One time late 2006 my bishop came to me and said his role was not matchmaker but that I should know someone had his eye on me. He wouldn't say who (sworn to secrecy) but agreed to give me clues- specifically, "His name is written on a paper outside of my door." Tim. Of course. It was basically the only name on the sheet. So I called and asked him out. I was high on life, in a good place, and not so afraid to be bold. He said no. This moment, that conversation, proved to be and still is one that causes an argument. We don't talk about it, probably because we both know I'm right; he doesn't want to admit it and I don't want to gloat. Truth be told, we didn't go out that night in October, nor anytime in the near future. So we'll leave it that he said no. I went on with life and several months later my bishop called me on a sunny Saturday afternoon. I'm surprised I answered- I was miles from home, on a bike, and carrying a plate of bro