
So here he is, this crazy ruffian of a man that I married for all of eternity...
In 45 minutes it's Valentine's Day.
I think it's about time he got some prime bragging space on our blog.
Sometimes I forget how lucky I am to be married to this guy. I know he had his choice of a whole slew of women, and I'm the one that gets the pleasure.. so here are just 10 of the things that i love about my hubby this week:
1. I love that he never seems to tire of the never ending onslaught of tests that med school brings. I mean, I know he's so sick of studying, but he keeps getting A's. I am just amazed sometimes that he can stay up late, get up at 5:30 and study more, go take a test and come right home and start on the next one. Everyone said med school was hard. I didn't know it was going to be so hard to watch him suffer in silence. He's such a trooper. We've put a lot on the line and it's not in vain. He's up to the challenge and I am sooo proud of him!!!
2. I love that he is sooo different from me. We're a lot alike, I know, but there are those things that I just can't join him on that sometimes frustrate and annoy me like crazy, but if he gave up those things, how would he complete me? He fills in where I am not. Thank goodness we are different.
3. Paul made me my own private beach in my bathtub last week. I need to post a picture, but let it suffice to say that he really really made my month.
4. I love that Paul comes home for lunch. There are lots of things he could do if he stayed as school, but from the beginning he made the decision to spend lunch with his family, and I didn't know it in the beginning, but it has been my sanity here. He puts us first and it makes all the difference.
5. I love that Paul is CAPABLE. He always says that we are equally smart, but when it comes to getting some things done, he is amazing. Efficiency at it's best. If Paul says he is going to do something, you can be sure that he will.
6. Paul just decided last month that he was going to build a new computer. Before he decided he knew very little about computers, but he decided it was something he wanted to know about so he poured himself into it and learned everything he could. He is so resourceful. We ended up with a rocking computer. I'm impressed.
7. He listens to his lectures double speed. I can't even pick out the words and he is learning the stuff. His mind is like a big sponge. Sometimes we both hear something on the radio at the same time. Maybe I'm talking to him at the same time and later I'll overhear him tell someone about what we heard with about 60 times the detail of what I remember from the report. I guess that says something about me. But it also says something about him. He's a smarty pants.
8. For any of you out there who know Paul you aren't going to believe this, but Paul can decorate. Now, don't get any weird ideas. I'm still the one with the talent. I have to hold onto something. :) But when we get going together, sometimes his creative ideas just blow me away. It's a lot of fun. If it were an option, I'd go into business with him.
9. Paul uses his love of art as another way of loving me. He has a way of appreciating my work that fills me up all that I need. If it weren't for him, I would be a freaking validation vampire. I love him for that.
10. Paul is a man. I know it sounds dumb. I just love that with all the feminist movement that the media and the public throw into the social mix, he hasn't succumbed to the meterosexual stigma that so pervades society. I like a man who can build things, be a leader, be strong, and not prissy. I love his masculinity. I love that in this picture he is holding a stick and a rock. It looks like he is about to smash something. :) JK.. i like that he's gentle too... ok, he's sort of gentle. I guess maybe he could work a little on being gentle. JK
Love you babe..
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY