Toilet Trained Reishi

My baby Pekingese, Reishi is finally toilet trained. After 3 mths of picking up his shit everywhere in the house, it finally pays off. Now he will only shit on the newspaper in the kitchen.. so quai.. haha..

The picture in Jap Yukata was taken quite sometime ago when he was about 4mths old, now he is 6mths old liao... Cute rite??

Been busy with my wedding preparations recently.. There's so much things to prepare.. Very Fan.. but again.. its just once in a life time..

I believe I'll enjoy this little ride with my darling.

Clarity is POWER!

What do you want? What do you really want? Forget about what other people want, what other people expect, who other people think you are, even what society has lead you to believe about what is appropriate or even possible.

Let go of any preconceived notions and get quiet and meditative with just yourself and figure out exactly what it is that you want. If you could be, do or have anything in the entire Universe what would it be?

Many of us live our lives in quiet desperation trying to please other people, our parents, our spouses, our friends, sometimes even strangers. If we really want to live the life that we choose, we must choose that life. Nobody else in the entire world knows what is in your heart. Only you. You must decide what it is that you truly want because your life will unfold no matter what.

Your life will unfold and if you have tried to please everyone else while neglecting yourself, you won’t have the life you want but the life that someone else wanted for you. You won’t be happy and you will regret not making the choices and living the life you could have lived.

So get quiet, meditative and figure it out. Decide before hand whom you will share this with. Nothing will destroy your newfound resolve faster than a mean-spirited criticism from a loved one. And often when you try to make changes other people will do what they can to manipulate you into staying where you are. When your resolve gets stronger and more powerful then you can share.

Clarity is Power. When you are clear about your goals, your desires, your wishes, you will do what it takes to create what it is that you want. When you face the world with a congruent outlook, your actions produce the power and the strength to create whatever your heart desires.

You will manifest your life…. Will it be the life you choose, or the life that someone else chooses for you?

For things to CHANGE,1st I MUST CHANGE!

"For things to CHANGE, 1st I MUST CHANGE!" This is the quote I remembered the most during my 3 1/2 days "Money & You" program at KL. All along I've been trying so hard to change people around me to suit myself, including my lovely wife. But I was WRONG. Its very difficult to change the people around you as they are themself. So in order for things to change, I MUST learn how to change myself. And how? .. I'm working on it now.. haha.

I must say this 3 1/2 days changed me. I learnt a lot from how to manage my cashflow better to how to be more responsible than before. Basically, I learnt more about "Money(my money) & You(which is me)" Highly recommended to ALL my close friends and anyone who read this entry to attend this fantastic program. Trust me, its a life changing experience. For more informations, can always contact me. Pls note that I am a graduate of "Money & You" I don't earn anything from sharing my experience with you. The instructor, Mr Dominique Lyone(multi-millionaire) was an amazing instructor and he is my new idol now.. haha. As I mentioned before, to be successful, we MUST learn from the successful.

Reishi's new hair cut.

Reishi just got his 1st hair cut on last tuesday. Looks more handsome now. haha. But begins to bite more frequently after coming back from the hair cut.

Do you give your dream a chance?

It's given fact that the majority of people out there never achieve the goals they set, live the dreams that they want, and are just plain unhappy with life.

Why?

It NEVER has to be this way at all, not for you, me,or anybody else! Because we all have the power to create the dream life that we all want.

It's only question of whether you believe you CAN do it and whether you actually take the ACTION to accomplish it.

If you don't even believe that what you want is possible for you, then I'm sorry but you've just killed your own dream without ever even giving it a chance to come true.

And if you don't take any action to make your dreams come true, how is ever going to happen? It's not going to drop from the sky and someone else is certainly NOT going to achieve it for you!

You are the one. You ARE the key to your own success or failure. And you will decide which one you wish to experience.

Do you want to be a success in life?

Or do you choose to just walk away and pretend that it's "ok" to just have never given your dreams a chance?

Only you will know the answer to that. No one else can answer that question for you.

Think BIG

I have to think anyway, so why not think BIG? -Donald Trump

Our puppy, Reishi

Just bought our very 1st puppy. In fact it is my 1st puppy so far. His name is Reishi, he is 4 months old and he is a Pekingese.

Toilet training in progress, anyone have any tips on how to toilet train this kind of puppy effectively?

Just came back from some puppy's shopping. Hmm.. didn't know that all these accessories can be so expensive too. Anyway, he is sleeping at the kitchen now.

Why are you not rich yet?

Let me first ask you this question, 'Why are you not rich yet'?'What has prevented you from getting the wealth you deserve?'

Spend some time to really ponder on this question and write down as many reasons as you can think of. It is important that you are totally honest with yourself.

Most people tend to say:
'I have no money to make money'
'I was born in a poor family'
'I need to support my family'
'I am too young/old'
'I'm not smart enough'
'I have no opportunities'
'I lack the qualifications'
'I have an unsupportive spouse'
'I lack the financial know-how'
'I have no luck'
'The economy has been down'
'I made poor decisions'

Do any of the reasons shown here match the ones you have given? I want you to look at all the reasons you have been giving yourself and to take note of whether they are reasons that are within your control or external reasons that you think are beyond your control.

You see, most people go through life with the Victim's mindset and this prevents them from ever changing their financial situation.

When they don't get the results they want, victims tend to give themselves lots of excuses like 'I'm just unlucky', ' I have no experience', 'I'm too old to earn more', 'I'm too young to be rich', 'I have no capital', 'I was born poor' or 'I'm not a creative person'.

The reason all these are lousy excuses is because we know that there are many examples of people who have created wealth for themselves, despite all these perceived disadvantages. Victims also tend to blame everyone except themselves. When you ask victims why they are not rich yet they will say something like, 'my boss won't give me a raise', 'I don't get any opportunities', 'my big family prevents me from saving money', 'the stock market caused me to lose everything'.

And instead of finding a way to improve and change, victims spend their time complaining but don't do anything about it.

The trouble is that when you give yourself excuses, blame others and whine, it means that someone else or something else is controlling your life and your (lack of)wealth.

Since you believe that it is not your fault, then you are powerless to change it. If you have a victim's mindset and hold doggedly onto the belief that external forces are controlling your wealth, then any strategies you learn will be of no use!

The moment you acknowledge that you create your own fortune (or lack of it), it means that you have given yourself the power to start becoming rich right now!

Think about it.