Christmas Celebration Part 3

24 dec celebrate christmas with kuang and his friend.. went to his friend house for dinner after that we slack at his house play mahjong, surf net, watch tv..

the next morning, we ate breakfast at geylang.. it is none other than beancurd.. it was my third time in a row ate beancurd.. hee hee.. ^_^

Christmas Celebration Part 2

23 dec, i met my secondary friend to celebrate christmas.. was suppose to meet at 7.30.. in the end i was late and meet them 8 plus.. was planned to dine at bugis's rocky master.. but too late already so we drove to east coast park food center.. we ate zi cha and had been cheated by 1 of the food vendor.. he charged us 14 bucks for BBQ sotong.. but the portions very small.. = (

after dinner, we went selegie to have beancurd as our supper.. love their you tiao .. ^_^

eliz jOy xin

the guys

food

the clique

beancurd session

the end

Christmas Celebration Part 1

last saturday, i had christmas party at my poly frenz house.. the theme of the party was nerd christmas.. all of us have to dress nerdy.. hee hee.. we had spaghetti, campbell soup, some finger food and log cake.. yummy.. after dinner, we watch dvd and drank some wine.. enjoyed the night..

he won the best nerdy of the night

jOy & kah yong

Beauty Day

today was my beauty day.. y? because i went for facial then went far east plaza for mani & pedicure.. it costs me 10 bucks.. lastly.. cut my fringe in 1 of the shop for 5 bucks.. cheap.. hee hee.. ^_^

Updates

last friday we were having fyp and finally compile our 1st draft and submit to our supervisor.. after that we had a celebration for completion of our 1st draft.. we had sushi tei for dinner..

trey & gera

joo jOy ogy

after dinner went shopping at bugis.. walk around but did not see anything that i wanted to buy.. there is 1 dress in one of the shop which cost 89 bucks.. omg.. so expensive.. and it sell at bugis street..

saturday went to city plaza shopping.. nothing much also but i bought a dress.. hee hee.. keep it for new year..

today.. went to school for fyp.. i had completed the log book but forget to show to supervisor.. omg.. he had return us our draft and we had to edit again..

counting down for christmas.. 20 dec i having party with poly frenz, 23 dec i had dinner with my seconday frenz, 24 dec i had party with kuang & frenz.. yahoo.. this year will be a fruitful 1.. yeah..

i'm sick again.. i hope i can recover soon before christmas..

Angry

when he had pms.. i will b the 1 who kena.. and have to give in or say sorry although it was not my fault.. WHY? he never even give in to me as he always think he is right.. UNFAIR!!!

Fishy Business

A lawyer and an engineer were fishing in the Caribbean.

The lawyer said, "I'm here because my house burned down, and everything I owned was destroyed by the fire. The insurance company paid for everything."

"That's quite a coincidence," said the engineer. "I'm here because my house and all my belongings were destroyed by a flood, and my insurance company also paid for everything."

The lawyer looked somewhat confused. "How do you start a flood?" he asked.

Can I Have This Dance

Take my hand, take a breath
Pull me close and take one step
Keep your eyes locked on mine,
And let the music be your guide.

Won't you promise me (now won't you promise me, that you'll never forget)
We'll keep dancing (to keep dancing) wherever we go next

It's like catching lightning the chances of finding someone like you
It's one in a million, the chances of feeling the way we do
And with every step together, we just keep on getting better
So can I have this dance (can I have this dance)
Can I have this dance

Take my hand, I'll take the lead
And every turn will be safe with me
Don't be afraid, afraid to fall
You know I'll catch you threw it all

And you can't keep us apart (even a thousand miles, can't keep us apart)
'Cause my heart is (cause my heart is) wherever you are

It's like catching lightning the chances of finding someone like you
It's one in a million, the chances of feeling the way we do
And with every step together, we just keep on getting better
So can I have this dance (can I have this dance)
Can I have this dance

Oh no mountains too high enough, oceans too wide
'Cause together or not, our dance won't stop
Let it rain, let it pour
What we have is worth fighting for
You know I believe, that we were meant to be

It's like catching lightning the chances of finding someone like you (like you)
It's one in a million, the chances of feeling the way we do (way we do)
And with every step together, we just keep on getting better
So can I have this dance (can I have this dance)
Can I have this dance

Can I have this dance
Can I have this dance


love the song alot.. it's full of meaningful words..

SMA Day

SMA day finally over.. but it's not over for me as i have to do accounting for that.. overall SMA day was going fine.. not much big problem.. but there are some minor ones.. thanks to every helpers and committees that had contributed the event..
3 cheers to SMAC hip hip hooray..

Pictures

below were the pictures taken last saturday outing..

steamboat

eliz & jOy

the guys

with flash

without flash

Random

saturday steamboat was okay.. supposed to meet at 7pm plus.. but find parking lots.. pass through ERP, $2 gone.. go bugis junction car park then realize it's expensive so went out, $2.14 gone.. finally go public car park place $1.50 coupons.. -_- i spent alot just on driving and parking.. people.. do drive your car after 8pm.. you can escape all the unnessary charges.. -_- then waited for the guys.. they do the same things as me as i told them meet in bugis junction.. i learned my lesson.. in the end we start eating at 9pm plus.. -_- after steamboat i was very full and home sweet home..

i realize i have been eating buffet for past few weeks.. i shall reduce it.. it's fatterning..

sma day.. finally.. 1 of the 3 caterers was confirm.. phew.. as the date was near.. i'm afraid no food to eat on that day.. hahaz.. 2 more 2 go.. will be confirm tomorrow.. another to be worry was lucky draws and choc fondue.. gonna go pasir panjang do survey see which stalls sell their fruits cheaper..

Bored

it's been long time since i update.. hmmm.. let's recall things that happen pass few weeks..

have been in school for 4 weeks already.. in another 2 weeks time, exam will start.. omg.. hope i can really put in effort this time..

have been busy planing food and lucky draw for sma day.. i'm the over all in charge, most of the things i do on my own.. hate to c arun.. y? cause always will c his black face.. and i dunno what he gonna scold me about.. hahaz..

so far in school.. nothing much.. attend lesson then go home.. hardly go out or what.. kinda boring.. miss my secondary sch gals friends.. they were busy with their school stuff.. have not been meeting them about 3 months..

kuang having field camp now.. will be back next friday.. but i having sma day.. don't think we are able to meet.. miss him so much..

now i should be doing fyp.. but i'm too lazy to do.. haiyo.. i gonna buck up.. hee hee..

i had lost my thumbdrive for 2 times in library.. damn careless.. vey blur.. but luckily, i am able to find it.. phew..

tonight will be meeting some of my secondary sch friend.. celebrate one of the guy's birthday.. steamboat at bugis.. yeah.. had been before once and i find it not bad..

that's all..

relationship is something that undescribable..

Weekends

friday after lesson went to anchorpoint.. our intention was to buy cheesecake but we saw the queue very long.. so we went to eat at kfc.. after lunch, drive to qian hu fish farm do fish spa.. it was my first time.. in the begining, i feel very ticklish after awhile i used to the ticklishness.. after fish spa we gave food to koi fish.. the fishes were very cute then we walk around the farm, saw different type of fishes.. next, i drove around lim chu kang area and we stopped at farm mart.. walked around and had a fresh honey drink at there.. evening time, our plan was too watch high school musical 3 but in the end most of time slots were sold out so again we walked around the shopping center.. lastly we went pizza hut for our dinner.. home sweet home..

saturday.. meet kuang he booked out for dinner then need to booked in again.. we had dinner at soup restaurant.. love the san sui chicken.. we had steamed meat and tofu as well.. yummy.. ^_^

Updates

last saturday was SMAC amazing race.. overall okay.. after that met kuang for dinner.. we ate swiss culture at suntec.. the chocolate fondue was awesome.. i'm loving it..

sunday went to work kusu again.. the weather was very hot.. was assigned to work at the coaches waiting point area.. although there was tentage, but it was still very hot.. at the end of day.. both cheeks of mine turn reddish.. -_-

monday.. school had started already.. wake up early in the morning, attended 8am lesson.. taking down notes, assignment, fyp, exam all start again..

Quiz

Rules:
1. The rules of the game get posted at the beginning.
2. Each player answers the questions about themselves
3. At the end of the post the player then tags 5 people and posts their names, then goes to their blogs and leaves a comment, letting them know they got tagged and to ask them to play and read your blog ___________________________________________________________________

Starting time: 4.40pm
Name: Joy Yang
Sisters: 1
Brothers: 1
Shoe size: 7-8
Height: 162cm
Where do you live: Chua Chu Kang
Favourite drinks: Ice Blended Mocha
Favourite breakfast: Macdonald Hot Cake


Have you ever

Been on a plane: Yes
Swam in the ocean: Nope
Fallen asleep at school: Nope, Do You Believe?
Broken someone's heart: Yes
Fell off your chair: Yes, I Guess
Waited for someone to call: Everyday
Saved emails: Many, Lazy To Delete
What is your room like: Half Messy, Half Organized
What's right beside you: A Lot Of Things
What is the last thing you ate: Nasi Briyani From Bibik Caterers


Ever had

Chicken pox: Yes
Sore throat: Almost Every Three Months
Stitches: Nope
Broken nose: Nope


Do you

Believe in love at first sight: Depend
Like picnics: Yes


Who was/were the last person

You danced with: Cannot Remember
Last made you smile: Valet Uncle From Marina South Pier
You last yelled at: Cannot Remember


Today did you

Talk to someone you like: Yes
Kissed anyone: Yes
Get Sick: Nope
Talk to an ex: Nope
Miss someone: Nope
Eat: Of Course
Best feeling in the world: Joy
Do you sleep with stuffed animals: Nope
What's under your bed: Another Bed
Who do you really hate: None
What time is it now: 4.56pm


Random

Is there a person who is on your mind now: Nope
Do you have any siblings: Yes
Do you want children: Yes
Do you smile often: Yes
Do you like your hand-writing: Average
Are your toe nails painted: Yes
Whose bed other than yours would you rather sleep in: My Sis
What color shirt are you wearing now: White
What were you doing at 7.00 p.m. yesterday: In SMAC Club, Slack
When did you cry last: Last Week
Are you a friendly person: Should Ask My Friend
Do you have any pets?: Yes, My Dad's Workplace
Where is the person you have feelings for right now: At Home Napping
Did you hold hands with the person who mean anything to you now: Nope
Do you sleep with the TV on: Nope
What are you doing right now: Doing This Quiz
Have you ever crawled through a window: Nope, Who Will Do?
Can you handle the truth: Yes
Are you too forgiving: Yes
Are you closer to your mother or father?: Mother
Who was the last person you cried in front of: Cannot Remember
How many people can you say you've really loved: Don't Know
Do you eat healthy: Sometime
Do you still have pictures of you & your ex: Yes
Have you ever cried because of something someone said to you: Yes
IF you're having a bad day, who are you most likely to go to: My Friend
Are you confident: 50%


5 things I was doing 10 years ago

1. Watching TV
2. Assist My Teacher In School
3. Perform During Teachers' Day
4. Do Homework At Home
5. Cannot Remember


5 things on my to-do list today

1. I Should Sleep
2. Check School's Timetable
3. Play PSP
4. Charge My Phone
5. Buy Biscuit For Dog


5 snacks I enjoy

1. Lollipop
2. Chips
3. Peanut
4. Candy
5. Biscuit With Cheese Spread


5 things I would do if I were a billionaire

1. Give Some To My Parents
2. Buy Condo
3. Shopping
4. Travel
5. Eat Good Food


5 of my bad points

1. Perfectionist
2. Lazy
3. Soft Hearted
4. Sensitive
5. Emo


people I tag
1. Manli
2. Elizabeth
3. Sok Yin
4. Charline
5. Weiling

Shopping & Movie

today was my 25th months with kuang.. he's in camp.. never celebrate.. but.. went out with gera shopping and watch the house bunny.. thanks gera.. ^_^

finally bought 2 top that i'm looking for.. i had been finding for very long.. and it's cheap.. spent 42 bucks for 2.. after that went to watch movie.. the therate was almost fully packed.. it's was a very nice show.. i love it.. at the end of the show.. i relieased that most of the people who watch the movie are guys.. omg.. they are interested on watching the boobs lah.. -_-"

after movie.. go shopping again.. and i had target 2 shoes.. omg.. this holiday.. i had target on 4 shoes.. -_- how to choose.. hee hee..

meeting you soon..

Kusu Pilgrimage Season

yesterday went to marina south pier to work for Kusu Pilgrimage Season.. woke up at 4am and have to reach there at 5.30am.. thanks dad for sending me to work.. hee hee..

first day of work i was assigned to work as a charter bus marshal.. quite enjoying.. eventhough work for 12 hours but overall quite slack.. after work we still get a chance to go kusu island for free.. love the ferry ride.. yeah.. ^_^

one more thing.. one of the staff told us that there was a peeping tom hiding in the ladies toilet peep on ladies.. omg.. in the end police managed to caught him.. hahaz..

it's tough on u & me..

Bored Saturday

recently.. i'm lazy to blog.. hahaz..

i'm bored on this sunny saturday and i'm at home.. no 1 call me out.. sad.. pass few days during holidays is either fyp, club meeting and rock at home.. damn boring..

kuang in camp.. will be out in 3 weeks time.. that's long..

i miss u..

080908

080908 it's our 2 years anniversary.. didn't do much on this day as he book out at night.. we had dinner at jurong and had enjoyed the scenery of the west part of singapore.. hee hee.. ^_^

Bad Day

not in good mood recently.. dunno y.. need to take a break..

Jokes Of The Day

TEACHER: Maria, go to the map and find North America ..
MARIA: Here it is.
TEACHER: Correct. Now class, who discovered America ?
CLASS: Maria.

TEACHER: John, why are you doing your math multiplication on the floor?
JOHN: You told me to do it without using tables.

TEACHER: Glenn, how do you spell 'crocodile?'
GLENN: K-R-O-K-O-D-I-A-L'
TEACHER: No, that's wrong
GLENN: Maybe it is wrong, but you asked me how I spell it.

TEACHER: Donald, what is the chemical formula for water?
DONALD: H I J K L M N O.
TEACHER: What are you talking about?
DONALD: Yesterday you said it's H to O.

TEACHER: Winnie, name one important thing we have today that we didn't have ten years ago.
WINNIE: Me!

TEACHER: Glen, why do you always get so dirty?
GLEN: Well, I'm a lot closer to the ground than you are.

TEACHER: Millie, give me a sentence starting with 'I.'
MILLIE: I is..
TEACHER: No, Millie..... Always say, 'I am.'
MILLIE: All right..... 'I am the ninth letter of the alphabet.'

TEACHER: George Washington not only chopped down his father's cherry tree, but also admitted it. Now, Louie, do you know why his father didn't punish him?
LOUIS: Because George still had the axe in his hand.

TEACHER: Now, Simon, tell me frankly, do you say prayers before eating?
SIMON: No sir, I don't have to, my Mom is a good cook.

TEACHER: Clyde , your composition on 'My Dog' is exactly the same as your brother's. Did you copy his?
CLYDE : No, sir. It's the same dog.

TEACHER: Harold, what do you call a person who keeps on talking when people are no longer interested?
HAROLD: A teacher

COMEX Show

COMEX show had ended.. i had work for 4 days & it was very tiring.. compared to previous IT show, i had sold lesser & did not hit their personal target.. the crowd was little compared to previous show.. it was more difficult to sell although there are new model in the market.. however, i'm glad that i get to know new friends.. hee hee.. ^_^

Birthday Celebration Part 4

today went to celebrate my working friend's birthday.. we went to plaza singapura ate manhattan fish market.. after that was planning to watch movie but don't have the desire timing..

Jokes Of The Day

it's damn funny.. do read it..

Q: What is the closest thing similar to a woman's period?
A: Your salary, it comes once a month lasts about 5-7 days and if it doesn't come means you are in big trouble.

Q: What three things are common between the sun and woman's underwear?
A: Both are hot, both look better while going down and both disappear at night.

Q: Why do men ask for a woman's hand in marriage?
A: Because they are tired of using their own.

Q: What's common between men and video?
A: Both go backward... forward... backward... forward... backward.... forward... stop and eject.

Q: What goes in dry, comes out wet, and gives warm satisfaction?
A: A teabag.

7 qualities to be a perfect wife:
Beautiful,
Responsible
Energetic
Adorable
Sweet
Truthful and
Self-Organized.
In short, she must have good B.R.E.A.S.T.S

Q: What is the similarity between men and rats?
A: Both keep searching for new HOLES.

Q: What's the difference between biology and sociology?
A: When the baby looks like his dad, then it is bi! ology. When the baby looks like the neighbour, then it is sociology.

Doctor: You look so weak & exhausted. Are you having 3 meals a day as I have advised?
Lady: Doctor, I thought you had said 3 males a day.

Q: Girl friend & boy friend go for a movie. In the dark, a mosquito enters the girl's skirt. Guess where it would have bitten?
Answer: The boy's hand.

Q: Tarzan and the animals went to the river to take a bath. Tarzan removed his clothes. All the animals laughed. Tarzan asked 'Why'?
A: The animals told him...........'Your tail is in the front'.

Birthday Celebration Part 2

today went out with kuang at vivo.. shopping and had our lunch at sushi tei.. the food overall not bad.. i like their hot pot.. the soup was delicious.. after lunch, watch money not enough 2.. the movie was very funny and touching.. there are some parts whereby they had mention what's Singaporean faced, which is very true..

at night, met my secondary friends and we had dinner at mussel guy.. celebrated eliz birthday and she loved the present that we had gave her.. had a great time with them..

Exam Ended & Birthday Celebration Part 1

after a week of sweats, memorizing and tiredness.. exam had finally ended.. really hope that i can do well.. pray..

anyway after exam, went to celebrate joo's birthday.. the girls went marina square's jack place for lunch.. it was affordable.. charge $6.50++ for student meal.. it comes with a drink & an ice cream.. after dinner, we went to watch Love Guru.. the movie was very hilarious.. i love it..

later at night, we went shopping and had our dinner at seoul garden with the guys.. had alot of chatting session and that's end the day..

080808

080808 is the beginning of the Beijing Olympic game and it is also my 23rd months with kuang.. today was studying at home for the whole day.. in the evening, went to school attended main comm meeting.. the agenda of the meeting was very long.. from 1-17 i guess.. from 1810-1750 plus hrs.. after meeting went dinner with kuang.. we went to holland road near holland village.. there are many restaurants.. walking around and decided to settle down at a restaurant where there were a lot of people.. the ambience of the restaurant was good.. the salmon spaghetti i ate, i find it okie but the salmon was nice.. besides that, we had mussels as our appetiser and desserts too.. the desserts were very nice..

big menu

jOy & kUaNg

Poly 50

poly 50 had finally ended.. it was my 1st time in my 3 years of polytechnic life participate in this event.. i was nervous and had completed the run.. our team had did a great job & had tried their very best.. 3 cheers to our team.. hip hip hooray.. ^_^


now my legs is aching.. hahaz..

Poly 50 Training

today went for poly 50 training.. my whole body was still aching but still have to attend.. do some jogging & stretching then we start our 50 rounds.. it was tiring but we managed to complete.. yeah.. shall sleep & rest now.. zzZzz..

Red Cliff

today supposedly gonna attend F1 briefing cum interview but the queue was way too long.. so decided not to attend & went to watch red cliff with my friends.. the movie was great.. i rate 4.5 stars out of 5.. it was not full marks due to many bloody scene.. there will be part 2 but dunno when is it.. cant wait to watch.. ^_^

Napfa

today i went napfa.. i'm alone.. but luckily met some of my friend there.. thanks them from supporting me too.. appreciated alot.. now my whole body aching and tired.. tomorrow will be worse.. -_-

Moody

feeling emo now.. dunno how 2 say.. shall keep it to myself..

Weekends

let me start on friday..

friday noon was in the library doing my supply chain quiz.. keep on forgetting to do till the last day.. hahaz.. score average.. after that met my GEMS mates for project.. complete half of it.. only left commenting which i have not done yet..

after project, head down to city hall meet my friend to collect our IT show pay.. it takes us 1 month to collect.. kinda long.. but i'm satisfied with the amount of money they gave.. hahaz.. my friend was late again.. so i called him to treat me coffee.. we went to coffee beans for coffee.. poor him.. he was sick so cant take ice blended.. instead he took hot latte.. we both had regular cup which is quite big.. i cant finish..

after that, met sok for dinner.. i had a great time chatting with her.. from sch to her work and to relationship.. we did shopping as well.. i bought a top from fox and she bought a top from g2000.. after shopping, we had dessert at the fountain terrace which i had bought from coffee beans.. it's 1/2 price.. hee hee..

jOy & sOk

saturday, i woke up early.. dunno why, just cant go back to sleep.. so i woke up and start doing my marketing project.. it took me the whole afternoon to complete it..

at night, meet xin, eliz, andy & josh.. supposedly we plan to watch fireworks .. but we were very hungry.. so went to cafe cartel for dinner.. i love their bread.. hee hee.. i ate alot till i cant finish my main course.. so gave my leftovers to the guys.. hahaz.. after dinner, we went shopping but didn't buy any.. lastly.. we went to gelare for dessert.. the ice cream feast was nice.. we had tasted 8 choices of ice cream.. yummy.. ^_^

ZEM

ice cream feast

beautiful right?

Joke Of The Day

My Wife Is Missing

A man approached a beautiful woman in the large supermarket and asked, "Hi, I've lost my wife here in the supermarket. Can you talk to me for a couple of minutes?"

"Why?" asked the confused woman.

The man replied, "Because every time I talk to a beautiful woman my wife appears out of nowhere."

Great Singapore Sale

Great Singapore Sale is going to end soon on 20 july.. ppl if u have clothes not yet buy.. don't hesitate and buy now.. hahaz..

2day went shopping with joo & gera at vivo.. i bought 2 tops which costs me 23 plus.. quite cheap.. hahaz..

2 projects have to be done by next week.. gonna complete it..

feel bored without you

Exam Ended

phew.. finally exam had ended.. but there will b another 1 soon in 6 weeks time.. -_- gonna suffer again..

after exam, boon's clique, trey's clique, joo and i celebrated gera's birthday at food court 2.. she was surprised.. hee hee.. following that, i went sports club agm with kuang, schoon, xin fish, jenn & alicia.. it was short & the refreshment was at the moberly.. but we didn't went..

next, kuang & i supposedly want to take a bus to meet my dad to take his car but we took the wrong bus and we reached dempsey road where we had plan to have dinner at there.. hahaz.. recee around and decided to eat at karma kettle & rhapsody.. kuang had tarragon chicken and i had across the english channel.. cool name right.. it was linguine served with button, shitake, oyster and enoki mushrooms in a herb fricassee sauce.. very nice.. should try.. the soup of the day was cream of tomatoes.. kuang dislike vegetables but after he drank the soup, he love the soup alot and keep drinking.. hahaz.. we had ordered starter too.. lollipop chicken.. they are chicken drumlets that wrap like a lollipop.. interesting dish..

lastly, i was told that marina south's steamboats stores, bowling alley, restaurant had closed due to IR project.. thus, i wana look at the area.. kuang drove down to marina south but we got lost and ended up at Marina South Pier.. the building of the pier is beautiful.. so we went to recee.. it was a normal pier but there is this river boat where u can dine in.. 1 day should try it.. then we went to the top level of the pier.. it is like a roof top kind where you can see stars.. very ravishing.. there is also a bar.. we had mocktails and lie on the sofa.. it was cooling and relax.. i saw a shooting stars but kuang didn't see.. it was my 1st time to see.. hee hee..

i had a fruitful night and enjoyed.. ^_^

Exam

no motivation to study..

i did study.. but whatever i studied, just cant get into the brain.. y?

he going in soon.. no time for each other.. dejected..

give me hope, energy and brain for my exam..

Quiz

i went to this website, it had a quiz.. it's about what kind of man most compatible to you..

women.. do try it out..

http://www.sexandthecitymovie.com

PS: i'm sorry guys.. this is not for you.. = D

Story

To my married and unmarried friends:
(very touching story, hope you ppl will learn smth from it)

When You Divorce Me, Carry Me Out in Your Arms

On my wedding day, I carried my wife in my arms. The bridal car stopped in front of our one-room flat. My buddies insisted that I carry her out of the car in my arms. So I carried her into our home. She was then plump and shy. I was a strong and happy bridegroom.

This was the scene ten years ago.

The following days were as simple as a cup of pure water: we had a kid; I went into business and tried to make more money. When the assets were steadily increasing, the affection between us seemed to ebb. She was a civil servant. Every morning we left home together and got home almost at the same time. Our kid was studying in a boarding school.

Our marriage life seemed to be enviably happy. But the calm life was more likely to be affected by unpredictable changes.

Dew came into my life.

It was a sunny day. I stood on a spacious balcony. Dew hugged me from behind. My heart once again was immersed in her stream of love. This was the apartment I bought for her.

Dew said, you are the kind of man who best draws girls' eyeballs. Her words suddenly reminded me of my wife. When we were just married, my wife said, Men like you, once successful, will be very attractive to girls.

Thinking of this, I became somewhat hesitant. I knew I had betrayed my wife. But I couldn't help doing so.

I moved Dew's hands aside and said you go to select some furniture, O.K.? I've got something to do in the company. Obviously she was unhappy, because I had promised to do it together with her. At the moment, the idea of divorce became clearer in my mind although it used to be something impossible to me.

However, I found it rather difficult to tell my wife about it. No matter how mildly I mentioned it to her, she would be deeply hurt.

Honestly, she was a good wife. Every evening she was busy preparing dinner. I was sitting in front of the TV. The dinner was ready soon. Then we watched TV together. Or, I was lounging before the computer, visualizing Dew's body. This was the means of my entertainment.

One day I said to her in a slightly joking way, suppose we divorce, what will you do? She stared at me for a few seconds without a word. Apparently she believed that divorce was something too far away from her. I couldn't imagine how she would react once she got to know I was serious.

When my wife went to my office, Dew had just stepped out. Almost all the staff looked at my wife with a sympathetic eye and tried to hide something while talking to her. She seemed to have got some hint. She gently smiled at my subordinates. But I read some hurt in her eyes.

Once again, Dew said to me, He Ning, divorce her, O.K.? Then we live together. I nodded. I knew I could not hesitate any more.

When my wife served the last dish, I held her hand. I've got something to tell you, I said. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the serious topic calmly.

She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I'm serious. I avoided her question. This so-called answer made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man!

That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer, because my heart had gone to Dew.

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. I felt a pain in my heart. The woman who had been living ten years with me would become a stranger one day. But I could not take back what I had said.

Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer.

Late that night, I came back home after entertaining my clients. I saw her writing something at the table. I fall asleep fast. When I woke up, I found she was still there. I turned over and was asleep again.

She brought up her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but I was supposed to give her one month s time before divorce, and in the month's time we must live as normal a life as possible. Her reason was simple: our son would finish his summer vacation a month later and she didn't want him to see our marriage was broken.

Memory is a way of holding onto the things you love, the things you are, the things you never want to lose.

She passed me the agreement she drafted, and then asked me, He Ning, do you still remember how I entered our bridal room on the wedding day? This question suddenly brought back all those wonderful memories to me. I nodded and said, I remember. You carried me in your arms, she continued, so, I have a requirement, that is, you carry me out in your arms on the day when we divorce. From now to the end of this month, you must carry me out from the bedroom to the door every morning.

I accepted with a smile. I knew she missed those sweet days and wished to end her marriage romantically.

I told Dew about my wife s divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she does, she has to face the result of divorce, she said scornfully. Her words more or less made me feel uncomfortable.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. We even treated each other as a stranger. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly, Let us start from today, don't tell our son. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for a bus, I drove to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. We were so close that I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this intimate woman carefully for a long time. I found she was not young any more. There were some fine wrinkles on her face.

On the third day, she whispered to me, the outside garden is being demolished. Be careful when you pass there.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I seemed to feel that we were still an intimate couple and I was holding my sweetheart in my arms. The visualization of Dew became vague.

On the fifth and sixth day, she kept reminding me something, such as, where she put the ironed shirts, I should be careful while cooking, etc. I nodded. The sense of intimacy was even stronger. I didn't tell Dew about this.

I felt it was easier to carry her. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger. I said to her, It seems not difficult to carry you now. She was picking her dresses. I was waiting to carry her out. She tried quite a few but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I smiled. But I suddenly realized that it was because she was thinner that I could carry her more easily, not because I was stronger. I knew she had buried all the bitterness in her heart. Again, I felt a sense of pain. Subconsciously I reached out a hand to touch her head.

Our son came in at the moment. Dad, it's time to carry mum out. He said. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had been an essential part of his life. She gestured our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face because I was afraid I would change my mind at the last minute. I held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly, as if we came back to our wedding day. But her much lighter weight made me sad.

On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. She said, actually I hope you will hold me in your arms until we are old.

I held her tightly and said, both you and I didn't notice that our life lacked intimacy.

I jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my decision. I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door. I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I won't divorce. I'm serious.

She looked at me, astonished. The she touched my forehead. You got no fever. She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I can only say sorry to you, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of life, not because we didn't love each other any more. Now I understand that since I carried her into the home, she gave birth to our child, I am supposed to hold her until I am old. So I have to say sorry to you.

Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove to the office.

When I passed the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet for my wife which was her favorite. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until we are old.

Memory is a way of holding onto the things you love, the things you are, the things you never want to lose.

Birthday Surprise

today is trey's birthday.. yesterday we celebrated his birthday by giving him a surprise.. he was shock that we meet up together.. hahaz.. we had dinner at holland village's n.y.d.c after that we ate ice cream cake at cold rock.. we had a hard time eating the cake.. coz it's hard.. hahaz.. after that we went wala wala.. but change our mind.. so we went arab street chill..

arab street was cool.. we went to sit on the carpet, order some food & drink.. plus.. sisa too.. the guys quite like smoking with that.. hahaz.. had a great time.. ^_^

hard time taking the ice cream

more hands

food

finished

sisa

tube

gera & joy

what's happen to vig?

joy

winding

stoning

besties