Tuesday, October 26, 2010
这是我第一次以华文在blogspot打文,也许觉得这样比较能表达此刻沉重心情。
10月23日, SHE 歌迷痛心的一天。 Selina 在上海拍戏惨糟爆火灼伤, 伤势列为严重, 整整超过 50%灼伤, 包括背/脚/部分脸面。 从网络获知事件的各位, 由其是身为粉丝的我们, 倍感心痛。 很想把这一切当成一场恶梦, 只是宣传手法, 一切都是玩笑, Selina 并没真的受伤。但每日的频频报道及大家的心痛心碎, 证实了恶梦。
看了各方面的媒体报道, 大家自我分析的各种现场时况的种种可能性, 可以说这场意外的确是可以避免的。 人为的疏忽, 自私仅想省钱省劳的剧组及戏商, 酿成不可原谅的错误。 爆戏一向来都被示为危险性的演出, 剧组也理所当然应当做足安全措施确保剧中演员及在场的所有工作人员的安权至上。 但这部戏的剧组显然的忽略这点, 酿成无可回头的悲剧。 真的很难理解, 为何现场没有任何安权设备在一旁守后, 连最基本的救伤车及灭火设备都没有。 就连当Selina 和男主角几乎全身燃烧大喊要水和灭火哭述时, 现场的人也只能搬来饮水来应急。就算不是爆戏, 也应该有一些设备放着以便随时应变突发状况。 只能说剧组无良!! 你们跟本没把演员的安全当一回事!! 天娱/马桶台/剧组, 你们的疏忽大意造成了两个无辜演员的人生大劫及无比撞伤, 无论在身心或心灵上, 让所有支持他们的人们现入时时刻刻为他们担忧的状态!! 无法谅解, 更不用说原谅二字!!
“其实Selina拍第一场爆炸戏时，已感觉到危险，故一直问第二次爆炸是否安全，在俞灏明的安抚下，两人手拖手再向特技师确认安全问题，当Selina得知是安全时，即向对方鞠躬说："一定要安全啊！"可惜一切事与愿违.” (这段取之于Selina吧)
"一定要安全啊!” 亏Selina 还向你们鞠了躬。
烟火师, 爆火师, 你们可对得起天地良心??
Selina一向怕痛, 众所周知. 这次的痛, 不用想也知道会有多么的难受。需要多少勇气以及泪水来熬过这关, 我想是我们任何一个都无法去体会的。 将来要走的路也想必不容易, 需克服多少心理的撞伤和表面的改变, 我们无言表达. 只希望上苍能保佑小只平安的度过难关, 能很快的再次站在舞台上发光发亮!!
原本她已准备开心的踏入她人生的另一阶段, 那是一段她一直很向往的人生。
为何要在这时后让这一切痛苦将领于她, 让她的梦想被迫先画上一个等点。
她为人处事一向让人安心, 爱心也绝不输于大慈善家。
她是大家心目中的开心果, 常带给大家欢笑于快乐。
但为和要让她去承受这一切？！？！
除了说心痛，还是心痛。
最后，
感恩上苍让事发后的一切调动及治疗都顺顺利利，
感恩所有跟我一样的SHE歌迷朋友们对小只的不离不弃，
感恩所有即使不是SHE迷的大家对小只的关爱，
感恩所有为她于勇敢的男主角祈祷的人们。
感恩，感恩， 再感恩。
原上苍能听见我们的祈祷， 让这俩位勇敢的天使能赶快好起来！！
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Friday, January 01, 2010
HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERBODY!!!
at the strike of midnight yesterday, along with shouts and cheers, dazzling fireworks and everybody's excitement, 2010 proudly announced its arrival!!
2009 has been good. of course, there have been downs and frustration but still, it was good because after going through so many things, people, events.. we're all still together - smiling and ready to move on to the new year. looking back, we saw how US crumbled on the banking debts/lapse, causing the rest of the world economies falling into the blackhole and every countries trying their best to climb up the hole to find that glimpse of light. with lehman brothers down-crashing, many rich became poor or even debt-ridden overnight, thousands of retrenchment follows, companies downsizing or even became history in a matter of days. everybody was shocked, at the speed and impact of this downfall, we were obviously not ready. of course, in reality, we knew such an event couldnt haven been sparkled overnight. poor management of credits and debt lending and on-purpose hiding of situation by the upper heads were the actual culprits of this world economy turmoil.
and so, we struggled through this period coping with retrenchments, rising living costs yet decreasing money rolling in as this gradually becomes a norm shared across people of the world. we no longer spend as we like, we think thrice or more when spending and feel safe only when the money is in our own pockets. but ladies and gentlemen, we survived. even though the economies upset and market bad times are still on going, we are still here standing strong, ready for the battle.
for me, 2009 has been eventful. the struggle with health issues and getting a job to finally getting one and the skies clearing on my health issue. well, im proud to say i survived the ride too. and now for 2010, a happy new year and a whole new set of resolutions:
1) moving on to a new job that i like
2) be happy and smiling always
3) good health for me and my loved ones
4) more travelling - especially eyeing on cambodia, vietnam and china
5) earn and save more $$$
6) world peace and green
7) need to get my ass to go gym and start exercising
8) get a dslr camera and learn photography
9) time to get a new desptop too!
10) **
may 2010 be a good and exciting year for each and every one of us =)
Tuesday, September 08, 2009
reality have been hurting.
doing something out of your likes can really be straining on oneself, both physically and mentally. and it doesnt helps when things are not going the way they should. to add on, the people/machine factors have a liking to divert things to the wrong track when im trying very hard to keep everything in line.
worrying has become more of a daily routine and the almost constant fear actually becomes part of work's common. every other day it appears even as part of my dreams.
i.feel.like.running.away.
Monday, August 24, 2009
happiness is not just about the happy times and smiling moments. happiness also counts in the tears we've rolled for the people we loved. simply because they exist in our lives, they made happiness possible.-zhutou-happiness. its a simple word that appears on the english dictionary yet its all that we are after in our lives. its intangible, odourless and we cant really feel it with any of our five senses. the only way we do, i guess is through our hearts. and when they say our hearts rule the mind most of the times, well you've got to admit its so true afterall. when you're in midst of happiness, you know it and others can feel it too. none of bad news sound bad enough, whatever you're tasting tastes the same - its gotta be only sweet, and even all that you see looks pleasing enough or maybe they can look glittering with stars sometimes. to add on, there would a glow on you that nobody would miss out. thats happiness.
talking about happiness. we always tend to associate it with happy, smiles, laughters, bliss, loving someone and of course, being loved. thats basically our general definition. in very rare occasion would someone associate it with tears and anything that sounds a little less positive. but well, man do we forget that everything has 2 sides of it, just like a coin? so happiness is not just about all the happy stuffs but it can also include those that we consider less positive. and tears is one of them.
sometimes we may hate the fact that our loved ones make us teared. cos generally when we cry, it means we are hurt, disappointed or sad. though there are also occasions whereby they are tears of joy. but have it ever occured to you that simply because they hold important weights in our hearts thats why we teared for them. yes, they may make us feel hurt or sad at times, but lets not forget the times when they bring us smiles, bliss and love. like i say, there's always 2 sides to everything. if happiness does only consists of smiles and joy, and not the other half of tears and sadness, it wouldnt be a complete.
if someone had made you teared, be a little happy that you could do so. for his/her existence is what make happiness possible.
Saturday, May 02, 2009
they say we need to live our life. cos in this life, we get to live only once.you live it, or you dont.they always say,
dont live a life with regrets. but how easy is that gonna be. for words and actions, they never weigh the same. yes of course we do our best for every thing that comes along and we thought that makes it no room for any regrets. but then when we do look back again, chances are that we might realise what we have done could have been done better in another way or so. so thats one form of regret. going this way, it seems that both giving your best and vice versa gives you the same old ending. you still end up with regrets. how cliche.
and each time we regretted some thing, somehow we like to promise ourself that we will not allow history to repeat itself again. consider that a mistake done and lesson learnt? or maybe also a valuable experience gained. thats pretty much what life sums up to, life experience. while we go progress through each stage of the life cycle, our life experience gets more input and in one way or so they helped us in dealing situations/people, solving and analysing problems. i guess that what regrets do best to us, they make us feel the pain, in turn help us to grow while adding stories to our lives. this is positive taking of regrets by the way. of course we do encounter times when we took regrets negatively and it churns out all sorts of problems and not forgetting it impacts on our confidence and morale as well. so the bottomline, its inevitable that we do misjudge, make mistakes or even make the wrong choices. the focus should be on how we took the things from then. our attitude usually makes a whole lots of difference to what things could/should be.
do what you strongly believe in, only then they say, you'll live without regrets.my question is, what if one day you dont even know what you believe in anymore?
Friday, April 17, 2009
options and opportunities. both words starts with the letter 'O'.
are they the same? similar?
well, almost.
when we talk about opportunities, we relate most to forward-looking chances or scenarios that most of the times, are favourable to us. options on the other hand, would lead us to the common situation whereby we have to juggle our priorities on the see-saw while playing the probability game. the common link between them is the guaranteed exposure to win-lose, gain-loss. for both, the results are often either one, you gain or you loss, you win or you lose. but of course, there's still minimal allowance for grey areas of the situation remaining unchanged.
and sometimes, options and opportunities are somewhat inter-linked. or maybe we can say that they're always linked in one way or another. let's talk about abit on the why and how. whenever an opportunity arise, it opens up a new option. thus if the opportunity does not exist, you wont have that extra option. for example, lets say if you're already set on watching movie A but assuming the tickets are still not yet bought. and then someone comes along and offer to buy you movie B. this becomes an opportunity and you have the new option of watching movie B instead. therefore, if you werent offered to movie B, you would just go ahead move A without much thinking.
in my opinion, as much as opportunities are good in the sense that they open up alot of possibilities and the fact that they're usually positive, they also create frustrating see-saw situations. relating back to the example, the opportunity presented means a free movie and the few possible cons are that of the person may be someone you dont wished to be wish or that movie wasnt something you really like or even it could be that movie A happens to be its last show already. on one hand, you might not want to miss out on the free movie, yet the other hand insists on watching the movie A. frustrating isnt it? of course, its always about weighing the pros and cons, looking at the gains and loss of every opportunity, option and calculating the best bet to be taken up. a tedious process i would say, and its definitely a pro at killing brain cells!
they say opportunities can be given, but the better people would know how to create them.-zhutou
