Song to recommend~

Love Story By Van Fan Yi Cheng

尾曲作词：F.I.R , 阿沁 作曲：F.I.R阿沁 , 编曲：Terence Teo

爱的故事有很多
你一定听过
她们说
最美的爱情像湖泊
美的忍不住停留
而任性的风吹过了
却飘下一片片叶落
放开手往北方走
留下伤心的树独自忍受
你离开我连一句话都不说
只默默看着今晚天空星光闪烁
看今夜的流星
划过了天际
笑我的心
我无法再冷静
请你要倾听
你是我的唯一
我不愿去相信
我们之间
隔着海洋的距离
我的爱
已融化在空气里

** Love this song the moment I heard it!**

Good news!!

Ladies and gentleman..

The winner for Talent Quest 06 is …… *drums rolling rolling*

Phoebee Ong Bee Lian

Yes!! She emerged as the solo category champion for Talent Quest 06!!! And that happened on the 1st April (April Fools day). No, It’s not a joke. It’s for real…
Best part is that I only came to know it recently while reading through her friendster blog.

The first thing I did was to email her to congrats her and ask why didn’t she informed us the big news earlier on. Thought it’s a late congrats, It’s better than never wor!
Turned out that she was also hoping that someone from our gang would pop the question and ask how the competition is going on as she feels weird to just break the news like that.
Surprisingly, it just slipped everyone’s mind. Haiz, it’s not that we are not concerned over her.
Just that we don’t get to see her on MSN and also seldom meet up le.

Why?

Because there’s no more monthly meetup organised that we used to do in the past year.

I guessed that it might be that quite a headache to think of places to go to as a group.
Most of the time, we would just end up somewhere eating and gossiping on some juicy news at a café or restaurant (Always seem to be the case). Partly reason might be it’s hard to coordinate different activity as our dear Mummy Nelly got to bring little Yan Yan and her hubby along during our meet up. And the following might be the reasons as well…

Can’t go to the beach as scared that yan yan cannot take the heat. Can’t go cycling as Bee don’t know how to cycle. Can’t go for reservoirs walk and enjoy the nature view as I can’t take the long distance walk (I know Fen loves that, but I just dun like it. Lol). Tsk tsk tsk….

So conclusion, why is there no special activity to go for in Singapore where we can be involved as a group?!?! Hahaa… push the blame~

Anyway, back to Bee’s issue. So thrilled that Bee’s efforts finally got recognized and all her hard work got paid off! It’s her dream to become a singer as she participated in lots of singing competition to get more stage experience and to create her own style of singing.

Way to go, Gal! Keep on striving for the best! Hope your dream will come true soon…

We shall meet up real soon, in celebration for this good piece of news…Ciao...

Super Long weekend again!

Arghhh….No more public holiday for now till August! Pengz.. So got to really rest well and enjoy myself for this long weekend. In fact, I seem to be working lesser during this month. Hmm.. Mainly because there are 2 public holiday + one day off for Election Day Plus I need to go for a full-body check up within this month as well which means I will not be working on that day as well. This month is SoOoOo damn easy to pass by.

Well, happens that Mother’s day was on this Sunday too. Hence Bro and I shared to buy a small present for her to show our appreciation. She was so damn happy and grinning from ear to ear the whole day long. It wasn’t really an expensive gift but it’s the thoughts that counts…

Tomorrow, I will be on leave as well. After going for my dental appt in the afternoon, I will be going for my first induction class le. Wonder’s how it’s going to be like. Will I get to know some new friends soon? Will I be able to handle my work & school life well?It’s been 5 or 6 years since I touched on textbook sia. It’s not going to be easy but I’ll try my best to cope.

Stay positive and things will be to your advantage

The Art of Forgiving and Letting go

Came across an article about how you should take responsibility of your own feelings when something doesn’t go according to your way or when someone say some rude remark that hurts you. As long as you blame others for your feelings, as long as you believe that it’s THEM who caused you to feel that way, you are stuck and headed for deeper problems. You will find that happiness is slipping away as sooner or later, everyone that you know might disappoint you in some way. So most importantly, walk away from disappointment and choose your own feeling. Sounds chim?

Well, it really relates to my current situation as I have a huge argument with one of my colleague just last week and it's NOT really the first time it happened!!! And she’s supposed to be my “good” friend at work. I just cannot communicate with her at times. Must be our birth character clash sia. Otherwise why do we always have misunderstanding? Pengz.

From last week to now, we aren’t talking to each other during work at all. IF there is, it’s only for work purpose. Arghh… I just can’t be bothered to put on a fake front to talk to someone who hurt my feeling. NO way am I going to initiate a start-off!! I’m truly am disappointed at the way as to how she treats a friend. Firstly, I don’t like people to beat around the bush and talk in circles and would very much appreciate if you can just tell me what’s going on in your mind. It’s frustrating to guess what’s everyone is thinking every time. I need direct answer! Secondly, don’t throw your weight around just because you are older than me. It’s doesn’t mean that you don’t need to admit your mistake and that you are always right every time. Also, pls don’t presume and try to act smart. Lastly, I hate people bring up other matters which has no linkage to the first issue that we are arguing on in the first place. Wow.. That’s the part I most hated! You quarrel on this issue first and yet bring up another matter to add on the fire.
Hey, Hello! Get the facts clear before making your point. I don’t think I got any wrong loh.

I understand that humans tend to be selfish creature at times but you do not push your friend to the fire and care only about yourself when things happened, right? Feels so betrayed and cheated at the thought of it. Friends should have mutual understanding and stand by each other no matter what happens.
Plus, admit your mistake when YOU are in the wrong. Don’t push the blame to others. At least that’s how I feel.

I appreciate that article. It really does make some sense but I don’t think I can forgive her yet. I don’t like to pretend that nothing has happened. Maybe I really have to learn the art of forgiving and letting go slowly and how to live my life happier. All I need for now was more time to absorb this teaching. I also don’t like the way how things are now.