I was jogging in the evening when a thought dawn on me at the road junction.
I started to imagine what would life be like if a car just suddenly bang me down and I would have to spend the rest of my life in a vegetative state. I realised that initially everyone will be concerned about me, but gradually, 10 years down the road, would people whom I call friends now still visit or even remember me? I could name the few who might still remember me but I am quite appalled how few is few. 'Cos at the end of the day, it would be my family who will still stand by me and love me regardless of how alive I am.
Scary isn it? That's how cruel the practicality of life is.... it makes me wonder then why on earth would I need to put in effort into friendships. errmm... If you happened to ask, if the situation around instead, would I visit? Thinking about it, yup, I would....Even if you have gone to the other side of the world, I would say a prayer for you on your anniversary and remember you in my thoughts...
I started to imagine what would life be like if a car just suddenly bang me down and I would have to spend the rest of my life in a vegetative state. I realised that initially everyone will be concerned about me, but gradually, 10 years down the road, would people whom I call friends now still visit or even remember me? I could name the few who might still remember me but I am quite appalled how few is few. 'Cos at the end of the day, it would be my family who will still stand by me and love me regardless of how alive I am.
Scary isn it? That's how cruel the practicality of life is.... it makes me wonder then why on earth would I need to put in effort into friendships. errmm... If you happened to ask, if the situation around instead, would I visit? Thinking about it, yup, I would....Even if you have gone to the other side of the world, I would say a prayer for you on your anniversary and remember you in my thoughts...
