This year, I gotten a green sling bag from Bee. Something different from my bags collection.
Yeah~ My xmas shopping is almost done! Looking forward to this sat & next weekend xmas gathering with friends. Most exciting part is the yummy food that we will be having and of coz the gift exchange session which is a must every year! Oh well, so much for dieting. That one really got to wait till this lovely season is over first.
I haven’t seen little Ziv ever since his baby shower in August. Looking at the recent photos of him in cel’s blog, he turned to be so chubby le! So different! Really feel like pinching his fat fat cheeks( Haha.. typical auntie behavior! Opps). Meanwhile, I can’t tell who he resembles now. Perhaps wait till he’s 1 year old, it will be easier to tell. Babies grow up real fast with good nutrients! :P
所谓「己所不欲，勿施于人」，就是用自己的心推及别人；自己希望怎样生活，就想到别人也会希望怎样生活；自己不愿意别人怎样对待自己，就不要那样对待别人.
换句话说就是:自己不喜欢的就不要勉强别人.
Some people are just like that! They themselves do it without noticing that they are causing hurt to others. And if someone else does the same back to them, they will flare up. There is such a person in my company. No one can tell her what to do and there’s no room for discussion. Oh well, there will always be give and take situation. We are just giving her face by giving way to her. If she is happy, we will have a better life. The others like to please her by giving her gifts during her birthday but not me. I don’t do that as I don’t see the need.
Everyday, I look at her. She’s always in a grumpy face and complaining that she’s being ill-treated by our bosses when she got the upper hand controlling the flow in the company. A person who always like to compare and never-satisfied with her own life. Everyone has problem of their own. It’s how you deal with it. Hmm, although that’s a common problem in all of us- always comparing with others, I think if staying positive and trying to be self-contented with it, life wouldn’t be so bad. In fact, she’s living in a landed property and holding a high post with 2 clever kids, yet still wants to complain more and make people’s life miserable when she’s unhappy. Anyway money is never enough. Even if she strike lottery and have a few millions on hand, I guess she still never be satisfied. I conclude that it’s the character problem as she 看不得别人好过她. So Petty, selfish and unreasonable!
说者无意, 听者有意 also apply to her too. She get mad up at that person when she misinterpret the conversation. Thus talking to her is quite difficult as she gets the wrong idea at times. Sigh. Only she is right. All of us are wrong. No one can out-talk her. Winner loh.
