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As you can see, I was in an accident in April. |
I was in a hurry, running a little late to pick up Peter from school ( he tends to get worried if I'm not near the front of the pick up line). I stopped at the stoplight because it was red. As I sat there, my mind began to wander and think about all the many, many things that I still had left in my day to complete. My other three children were actually not fighting or arguing and were being quiet. I thought I saw the light turn green and began to proceed through the intersection. Much to my horror and complete surprise, a truck slammed into me. My first thought was to make sure that everyone was okay and then I began the process of blaming. I blamed the other driver for running the red light and wondering if they had good insurance. And I had a complete change of thought. I began to rehearse the accident in my mind. I could not actually picture the green light in my mind, no matter how many times I went through it. That's when I began to realize that I was probably to blame. (My I-get-it moment... judge not, that ye be not judged. )
I called my husband with shaking hands and he appeared minutes later. Everyone was so kind, nice, and understanding. Even the other driver! I couldn't say that I would have been if the role had been reversed. Neighbors and friends appeared to help take care of my children. My brother called and teasingly asked what I had been doing that day but then instantly became serious when I told where I was. He came to my rescue as well and was there to drive us home when my husband had to go with the tow truck.
Thankfully, no one was seriously injured. I have had some bruising from the seat belt which had limited some of my abilities ( like bending, breathing, sleeping, or anything else that requires the use of chest muscles,,, FYI...did you know that you use your chest muscles when you use the bathroom? Well, you do...LOL!) but that is all! Pretty miraculous considering the alternative!
I am so thankful to those that have provided service to my family at this time, whether it was taking my kids, making meals, or simply prayers. Thank you all so much!
I have had some time to reflect on this and I have found it incredible that in a busy intersection, on a Friday, at school pickup time, that only one car hit me, and that no other cars were involved! There was no pile up, or other fender benders.
I had two meals brought into me with in two hours of the accident!
There have been no lasting affects of the accident! My kids are fine. I was sure they would have nightmares or other problems but they have bounced back incredibly. (Matthew does ask me whenever we go over a bump that kind of scraps the bottom of our van, if I hit another car..LOL). I attribute this mostly to the fact that I didn't see the truck and thus didn't brace for the impact, thus causing other possibly injuries.
And my wonderful Hero, has been so understanding and only got upset with me when I said sorry for the fortieth time.
It was a nice, sweet lady that was driving the truck. It could have been a mean-tempered man who jumped out of his truck and yelled at me and called me a lot of bad names.
I have been so blessed!!!