Friday, October 3, 2014


Realised that it has been a long time since I'm back here. And it's here that is filled with half of my emotions back then, some hidden, some lost thru time.
Read back some of my old post and found out how emotional I was because of a girl. The naive innocent boy back then.
Many years have past by. Many history are written. I do wonder how much of my previous self is being retained.
So the story is, I'm back here and thus I'm feeling emotional all over again.
Would not say that army is a wonderful experience since I almost lost my life while I was in service. The aftermath of the incident was horrible. Maybe whatever he did was rational and appropriate. I don't know anymore.
I Used to be a scholarship recipient in Singapore polytechnic, and my results are still among the top 30%. Built up my shattered confidence brought from young. Used to Aspire to become a professional engineer one day and rise through the ranks in the engineering industry. I feel I'm further and further away from my dreams.
Sometimes, I wondered if the accident in wallaby shaped my thinking. Nothing drives me forward anymore. Dreams, aspiration and goals; it's like nothing really matters when you die. Only an exception of you. You, whom I met at it fair. But I feel I'm not the person that really matter the most. I'm stuck with you gotta fight for your happiness and you need to know when to give up. But you're making lose hope. 
But it's not the main factor behind my depressed mood. Suddenly, I felt like my intellectual is not as good as I've expected. It used to be I can muster whatever I chose if i really wanted it. It's become I've never been so clever after all. Fallen to the bottom of the cohort,and it have never been so bad before. I hear this couple of times: just hang in there, better days are coming or just graduate with a degree, but the pain and demoralizing mood is overpowering myself every single day. Hated nus, hated all my modules and hated the staff of my modules. 
What make it worse is that I realized that most of them are somebody of status. First class honours seem to be the norm and all I wanted is just a third class. And it seemed to be my wishing thinking because I ain't gonna achieve it.
I've fallen into another well of darkness and I don't see the light guiding me out of this. And most importantly, I don't see myself getting stronger. I feel I do not live up to the expectations i set for myself.
I feel that in my fears of dying, I've lost myself. I don't recognize myself anymore. 
posted by Ernest Wee Guang Yi at 3:18:00 AM | Permalink | 0 comments
Sunday, April 7, 2013
sorry Amos, sorry James .. left the party too early today .. :( buaytahan.. didn't like e place we went today ... mood for partying disappear suddenly .. psps ...
heading Germany soon. hopefully it b a wonderful trip with e 'scientists'. may the friendship between us stay long thru-out this lifetime..
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Tuesday, December 11, 2012
 Folding my Smart4 preparing for tmr book in. Spent the last few moments of this years leave being little tipsy, had a 500ml Sapporo. It's time to wrap up some emotions and prepare myself to go for 12.5 weeks of training in Armour Institute. Gonna spent the rest of 1.5 years in Armour.
 Had a heart to hear talk with Kennis after mahjong yesterday night. Talked about relationship. I guess its been 6months since i felt greatly about someone.. Got tipsy a couple of times this little break, thought thru what's important in my heart, found that i wasnt really wanting to get into a relationship so badly like what i felt before army. Maybe I havent been meeting new girls, the life i had now is just guys guys and more guys..
 Mahjong with TeckJun, Kennis, KiatWee. Been So So long since the last mahjong session i had, and i felt that my brain deteriorate super badly. Before 12 i can already feel the Zombie-ness in me. KiatWee reminds me of my primary sku best buddy's brother- Kelvin and his elder sister reminded me of her. Her cheeks and the way she speaks. Thought that i b super affected by her, but i guess army makes me numb. Mayb i should meet up with more girls during the weekend...  haha.. Always disturb ah long =D, until he ask me to find a girl to date hahaha.... mayb i shuld. mayb.

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Saturday, December 8, 2012
ok I super super emo and sian.. self imposing too much negativity into myself.. A new transition in my life from. foundation term to professional term in armour.. weekiat, sarsi went infantry, Kennis mp, long huai signal. suddenly feel super super lonely to b in armour. gotta to ice break again. heard training gonna b tough.. been super down since yesterday, dun even feel like gg out of house. Reali not feeling like myself, the planning for ninja p3 gathering fked up till max .. wasnt really in a good mood even though its been quite some time
since i met up wif the rest.wanting to find someone to talk to seems so hard So scared that my buddies find me weak.. so scared that some one telling me that their vocation is fking good. so scared that ppl tink that I'm overly emotional overly weird...
feeling distant from most of my good frenz, army taking up too much of my time and their time.
always had the fear that I'm no longer remembered by ppl I'm close to, no long close to all the frenz tat I know. There nvr b a everlasting banquet. n my greatest fear is to become acquaintance with my close ones. hated to be lonely, hated to b for forgotten. Will anyone remember me as close frenz? will anyone randomly find me out for movie? for lunch? for mahjong ? for anything ? will thr anybody who remember some one so low profile like me for life ?? will some one step into my life and tell me that you want me in ur life ?
remembered that I read somewher that sad emotions only last 6 mins and the rest are self imposed. just can't helped with imposing all e negativity and emotions into myself.
been trying too hard to keep ppl on my life. not close to pri buddies, Kenneth, Albert wenxin weixiang Isaac anymore . not close with KeYuan noble Afiqah yanhan anymore. not close with weidong nicholas anymore. meeting lesser n lesser wif Chris, zhaowei, aikhin zen Edmund. meeting lesser and lesser with zhenjie Samuel junpoh jasper koklin. and now it's gonna bee same with Kennis weekiat longhuai and Sarsi. miss the times whr meeting up with mike hk kangjing kongjian Victoria Louis Nicholas for impromptu supper . miss Edmund aikhin zen for hardcore mahjonging . miss the pre-army mahjong and make fun session with Shaun hussain zengni. miss the gym session with Chris weidon and Shaun. miss e time spent at ninja section2 . miss the time traveling oversea with my family. miss e time spent with malysia grandparents during cny. miss my cousins at australia . miss time spent in charlie company platoon1 bunk3. nidd the good old yet short time falling in love with a collegue of mine some years back and realizing that I'm still like her so much before I enlisted on 6june2012.
realli can't take it anybody. took fking long to type this post. and I'm losing the fking mood to continue this glossy post. the more i type the more emo I get... really hate mysel for being so emo
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Thursday, December 6, 2012
Started off a great day - Mee Rebus, Nasi lemak for lunch. had a unexpected 'afternoon out'. back home lepak,played pool with Kennis den went back camp. kena scared by Rey, wee Kiat, fai.. reaction from scared to numb haha .. :( water poured on me by store man teow, super wet. almost kena stripped by kay n gang ... bad day to let ur guard down. haha.
a day that it seems that everything seems to flow nicely to fit it to make it perfect:) perfect little 20th bday and I'm contented.
posting tmr. dun dare to make any wishes haha ... nights
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Tuesday, December 4, 2012
last week in camp. feeling really damn bad.. e uncertainty of e future is really slowing taunting and devouring up my soul. moral of Charlie is super low and many ppl are thinking of excuses to fall out. my moral is at the rock bottom after being told we will walk in rds of 6km. it meant we gotta walk 4 tiem the same place again. I rather u throw me at kranji and ask us 24click back. at least I know I die die have to walk back to Coyline to rest. how like tat.
encik went besark after getting drunk last night. said words like we don't deserve to hav Mac for sup and stud like that. those words impacted me heavier than I tot.
one might say sth that unknowingly impact someone at some point in life.
can't wait too serve finish and fk out from this place. I wan to control my own decision, my own life and nobody gonna force me do things I do nt like . Nobody.
posted by Ernest Wee Guang Yi at 12:27:00 PM | Permalink | 0 comments
Sunday, November 18, 2012
 Shall blog before heading back to camp.
 In life, there are ups and downs, and now im at the down period when im can feel the fatigue spreading through the whole of my body. Single session of guard duty had me down for some many days and yet i cant take the time to really rest my body. And thats the army for you. The thoughts of why m i here serving the army came back to me, i thought i have accepted and overcome this mentality.. Its gonna be a heavy week with all the high key events and in 2 wks to come it b the worst nightmare ( 24km route march ). 
 Selected for armour recce interview, hoping my best not to get in though. Really tired of serving combat unit in the army even though it is only the 5th month, the true journey hasnt started. The light at the end of the tunnel seems further and further away. Remembered myself saying that my army experience have 2 major feelings : 1. No choice but forced to serve. 2. It made me cherish many things that i took for granted in the past.
 What will i achieve at the end of this 2 years ? I dont know. I dont know.
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