Thursday, February 27, 2014

Our Valentine’s Week

Well, we just finished up a  fairly light school week, but a busy Valentines week.  In school, we read all about Peter the Great, kept up with the Olympics medal count, learned about the circulatory system, and read The Secret Garden.  Other than that, we mostly did Valentine-themed worksheets.

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On Monday evening, we went on dates with the kids. 

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Greg and Anna went to Carrabba’s, and Luke opted for Five Guys, followed by browsing at Target.  We had such a fun time with our kiddos!

On Tuesday after tutorial, the kids had their Valentine party at Chuck E Cheese.  I can’t stand Chuck E. Cheese, but I’m soooo glad that they get to have an annual party with their tutorial group.  I loved Valentines Day as a child, and I think the best part of it was getting to exchange Valentines with my classmates.  I’m so thankful that my kids get to participate in that tradition.

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Anna asked for a “heart braid” for the day, and took her valentine delivery verrry seriously.  Luke is holding up the valentines we made.  Because of our obsession with Frozen, these “build your own Olaf” valentines were perfect for us this year.  The kids were very proud of them.

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After we delivered valentines, it was time for pizza, then arcade games.

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Luke’s face while playing a torpedo game cracked me up!  I’m not sure I’d ever seen that one before!  Meanwhile, Anna was much more interested in playing in the little play area than in spending her tokens.  She ended up giving most of them to Luke.

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However, she was able to be talked into a game of air hockey!

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It was a great day, but an exhausting one.  I was so thankful when Greg let me go to Panera for dinner by myself that night to have some “alone time.”  I took a picture, not because of the deliciousness of the food (though I love Panera’s tomato soup), but because of the blissful solitude that it represented.

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I honestly think we were all a little worn out by Wednesday, so we welcomed the gloomy, icy weather.  We didn’t get any snow, but there was enough question over road conditions that church was canceled for the evening.  We also opted out of gymnastics for the same reason.  Instead, we spent the whole day in our pajamas working puzzles, drinking hot tea (all three of us!), and reading over 100 pages of The Secret Garden together.  It was just what we needed:  a lovely, relaxing, joy-filled day.

Thursday was the 13th, but since Greg was going to be gone to Winterfest on Valentine’s Day, we celebrated as a family that morning.  We usually get the kids candy and a small gift on Valentine’s Day, and since we did a scavenger hunt for them last year, they requested one again this year.  I decided to make them each a book scavenger hunt, with rhymes leading them to some of their favorite books throughout the house. 

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At the end of their hunt was a cache of candy, plus a Bible-verse inspired necklace for each of them.  You can see Luke’s in the picture below on the right.  It says, “Be strong and courageous.”  I didn’t get a picture of Anna’s, but it is this one, inspired by Proverbs 3:3.

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Afterward, we had breakfast and read our annual “Things We Love About Each Other.”  We’ve been doing this since 2011, and I love it!

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For lunch that day, we had a sitter come, and Greg and I ate at The Yellow Porch, which was quite good.  That afternoon, my mom came in town, bringing her own Valentine’s Day gifts:

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Luke got a LEGO set, and Anna received a variety of arts and crafts.  Both kept us busy during what was a very fun visit with my mom!

Friday was a light school day, consisting mostly of Valentine activities, such as this one where the kids did a variety of estimations involving candy hearts:

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Since I was husband-less on Friday, I invited some friends over for dinner and some Valentine activities with our kids.  We had Swedish meatballs, which is another Valentine’s Day tradition for us.  And we had fun playing games and watching the kids play.

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We played Valentine BINGO, “Don’t Break My Heart, and Hershey Kiss Memory.  We also had a heart scavenger hunt and let the kids do some Valentine crafts I got from the dollar aisle at Target.

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It was a great night, and it wrapped up a week that was chock-full of Valentine activities.  We were so blessed to get to spend the holiday not only with our own little family, but also with my mom and some really good friends.

Saturday, February 08, 2014

Weekly Wrap-Up: Feb. 2-8

Well, our school schedule sure picked up this week!  Alongside our regular schooling, we worked on three projects:  a detective week, Olympics prep, and Valentine’s Day prep.  A lot of times, these projects tied into our regular work and made it lots of fun!

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This is my only picture from “normal school” this week.  We’ve been in the 15- and 1600’s in England and have studied the Tudors and Stuarts.  This week, we learned how Charles I lost his head, Cromwell was grumpy, and Charles II was a partier.  Here, Anna is depicting the return of the bubonic plague to London, and the Great Fire of 1666.  Taking a cue from her brother’s history notebook for the day, the plague (“black death”) is saying, “I’m baaack!”  And the fire is saying, “Not for long!”  (Because, see, the fire wiped out the plague.)

I was so happy when that very day in quiet reading, Luke’s book referenced a building having survived the Great Fire of 1666.  He was super-excited about it, and so was I.  I love those kind of connections, which is why I try to always have our literature correspond to our history.

The book he was reading was a spin-off of Sherlock Holmes.  It’s part of a series called “The Sherlock Holmes Files,” is set in the present, and features Sherlock’s great-grandchildren as they solve mysteries.  We got it when we went to the library on Sunday as part of our detective week.  This theme was Luke’s idea:  he and Anna had a lot of questions about fingerprints over the weekend, and so we decided to spend a week on forensic science and detective books.  It ended up being so much fun!

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On Monday, we read and worked through this cute story about a puppy-napping case.  On every page, it had some sort of detective experiment to do.  We dusted for fingerprints, lifted lip prints, made teeth impressions, calculated our height from the size of our foot, and learned how to read what was on a missing page of notebook paper.  I was really glad to find this book because a lot of the kids’ books on forensic science and fingerprinting featured some pretty gruesome real-life crimes, including kidnapping children from their house at night.  Yeesh!  Could we not just talk about a hypothetical robbery or something?  I’m wanting to teach about fingerprints, not give my kids nightmares!  This book was a winner though!

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Anna loved the Science part, but was not as in to the mystery books as Luke.  I picked up a couple of easy reader mysteries, thinking they might engage her better, and I was right!  We read them on Monday, also.

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On Tuesday, we had a “Nate the Great” day.  Luke went through a Nate the Great phase a couple of years ago, but I got these, again, with Anna in mind.  I’d also found some fun “Nate the Great” printables online, including a mad lib mystery, which provided a nice grammar review.  I was a little surprised at how well this went over.

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On Wednesday we took our own fingerprints and completed a Science lesson from our actual curriculum.  I skipped ahead to it (the Genetics one instead of the Circulatory one which we were supposed to do—but will work great for Valentine’s week next week!  Because, you know, hearts??:))  It turns out that it’s harder to take decent prints than you would think, but we were able analyze how many loops, whirls, and arches we each had.

Speaking of Valentine’s Day, I, of course, have found loads of free Valentine printables to reinforce our learning.  I’m a big believer in holiday-themed printables; I just think they spice things up a bit.

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Here, Anna is doing a “Candy Adjectives” worksheet, while eating a corresponding “candy snack.”

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We also worked on our Valentines for the tutorial party next week.  For handwriting one day, we filled out the “From” portion on all our Valentine’s.  We don’t have a class list yet, but it was good practice on trying to write our names perfectly.

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On our cold and gloomy Thursday, we put our Valentine’s together.  The kids enthusiastically decided on a “build your own Olaf” Valentine this year, since they both love Frozen.  I thought it was perfect for us—thank you, Pinterest!

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And then there was the Olympics.  I was a bit late to this party, as it hit me about mid-week that the Olympics started on Thursday.  I didn’t want to miss the opportunity to prepare for it, though.  After all, the Olympics are a great way to reinforce Geography, especially since we are trying to learn the countries of the world this year.  Also, there are just so many lessons to be learned from the hard work and perseverance of Olympians.  At different times this week, I had to show each of my kids a motivational Olympics commercial to get them over a hump in piano practice.  Both times, it was very effective. 

To prepare for the Games, I found loads of free printables, including one that explains the meaning behind the Olympic flag and then asks the child to design their own.  The kids both liked that, but our big project was a medal book that had a page for each competing country.  It involved a lot of flag cutting and pasting, along with another good handwriting practice session consisting of writing the country’s name.  Together, we got through fifty countries, but we’ll have to finish up on Monday.  While we worked, we listened to all of our Geography songs.  It was always exciting when a song mentioned the country we were working on.  Added bonus:  during the Parade of Nations, I was able to recognize the flag of Azerbaijan!

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That brings us up to the Opening Ceremonies.  I was already scheduled to watch my bff’s two older boys this weekend while she was at a speaking engagement.  She loves the Olympics as much as I do (plus, her family did long term mission work in Russia while she was a child), so she was as enthusiastic as I was about our Olympic plans.  During the kids’ afternoon snack, I read to them some facts about the torch, and then we watched a cool Youtube video showing all the places this year’s torch had gone (underwater?? a space station??  So cool!).  My only worry of the weekend was that Anna might find herself left out from the boys.  She and Canon are good friends, but lately, Canon has been gravitating more toward Luke and Tyler.  As an extra precaution, I invited one of her friends from church to come hang out this weekend.  That ended up being a good call, as they have been immersed in all things princess and domestic (playing house, etc) this weekend, while the boys have veered more toward Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, and Batman.  Here the girls are just before the Opening Ceremonies.  Such beautiful princesses—although poor Anna looks exhausted!

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I try only to use the simplest Pinterest ideas, so for the ceremonies, I ordered a cheese pizza and put pepperoni rings on it.  It didn’t turn out super-visible, but the kids liked it anyway.  We also made edible torches out of ice cream cones and Cheetos.  Pretty gross, but the kids thought it was the best thing in the world.  And later in the evening, I popped popcorn and sprinkled some flag-colored M&M’s in it.  It was a lot of junk food, but it definitely boosted the kids’ enthusiasm!  We also played Opening Ceremonies’ BINGO and designed our own medals.  My favorite was Anna’s, which had an “E for Elympics!”  Poor child—spelling is just not her forte!  Those were hits, but even so, the kids only made it through part of the Parade of Nations before the desire to go play overpowered them.  I called them back in to see the part about St. Basil’s Cathedral because it was so pretty, but then it was time for them to go to bed. 

I’m pumped, though, because our History just happens to shift to Peter the Great next week.  I’m definitely going to have my kids watch that part of the show when we read about him.  Plus, the free Olympics app has a good intro video to Sochi, so we will do a bit of Russian geography next week, too. 

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As I type, Anna and Janessa are getting ready to have a “ball” in the family room, and the boys are all with Greg at a Star-Wars-themed basketball game at Lipscomb.  He had planned to take his team tonight and saw no reason why Canon and Tyler couldn’t tag along. 

It has been such a fun and busy week, and more than once, I’ve marveled at just how much I genuinely like my family.  I mean, I guess that sounds obvious, but guys—we spend A LOT of time together, and I am a total introvert…and yet, I still rarely feel like I need to get out of the house for some alone time.  That’s pretty amazing.

Still, this week we also had a couple rough patches, and I want to write about those, too, because they are both ones that I want to remember.  One was that Luke had a bit of a breakdown in his basketball game today.  I was already worried it might happen because he was running on precious little sleep, and I knew he was self-conscious about Tyer and Canon watching him and his team (which, bless them, are just not good this year).  I won’t go into all the details, but I ended up going over there and taking him to get a drink of water.  He hadn’t done anything wrong on the court besides fallen hard and hurt himself, but he was sobbing that he couldn’t do anything right and that he was the worst player on the team.  I assured him that that was not true, and generally tried my best to put everything in perspective for him.  I finished by saying that it was just a silly basketball game, and it didn’t matter who won.  What mattered was that he was a smart basketball player who was learning so much (which is true) and that his teammates needed him (also true—there were only six of them total), and sent him back in there to go in the game.  After that, he calmed down and even got his first rebound!  He also made a few bone-headed mistakes, but overall, he really did have his best game!  I was really proud of him!

The second rough patch we hit (well, chronologically the first) was that Anna came home from tutorial Tuesday in tears.  At first it was because her art project got wet, but then it morphed into the fact that she had no friends.  I keep typing and then deleting, simply because both of these anecdotes can easily turn into novels, but suffice it to say, Anna seems to be having her first experience at struggling to make friends.  Usually, that comes easily to her, and she doesn’t even seem to care much about it, but this year at tutorial has been different.  No one has been mean, but she just can’t find her place.  Anyway, she ended up really depressed on Tuesday—that’s the only word for it.  She was weepy and gloomy and just didn’t bounce back once she got home, which is rare for her.  I ended up pulling her into my lap and having a big, affirmative talk, and in desperation to turn her mood around, I suggested we go to Chickfila for lunch.  That really cheered her up, and ended up being just what she needed.  I’m not joking when I say that if it hadn’t turned her around, I would have gone to any lengths to do so—we would have canceled school and gone shopping! Her mood was just so unlike her, and it worried me.

Neither of these situations were pleasant, but honestly, it’s these tough times that seem to cement our relationship.  To pour love and affirmation into my kids when they are so vulnerable is honestly a privilege—albeit a painful one.  I know that I’m gushing, but I just think that they are amazing people.  And the thing is, they have no idea.  Especially Luke.  He has no clue how special he is, and I consider it my job in inform him on that point, not to give him a big head, but to fortify him against life’s challenges.  After all, it’s a lot easier to handle your weaknesses when you know your strengths, and it’s easier to handle rejection when you know you are loved.  Lately, Luke has had opportunities, both in piano and basketball, to “hit a wall,” and then to keep going and succeed.  I love when that happens.  As for Anna, I’ve already been planning and brainstorming about how we’re going to handle this friend thing at tutorial.  Part of it was working diligently on our Valentines this week, because I know that when I’ve been the loneliest, what has helped me the most was to stop focusing on my own situation and reach out to others.  Luke and I have repeatedly interrogated her about her tutorial situation this past month, and it doesn’t seem like she’s really making the effort to make friends.  I think in the past, it’s just kind of happened, and this time, she’s going to have to put some work into it.  So again, it’s a hard thing, but one that I think will help her in the long run.  It’s an opportunity to grow and develop some new skills.

Hard times or good, this week has brought us closer as a family.  We’ve cried together, learned together, celebrated together, had adventures, worked on projects, and watched history unfold.  It’s been a big week…but then again, I have a speaking suspicion that they’re all big weeks…

Tuesday, February 04, 2014

Weekly Wrap-up: January 26-February 1

Well, I spoke too soon last week about good health.  This week, we all caught colds, so we were a bit more sluggish than normal.  Still, we managed a good week of homeschooling and even mustered up the energy to take advantage of a sunny, sixty degree day on Saturday!

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(Ignore the messy hair.  Sometimes we don’t make it through all the stages of “getting ready” before starting school!)  Anna’s handwriting has really improved since we brought back daily practice.  We’re still working on Luke’s!

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Here, they are “drawing what they hear” for music appreciation.

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In math, they both worked on multiplication (and made homemade grape popsicles for their “math snack.”)

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They had their first week of daily piano practice, which went relatively well.

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Luke got interested in mysteries, which made my heart happy.  That is my genre.  If there’s no central “mystery element” to a plot, then chances are, I’m not interested. 

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For Bible, I found this cute, free printable devo for the two weeks leading up to Valentine’s day.  It’s focused on 1 Cor. 13:4-7, and I think the kids might even have the passage memorized by the end.  The M&M’s are for an exercise suggested in the “kindness” devo.  The kids really enjoy these devos and ask for them each day, which doesn’t usually happen.

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In Science, we learned about the skeletal system and about muscles.  We did another experiment that demonstrated how two muscles work together to help our arms straighten and bend.

Also in school, we learned about the Tudors, which is a very interesting era of English history.  In Geography, we continued to learn about Asia.  In Grammar, we’re still on prepositions.  And I started Latin with the kids this week.  I’m doing that in place of Grammar for two days a week, because part of the Latin course’s goals is to teach the same parts of speech that we are learning in Grammar.  The first week went very well, and I have high hopes for the course!  Luke is still reading Redwall book 4 to me, and Anna is working through B is for Betsy.  I’m reading Strawberry Girl, Catching Their Talk in a Box, and Aesop’s Fables to them.  It’s funny—Aesop’s Fables never gets old to them, although I’m completely over it.  That man wrote a lot of fables, and, um, the quality is not consistent throughout:).

In other news, we braved the gloom and cold and went to Cracker Barrel one night:

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We never go to Cracker Barrel, but we had a gift card, and the kids were intrigued by the little game at the table.

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My sweet friend, Heidi, had a gender reveal party, and we found out that she is having a girl!

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Saturday was absolutely gorgeous, so despite our colds and fatigue, we packed a picnic lunch and went to the zoo after Luke’s basketball game that morning.

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It was so good to be in the sunshine!

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Afterward, Luke spent the afternoon with Greg while Anna and I picked up two of her friends and went to the singalong version of Frozen  (Luke was not interested).  It was so fun to see the movie again (third time!).  Anna’s obsession has not waned in the slightest.  It’s the first movie that she has really reacted to, and I’m glad that it’s one that I enjoy, as well!

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That night, we watched Monster’s University, since Greg had never seen it. The kids were sure that they didn’t like it, but once we started watching, they of course joined us.  It’s hard to get a picture in the dark, but in this one, the three of them are piled on the inflatable mattress.  Anna is on top of Greg, and Luke is leaning against him.  I thought it was so cute.

We’re all feeling a little better this week, even though the weather is back to cold and wet.  Despite that, it really has been such a good winter, and I’ve been feeling so grateful that we all get to spend so much time together!  I’ve decided that it’s really nice to genuinely like your family:).