As far back as I can remember, my dad has always been in banking. His dad was in banking, and he just followed in his footsteps. Over the last 10 years or so, he has worked for 3 different banks. His last job move was after my mom passed away and it was weird for him to be making such a big decision without her input. His job title was Vice President - Senior Client Manager and he was bringing in good money. He would also ref indoor soccer 5 days a week, and outdoor games during the season.
When people started losing their jobs a few years ago, I asked if he was at risk of losing his job and he said no. I had put it out of my mind and assumed he was safe - so did he. Until a Monday morning at the end of January when he was called into a meeting with HR and was told they would have to let him go. It had nothing to do with performance, he was just the newest guy and the first one cut of several people.
I remember seeing him at home during lunch that afternoon and he told me the news. I felt like I wanted to cry for him. I know he's in a much better place than JJ and I financially, but still. He had just spent quite a bit of money on renovations to the house and had plans to do more and now that was all thrown out the window. I asked if he had any idea what he was going to do and he said he wasn't sure. Then he said that he had thought about buying a gas station in the future - like years in the future. Huh?? A gas station? In his last few years working for Brotherhood Bank, he has done a lot of work with commercials loans for individuals who purchase gas stations. He knows a little bit about it and that there is potential to make pretty good money.
I figured that idea would blow over, but he's continued to talk about it. One of his old clients, who already owns a gas station, has taken him under his wing and showed him some available stores. There were two within about 30 minutes from his house that he was interested in, but either the owner didn't want to sell, or the price was too high. Then he heard about one in Lowry City, MO. It's out in the middle of nowhere, a town of about 900 people an hour and a half south of KC. I thought for sure he wouldn't consider that one...
Last Sunday, he and this client of his (his name is Amerjeet) drove down to Lowry City to look at the gas station. They knew it was closed, they just wanted to look around outside. They had only been there a few minutes, and were out looking at the pumps when a car pulled up. It was the old owners. Now get this - the owners are a married couple in their 50's who, for several reasons, closed their store down about 3 months ago. They thought they had a buyer all lined up, but it fell through the Friday before. They went to Branson for the weekend to hear a motivational speaker, and they spoke with him afterwards one on one. They told him about their store and how it was such a burden and they desperately wanted to sell it. He asked if they had a picture of the store and they said yes. He asked where it was and they said it was at the store. Then he said to stop by there on the way home, and write SOLD across the picture and it will sell. So that's what they were doing when they pulled up to the store and saw my dad and Amerjeet in the parking lot. Can we say goose bumps??
They ended up going to dinner and meeting with them for 3 hours. There are obviously some hurdles still, but if all goes well, my dad and his partner will be open for business on the 25th of this month. The only downfall is how far away it is. My dad will assume the position of General Manager and will physically be at the store more than Amerjeet. Because the drive is so long, my dad will most likely rent an apartment and stay down there 5 days a week. I can't imagine being in your 50's, alone in a new small town, and renting an apartment. I would be so lonely though, just coming home every night to a small apartment with only a TV for entertainment. At least now he refs at night so he's not home alone as much, but he won't be able to do that once he moves. His hope is that it would only be for a year or two, and if the store was doing well, he would buy another one closer to KC and not be at the Lowry City store as much.
So what about his current house? The last house where we all lived as a family before my mom passed away? I really don't want my dad to sell it. He's thinking if things keep moving in the right direction between he and his girlfriend, he would see if she'd like to move in. It makes a lot of sense for her because her work is 5 minutes from his house, and currently she lives in Lawrence which is 30 minutes away. She would also take care of the dogs because he wouldn't be able to take them with him. I'm strangely ok with that. At least I think I am.
So yeah, I don't know what to think about this whole thing. It's so weird for him to be making such a big decision without my mom there to talk him through it all. He's a smart guy though, so I know he'll make the right decision. At this point, he is pretty stoked about it so I hope for his sake it works out. It's just such an odd job change - from a banker who wears nice suits every day to work, to a gas station owner. Who would have thought?