And now Noah and I are well into our 9th year of marriage, and we have acquired 4 kids. Things sure can change over the course of 10 years!
I thought about posting some "resolutions" for the year. But who am I kidding. I never stick to resolutions. At least not for long. So, instead, I will list some goals I have for the coming decade, rather than the coming year. And if I remember to look back in 10 years at the start of 2020, I hope to find that many of my goals have been achieved... and I'll probably have a good chuckle too.
1. Kiss my husband when he comes home from work, even if I don't feel like it. I know this comes naturally for many married couples, but "touch" is at the bottom of my list of love languages. My children spend much of the day attached to me, which leaves me enjoying my personal space whenever possible. As I type this, Kristin is clinging to my arm with a death grip.
2. I'd love to have the house paid off, but I'll settle for being very close to having it paid in full come 2020.
3. I want to be fit. This is always my hope, but let's face it. I'm not doing so well at this right now. I'm trying to get motivated. Really, I am.
4. I want to adopt another son or daughter. I want to give birth to another child as well. Beyond that, I can't say much more. We will take it one kid at a time :-) Although, Noah knows I'd love to adopt several more... we'll see what God has in store. And I realize that we don't have to finish our family growth in this decade. So I won't worry too much about it right now.
5. I hope to have a closer relationship with my Lord. I would be a liar if I told you I always felt close to God. Much of my life is spent going through the motions. I have moments where I see God so clearly, His power, His love... but I am pitiful in my efforts to be the "good Christian." I rely on Jesus alone for the redemption of my soul, but at the same time I don't crave the Word (and I wish I did). I don't thirst for time in prayer. But HE is faithful. When I do pray, He hears me. His mercies are new each morning, and for that I am so thankful.
6. Patience. I wish I could buy some at Wal-mart. My temper flares, my flaws are obvious to my husband and children. I will be hanging this old British war propaganda poster in my kitchen, by the table which we do all our schoolwork... I am sure I will be staring at it regularly while taking deep breaths.

7. Organization. I'd love to have my house really organized. I'd love to have the homeschool in order, books on shelves, instead of stacked in hapless piles. And my photography business NEEDS to get more organized. Finances. Taxes. My closet. And all the other rooms of my house. Over the next ten years organizing will be a work in progress. Hopefully, I'll have it figured out sooner rather than later.
With that I will close. Seven goals for the decade. Seven hopes. I believe "Keep calm and carry on" is a fabulous motto for the next 10 years. Although, I may add "...for the glory of God," to make it complete.
Happy New Year!!!! Happy New Decade! May you be blessed greatly in the years to come.



















































