted by this act..

If this happen to me, i will make sure my partner knows that i know that he is staring at gals at an "overboard" level and will ignore him for the whole day or even week! There is no reason a gal will be angry out of a sudden.. men should reflect themselves what they have done to cause the sudden change in her attitude.

As said before, women have a revengeful nature..so if you dare to do it, make sure you are able to handle the consequences...

New Email Address

Hi all,

I guess by now you have received notification that i had a change of email address.

Please update your contact list with my new email address :

lenachew@ymail.com

It's a new day in a new month so I decided to change a new email after years of using the old one..

Simply just love new stuff!!