Winter Yg Mandom...

Winter mmg la mandom kan? Adakah winter yg ceria?

Cemana la x mandom? Ari2 adalah sejuk melampau dan gloomy...kalau ada hari2 yg ada matahari pon, jarang la...tu pon bukannya lama. Mmg boleh buat diri terasa depressed dan moody.

Winter kali ini mmg satu dugaan. Lepas kes miscarriage aritu kena lak muntah2 n cirit-birit. Tak tau kenapa. Winter bug kot. Sepatutnya start cuti krismas aritu dah plan nak jln2 ke Saarbrücken dan Heildelberg ngan sekali menziarah rumah Iu di Homburg dan rumah kak azi kat Kaiserlautern. Bila dah kena D&C then cuaca pon x menentu (suhu terlampau sejuk last week , dropped sampai -18C), maka kami amik keputusan utk x join trip kesana. No point gak gi jln2 bila badan pon sihat kan?

Tapi sakit tu kan ujian dr Allah s.w.t. So bersabar dan redha sahaja. Ini pon alhamdulilah, no longer cirit-birit or muntah2. Cuma selera mkn je xde. Semua benda pon rasa x sedap. Cuti Krismas baru ni Kak Liza ajak mkn kat rumah dia, siap ada ayam turki panggang lagi, lengkap ngan side dishes pelbagai. Tp aku x mampu pon nak mkn. Ikutkan ianya adalah bagus utk mengurangkan berat badan. Tapi percaya la, bila hilang selera makan, hilang satu nikmat kehidupan.

Cuti Krismas masih lg berbaki seminggu utk si kembar sebelum kembali ke tadika dan lg 2 minggu utk cik HB sebelum sibuk semula dgn kelas2nya. Masih terasa ingin berjln2 i.e cuti2 Jerman sempena cuti panjang tp adakah keadaan mengizinkan?

Entah....

English Playgroup - The Last Session

The English Playgroup has ended.

The last session was the day I found out the bad news of my pregnancy. I was thinking of not going at first as I was a bit depressed and we were considering to go to the hospital on the day itself.

But then the last session was the important session not to miss. We, mommies had arranged weeks before that we were going to do gift exchange for our children on the last day and baking cookies. If I were not going, one kid will not be getting her gift and I had also promised I would be bringing decorations for the cookies. So it´s not nice not to go. Besides, though I was having health problem at the time, I already checked with my gynae whether it was ok to wait for another day before I go to the hospital, and she said yes.

We had fun that day. We had the baking session in the centre´s big kitchen and it went well. My twins enjoyed it very much. They insisted to do everything on theirown from beginning and became annoyed when I tried to help. Hmmm....

Twins and me...

Look at Lil´Chalise and her obsession with rolling!

Gaby, Celina & Hisae

Baking end result!

Later, when we were done with baking and cleaning up, surprisingly, Maha (our playgroup teacher) had arranged for a friend of her, dressed up in Santa Claus costume, came into the kitchen, ringing a bell and carrying a big bag of presents ( we, mommies had gathered our presents before we began with the activities). The children were excited to see that they were going to get present. Unfortunately, the mommy who supposed to give present to Nabilah, forgot to bring hers. And Nabilah were upset to see that she only got an envelope instead a nice-wrapped present like the others. The envelope though contained some money as a replacement for the missing present and the mommy apologized profusely to me for her mistake. Luckily, it was easy to explain to Nabilah why she was not getting the present as the rest of her friend and she was willing to share with Nabihah (Nabihah got a set of beads and accessories).

Gaby and her daughter, Lauren...present was from me...I bought her a small-sized keyboard

Nabihah and her present

I enjoyed being in this playgroup. Most of the ladies are nice and friendly. During the dinner session with the mommies, a week earlier, I told them that I might be pregnant, and when they asked whether I´ve seen a doctor, I had to break the bad news. And they were very concern and sympathized. Gaby, the Aussie was nearly on tears. It touched me...

The last session ended longer than usual. We, mommies hugged and said goodbye to each other. Darshana, the mommy from India, will be going back to her country for good in the end of December. The rest said though the playgroup is over for this year, they are still looking forward to hang out together just for fun.

Maha said she will continue with the same group on next February and I am most welcomed to join which I´m not sure about it yet. Reason being, the twins are now in kindergarten and cik HB thinks it´s quite tiring for them to attend both, although playgroup is only being held once a week. The last two sessions, we went to playgroup right after their kindergarten time. I had to feed them lunch on the train and they fell asleep throughout the journey.

But the twins do enjoy this playgroup and it´s an opportunity for them to learn English. It´s considerably cheap too. Roughly around €50 for 17 sessions.

I don´t know....I told Maha I´ll think about it.

Mazrah in da Town

Mazrah adalah kwn lama ku since Darjah 1... antara my fierce competitors yg selalu berebut tempat 1-3 setiap kali peperiksaan masa kami sekolah rendah dulu. Dulu sekolah rendah kami kecik ja. Satu darjah satu kelas...satu kelas adalah dlm 30 org lebih kot. Maklum la sekolah kampung.

Dulu masa sekolah rendah, mmg kami rajin melepak bersama2 - merempit berbasikal satu Hulu Bernam tu, even masa raya siap terlepas ke daerah Tg Malim (ni kalau mak masing2 tau ni, mmg kena belasah cukup2 nih!), main terup (ala, bukan terup judi tu, terup Happy Family ja!), redah kebun getah/kelapa sawit kekadang, pendek kata apa saja aktiviti la.

Lepas UPSR, kami sama2 dpt tawaran ke Yayasan Selangor, satu program dibawah kerajaan negeri Selangor yg menempatkan anak2 Selangor dr seluruh negeri di beberapa asrama, kemudian disekolahkan di top schools sekitar KL dan Lembah Kelang. Kami satu asrama di ATPN, Kg Pandan tp aku ditempatkan kat sekolah BBGS (Bukit Bintang Girls School) dan Mazrah di CBN (Convent Bukit Nanas). Tapi somehow kami tetap dpt dok satu dorm.

Hidup aku sepanjang disitu amat tidak menggembirakan - let say aku x tahan cabaran la. Ye la, budak Form 1 lain kena dibuli gak, kena torture mcm2 dan homesick. Tp aku mmg sungguh tidak dpt adapt dgn life yg sgt hectic disitu. Ari2 aku tepon parents aku mintak dikeluarkan dari situ. Pada aku xpe la kalau aku x sekolah glamer sekali pon, asalkan aku rasa aman bahagia. At last, disebabkan agaknya abah aku dah x tahan sgt dgr aku merengek2, akhirnya setelah tamat Form 1, aku dikeluarkan dr Yayasan Selangor. Mazrah lak kekal sampai abis Form 5 disitu.

Lepas keluar Yayasan Selangor, kebetulan abah aku lak ditukarkan tempat kerja kat Rawang. So jarang la aku dpt jumpa Mazrah kecuali kalau sesekali parents aku balik Tg Malim dan masa tu lak Mazrah ada kat kampung. Then masa aku buat A-Level, family aku pindah balik ke Tg Malim, so kerap sikit la jumpa Mazrah time dia pon cuti belajar. Tp kalau pon kami lama x berjumpa, mak2 kami kalau terjumpa kat pasar tu kerap la meng update perkembangan kami. So adalah jugak latest news. Masa aku still bujang, even dah keje, at least time raya kami jumpa la jugak. It was either aku gi beraya rumah dia, or dia dtg beraya rumah aku.

Then aku kawen...dan selepas tu mmg x penah berjumpa. Sbbnya raya dah ada giliran. Kalau pon aku beraya kat Tg Malim, aku spent like the first 2 days of raya je kat sana...tu pon dah penuh ngan agenda melawat sedara mara, lepas tu dah gerak balik KB. Kalau raya KB lak, the first 5 days la at least aku kat sana (lama la sikit sbb KB tu kan jauh) pastu by the time aku balik Tg Malim adalah baki cuti sehari dua yg diperuntukkan jugak utk melawat sedara mara. Lgpon by that time, dah ramai dah kengkawan yg meninggalkan kampung halaman.

Tapi thanks to technology, Mazrah stumbled into my blog, and kitorg berhubungan balik. Baruku tau dia dah bertahun keje di Sabah, the reason nape aku jarang terserempak ngan dia kat kampung. Kemudian ada Facebook lak. So lg rancak la berhubungan walaupun sekadar di alam cyber.

Pertengahan tahun ni, Mazrah buat plan nak jln2 ke Europe dan memandangkan aku dah ada kat sini, aku jemput dia berjalan ke Frankfurt sekali. Sebenarnya nak jalan2 ke Europe kalau kena perancangan dan pandai cari peluang, kosnya adalah affordable. Tp of course la affordable here for me is the back-packing style (affordable tu kan sgt subjektif maknanya). Contohnya Mazrah dpt tiket Ryanair dr Dublin ke Frankfurt ngan harga 35 Euro aje dan kemudian tiket train ICE (train laju di Germany) dr Frankfurt ke Paris cuma 39 Euro. Tp ngan syarat, kena beli tiket seawal 2 bulan la!

Tp malangnya the day Mazrah sampai, aku lak masih di hospital (kes miscarriage ari tu). Patutnya aku yg gi jemput dia kat airport tp terpaksa la suh cik HB yg gi. Cik HB lak dah la x penah jumpa Mazrah, tp once again thanks to FB, aku suh dia tgk gambar2 Mazrah kat FB utk memudahkan proses pengecaman. Nasib baik la senang cik HB jumpa Mazrah kat airport walaupun mulanya ada sedikit kekeliruan. Mlm tu Mazrah kitorg tumpangkan kat rumah Mat & Liza sbb kalau Mazrah ikut cik HB balik rumah kitorg kang, mati kutu lak dua2 org tu.

Nasib baik aku dah discharged the day after. Dan nasib baik la badan rasa sihat. Maka dpt la aku melayan tetamu. Kalau x, x pasal2 lak tetamu lak yg kena layan aku. So sempat la bawa Mazrah jln2 ke Darmstadt dan Frankfurt. Untungnya Mazrah, sbb dr hari dia mula dtg, dan sepanjang dia kat sini, snow turun ngan lebat. Sbbnya dia mmg dok teringin nak merasa main snow. Kalau ikut last year, time camni snow ada ciput je. Cuma yg x bagusnya, suhu terlampau sejuk, dropped sampai -12C. So x byk tempat boleh bawa Mazrah berjln. Hari ahad kitorg setakat lepak kat rumah, main snow kat balkon aje...heheheh.

Mazrah and the twins on carousel @ Frankfurt Christmast Markt

Isnin, Mazrah bergerak ke Paris dgn ICE. Aku sgt berdoa semoga dia selamat throughout the journey sbb aritu train pon delayed sbb snow turun ngan lebat. Dan di Paris lak, dia stay kat hostel, so harap2 everything is fine. Namun, thru FB aku dpt tau dia hilang kamera masa jalan2 kat Paris. Kes pickpocket! Buat masa ni dia dah berada di London, mengabiskan saki baki hari2 perjalanan sebelum terbang pulang ke Malaysia. Semoga selamat sampai ke tanah air.

Bukan Rezeki...

Dalam dok kata x nak lagi,x nak lagi tu kan....

Several weeks ago, my period x dtg2. Being on regular cycle, rasa kalau dah lewat seminggu tu...hmmm, apalagi kan?

So, I went buy pregnancy home test kit and did it and WALLA!!!

Two lines appeared immediately....

For those who don´t know what it means....it means PREGNANCY ok!

Walaupun bukan dlm perancangan, hati tetap berbunga2 dan excited dgn kehadiran orang baru. Terus survey stroller dan tgk brg2 baby di internet!

Anyway, the week I found out about it, was the busy week sbb si kembar masuk kindergarten. So disbbkan sibuk menguruskan sikembar, maka lawatan ke frauenarzt (gynae) ditangguhkan dulu. Lagipon based on my calculation, baru 6 minggu so xpe la kalau pegi lambat sikit.

At the same time, morning sickness dan rasa x larat pon mula appear. Masak pon dah x lalu dan tekak payau je manjang. Dok berdoa jgn la sampai dpt hyperesis gravidarum mcm masa pregnant si kembar.

The following week, selepas twins dan settle down kat kindergarten gi buat appointment kat frauenarzt and was given an appointment on another week. And my sickness was getting worse and exhaustion makin menjadi2. Buat keje sikit, dah rasa nak tergolek. Most of the time, tido aje.

Then, the appointment day arrived. Pegi frauenarzt, went thru all necessary procedures - amik darah, timbang berat, measure blood pressure....

Then, jumpa doc...she performed scan...and the moment she saw the image, dia kata there's something wrong with my pregnancy - there was the egg but it was empty! No child, no heartbeat. So she said she will refer me to the hospital and the hospital will do further check-up and take necessary action. And that could mean D&C...

Sedih la jugak masa doctor tu ckp "I'm sorry it happens this way". Tapi nak buat cemana kan...bukan rezeki kali ni.

The next day, gi Hospital Ruesselsheim, ditemani anak kak Liza, Zurina. Nasib la Zurina ikut sbb bukan semua staff kat hospital tu boleh ckp English. Then I went thru another scan, lepas tu diorg ckp I had to stay in the hospital at least 3 days sbb maybe kena buat D&C. The thing was, the pregnancy is not normal and they had to check further details to confirm whether they can proceed with D&C procedures. And the D&C pon x boleh delay sgt sbb kalau dah mmg xde baby but the body developed pregnancy body, then the body could be poisoned with the pregnancy hormone (sorry if I conveyed wrong info, but that was what I understood).

One thing I amazed about the medical procedures kat sini, is how details they go through things. Like in my case, before I was warded, I was to sit down with the gynae who did the check-up on me when I was first arrived in the hospital and she explained my condition, then the procedures that I would go thru with D&C and long list of risks, consequences and effects that I would probably face with the medical procedures they would carry out on me. So if I understand and agree to accept all of the abovementioned, then only I should sign the agreement paper. Kalau dgr the probable risks tu mmg sgt menakutkan, as if I was going to do major operation!

Itu yg dgn gynae....

Then another session ngan anesthetic. Pon sama jugak.

Koridor hospital Russelsheim - photos courtesy Mazrah. Aku x sempat pon nak snap gambar bilik aku kat hospital tu.

That night, I was told to stop eating by 12pm and to stop drinking by 2 am. Ingatkan awal pg diorg akan proceed ngan D&C tp when the doc came, he said they still have to take my blood sample sbb the previous day, my blood showed that I had the pregnancy hormone and pregnancy hormone is produced by baby so they were afraid that there could be a baby, it's just that x nampak on the scanner. So kena amik darah lg and kena tunggu lg. Bosan seh dok hospital! Dah lah x boleh makan/minum. Dah lah tgn abis bengkak sbb diorg nak bg drip tp asik x jumpa urat atau cucuk salah urat (I don't blame them, it's my common problem, kat Mesia pon camni gak!)

Then, they came and told me that they would proceed with D&C since there was a drop in the level of pregnancy hormone. Then diorg bg ubat utk kembangkan uterus as a preparation for D&C. Mula2 ckp operation would be at 3 pm, lepas tu kata kul 7pm. Pastu kata kul 10pm. Tp x jadi jugak. Sbbnya diorg kata asik ada emergency case so x cukup doktor anesthetic and since my case was not critical so kena la tunggu. Hish, x tau ke org dah kelaparan!

In between tunggu dah ler sakit perut mcm nak bersalin. Rupanya ubat tu mmg ubat utk bg contraction so it's normal rasa sakit mcm nak bersalin. Kul 11pm lebih kot, masa dah tertido tu, tetiba the nurses masuk bilik, kata dah dpt call utk hantar aku ke operation room. Nasib baik la dah penah went thru operation masa bersalinkan twins dulu, jadinya xde la berdebar sgt masa di tolak ke operation room then masuk operation room. Dlm operation tu dah ler semua lelaki, sorang tu (rasanya doktor bius kot) made conversation with me and try to sooth me down (suh relax la kot) tp honestly xde la rasa takut kot. Then nampak diorg inject something into my dripline pastu letak topeng mulut on over my face. Then dah x sedar apa2 dah.

Tau2 aje dah ditolak ke one room (they call it wake up room). Stay kat situ kejap then ditolak balik ke bilik. Immediately I fell into sleep again, the kul 6pm something nurse dtg check on me and aku disuruh bgn pegi toilet, tgk normal ke proses pembuangan and checked whether I was bleeding heavily.

Tetiba badan rasa normal, sihat, sikit pon x rasa sakit apa2. Tekak payau ke, nausea ke semua hilang, padahal just the day before tu still rasa morning sickness. Mula2 nurse kata I had to stay one more day tp when the doc came later, dia kata since everything was fine, dia bg balik that noon. Yeay!!!! Kalau nak kena dok kat hospital lg sehari, huh!

But of course, I have to revisit my gynae for following check-up lepas seminggu or so.

So that was the whole story. Senang sikit bila buat entry ni because ramai yg tanya what happened kat FB and jenuh la nak citer the whole thing kat setiap sorang.

I really have to thank some people when this things happened.

To Mat & Liza yg sgt2 mengambil berat - tolong call kan pihak hospital sebelum masuk hospital bertanyakan apa2 yg perlu n then mlm2 yg sejuk tu bawa Liya pi hospital, sbb nak melawat I dan bawa makanan (makanan hospital sini mmg x sedap!). Then kebetulan pulak masa tu I've got friend yg dtg dr Mesia for vacation and she arrived when I was still hospitalised...pon dgn jasa balik Liza & Mat, tumpangkan ler my friend kat rumah diorg sekejap.

Then Kak Liza n Cik dee yg tolong jagakan sikembar, jemput dr kindy, sent me food and mcm2 lg while cik HB terpaksa ke sekolah. It was a hectic time for us, sbbnya that week la cik HB ada test dan mcm2 urusan.

Then of course, Zurina.....the one yg drove me to hospital, arranged for my admission, jadi tukang translate, visiting me from time to time, bawakan my things, follow-up with the nurses and doctors on my situation and then drove me home the day I was discharged.

Really, I'm so blessed that we live around all these kind-hearted, helpful people. No blood relationship and yet already feel like family. Alhamdulilah.....

And for those who have been asking how am I doing....I'm doing just fine - physically and emotionally. Ada yg kata kena pantang even miscarriage but I don't know how to pantang. So just go through life as usual, cuma xde la mkn benda2 yg tajam dan bergas.

No more Private

Atas permintaan ahli keluargaku yg ramai bilangannya, dan ada yg malas nak sign up ngan google semata2 nak baca blog ni, maka sy terpaksa la mem public kan blog ini semula.

Ye, anggap saja sy tgh meroyan masa sy amik keputusan mem private kan blog ini. Rasa mcm takut di stalked ke apa ke ntah masa tu....tp mcm la popular pon! Ada masanya pompuan cam sy ni mmg mempunyai kebimbangan tidak berasas ye!

Kepada kwn2 yg telah bersusah payah menghantar email so that sy add anda sbg readers blog ini, sy mohon berbyk2 maaf di atas kesusahan anda. Tapi sy tetap terharu dgn kesudian anda yg mahu terus membaca blog yg ntah apa2 ini.

Twins ke Tadika

Bermula 1/12/2009 ari tu kembar sudah mula menghadiri tadika. Di Germany, seawal umur 3 thn, kanak2 sudah boleh dihantar ke tadika, bergantung kpd adanya kekosongan atau tak. Prioriti diberi kpd kanak2 lebih dewasa. Thn lepas kami dah daftarkan twins ngan tadika yg lain tp masa tu di beritahu xde tempat kosong maka kami hanya boleh menunggu sampai diorg call dan bgtau ada kekosongan atau tak.

Masuk sesi baru thn ini waktu permulaan autumn, masih xde panggilan dr tadika berkenaan maka kami pon cuba mendaftar ngan tadika lain yg masih lg dekat ngan rumah. Masa pegi mendaftar masih mendapat jawapan yg sama - xde kekosongan buat masa itu! Tp pengetua tadika itu confirmed to us, since twins dah berumur 4.5 thn, maka diorg akan berada on top of the waiting list.

Tup2...x sampai 2 minggu, kami dpt call dr tadika berkenaan, mengatakan dah ada tempat utk si twins dan kami diminta hadir utk menguruskan paperworks utk admission.

Oh, urusan admission utk masuk tadika agak complicated disini. Kami amik masa lebih kurang 1 jam utk mengisi borang dan sesi soal jawab ngan pengetuanya. Dah la pengetua dia x berapa fluent English, kitorg pon struggle ckp Deutsch but nevertheless the lady pengetua sgt la friendly and took time utk memahami apa yg kami ckp. Dan kebetulan pulak ada PC ada meja dia, so bila dia susah sgt nak paham, aku pon minta izin guna online translation...hehehe.

Dan lagi, tadika requested surat pengesahan dr doktor kanak2 yg mengatakan kembar adalah sihat. Kami dr awal dah tau ttg requirement ni cuma yg memeningkan kepala sbb kami x bawa medical record dr Malaysia. Dari thn lepas kami cuba nak mendapatkan salinan rekod imunisasi kembar dr doktor diorg kat Malaysia. Tp doktor tu x tau la nape...dah call byk kali pon, dia masih buat x tau aje. Our own copy lak dok terkunci dalam opis cik HB kat UTEM so mmg xde harapan nak suh sapa2 amikkan dan pos ke sini. Pengajaran disini : sila angkut segala medical record jika anda mau tinggal di oversea walaupun utk sementara dan sila simpan dokumen2 penting dgn someone yg boleh dipercayai so that apa2 hal boleh mintak org tersebut hantarkan kat kita.

So kitorg pasrah aje la. Kitorg just copy salinan standard imunisasi kanak2 dr KKM dan kebetulan pulak bulan Jun aritu kitorg dah buat complete medical check-up ngan doktor kanak2 tersebut atas arahan Rathaus (mcm majlis perbandaran). So doktor tu pon tau tahap kesihatan kembar. Mula2 dia kata susah dia nak sahkan sbb salinan yg disahkan oleh doktor on the twins' medical record xde tp kami convinced kan dia apa yg wajib dlm list imunisasi tu twins dah amik. In fact sebenarnya kami amik lebih dr yg diwajib sbb dulu kami buat di private clinic, so mana yg extra yg dicadangkan oleh doktor kanak2 pon kami buat, as precaution. Tp malangnya sbb xde record, maka x dpt dibuktikan. Tp again since doktor ni dah penah buat medical check-up utk sikembar, maka dia pon luluskan. Cuma berdasarkan list KKM dan compare ngan list imunisasi Germany, masih ada 3 jabs yg twins x amik lg. So doktor tu ckp, dia cuma tandakan mana yg ada, mana yg xde tu terpulang la kat pihak tadika nak terima ke x.

Bila serahkan surat pengesahan dr doktor ke pihak tadika, diorg pon x ckp apa2. Guess yg 3 jabs tu mungkin x significant or kalau significant pon maybe sbb kami bukan penduduk tetap Germany maka boleh diterima....agaknya la!

The first day twins kat tadika, aku diminta temankan diorg. Actually the first week tu mmg parents kena ada bersama anak sepanjang masa diorg di tadika. Tp dlm kes twins, hari kedua tu aku hanya stay dlm 30 minit lepas tu cikgu dia kata aku boleh balik sbb on the first day lg si twins dah nampak serasi dgn environment baru. Tp kena jemput sejam awal. So the whole week tu, hantar diorg sejam lambat dan amik sejam awal (waktu tadika : 8.30 am - 1.00 tghari).

Terjumpa bendera Malaysia tp malangnya diletak terbalik!

Twins punya hanger utk beg dan jaket, marked by foto diorg sendiri dan simbol.

Basically apa yg aku nampak the first day masa spent time kat tadika tu, diorg xde formal education syllabus. Kanak2 dibahagikan mengikut kumpulan dan setiap kumpulan ada 2 cikgu. Waktu pagi sampai, kanak2 boleh pilih samada nak main ngan toys ke, or melukis/mewarna/menggunting. Kertas, pensil, colouring stuffs, gunting, gam semuanya reachable oleh semua kanak2. so suka hati la nak buat apa pon. Then dlm kul 9 gitu, cikgu2 setiap kumpulan akan gather kanak2 dlm group masing then diorg ada like small discussion dgn satu topik. So kanak2 akan di explore opinion diorg tentang sesuatu perkara.




Kemudian semua kanak2 dr semua group akan berkumpul kat ruang utama tadika tersebut, dan diorg akan nyanyi sama2. Lepas tu bersurai dan masing2 akan makan breakfast. Breakfast harus disediakan oleh parents. Pihak tadika cuma sediakan teh dan susu shj. Lepas breakfast, diorg akan sambung ngan aktiviti crafts, kekadang ada project melukis on the wall, or water colour atau apa2 shj yg ditentukan oleh cikgu. By pukul 12 tghari, masa utk beriadah, so semua kanak2 akan berada di playground. Pukul 1 masa utk parents dtg menjemput kanak2 yg menghadiri sesi pg. Bagi yg stay sampai kepetang, diorg akan diberi lunch (oleh pihak tadika), kemudian take a nap dlm sejam, lepas tu sambung lagi la apa2 aktiviti. By pukul 4 ptg tadika akan ditutup.

Breakfast time

So mmg berbeza la ngan tadika kat Malaysia yg rata2 ada syllabus formal education. e.g. belajar membaca/mengira. Kenapa di Germany, caranya begini.....tidak la aku ketahui. Maybe ada la kot the reason why preschooler di Germany tidak dibebankan lg ngan formal education.

Walaupun belum mampu lg memahami dan berckp dlm Deutsch, so far twins enjoy ke tadika.

Enjoy la kan....mainan banyak ni!

Renjis2 di Pilis...

Hari raya ke-3 Aidil Adha baru ini, adik cik HB yg bongsu, Marina selamat diijabkabulkan dgn lelaki pilihan hatinya, Hafiz. Ini merupakan wedding ke dua family cik HB thn ini yg kami x dpt hadiri. Apa nak buat, xde rezeki kan...Pas ni sebelah cik HB tunggu wedding cucu2 aje la sbb semua 11 org anak2 Pak Ibrahim dah selamat mendirikan rumahtangga.

Kepada Marina & Hafiz, selamat melayari kehidupan berumahtangga, Kak Ros & Abe Ju doakan semoga kalian bahagia dunia akhirat.

Visa

Alhamdulilah, visa berjaya di renew kan baru2 ini tanpa byk kerenah dr pihak imigresen Jerman. Dapat lak utk 2 thn...weeeheeeeeeeee!

Dua kanak2 riang depan Ausländerbehörde Groß Gerau

Ye la, kalau kena stay lg utk thn berikut (kalau ke?), dah x yah la susah2 nak pi renew visa dah. Sbb kalau dpt officer yg byk kerenah, jenuh jugak la nak renew visa.

Kali ni benda baru yg diorg nak cuma gambar terbaru si kembar. Dan bila compare gambar kembar thn lepas ngan thn lepas ni...mak aiii! nampak beberapa perubahan yg ketara.

Gambar thn lepas - dirakam Jun 2008

Dua2 pipi adalah cengkung dan muka adalah kurang ceria (Nabilah nampak sedih). Aku cuma terfikir adakah kerana disebabkan mereka dulu duduk di nursery kebanyakan masa maka kurang makan dan tidak happy berada disitu? Dan juga jarang spend masa dgn ibubapa? Kesiannya anak2 ku....

Gambar thn ini - dirakam November 2009

Pipi sedikit berisi dan muka lebih ceria. Tak lah nak kata dah gemuk, tp since aku yg dok jaga diorg ari2 dan sendiri bg makan (siap bersuap lg!), maka nampak la sikit pipi tu naik. And then skrg diorg dok berkepit ngan mak aje dan abah pon selalu ada kat rumah, so maybe tu pon mempengaruhi keceriaan diorg.

Walaubagaimana pon itu adalah teori sy semata2. Hakikatnya sikembar semakin dewasa dan semakin byk berubah dari segi fizikal mau pon tingkah laku. Dan sy sgt enjoy melihat mereka membesar didepan mata.

Oh, cemana balik Malaysia nanti nak keje balik ni?

Warming Up...

Oh my...oh my...malasnya nak berblogging skrg!

Banyak je event2 kehidupan yg significant berlaku, yg kalau hendak di blog kan mmg byk la bahan tp mood aje xde! Tapi kalau x di blog kan mcm sayang la pulak, kenangan semua tu.

Ok, mari buat senarai apa kah yg ingin sy blog kan?

1. Urusan renew visa :
Xde apa pon yg menarik, kecuali visa dpt utk 2 thn. Yahoo!!! Thn depan kalau stay sini lg ( mcm confirm je stay lg..hehehe) x yah dah susah2 pi renew visa dah. Tp rasa perlu nak buat entry pasal ni sbb nak letak gambar kembar visa tahun lepas dan visa thn ini. Sungguh berbeza!

2. Sambutan Aidil Adha:
Agak meriah sbb kami buat mkn2 anjuran bersama kak liza/cik dee & Mat/Liza. Nanti la buat entry bergambar.

3. Si kembar masuk kindergarten:
Oh! ni mesti di blogkan. One of the turning point in their growing up years.

4. English Playgroup mommies dinner:
Sekumpulan ´Desperate Housewives´keluar dinner bersama2 tanpa suami dan anak2. Fun!

Setakat ini, itu saja tajuk2 yg mampu sy fikirkan. Mari kita tgk sejauh mana entry2 tersebut berjaya di blog kan!