Tuesday, June 26, 2007 |
How To Express Feelings With Love Poems |
By Adam P ArcherFinding ways of expressing what you feel is sometimes very difficult for us or any romantic feeling at that. When we we're kids back in grade school or high school we read books like Romeo and Juliet? and the first thing we think of is of Juliet leaning over the the balcony of her palace listening to Romeo, trying to seduce her to accept his love. In almost every romantic classic their is, most of the traditional way's of symbolizing and verbalizing love has been transformed into love poems in some way.
Escape reality for just one second, and count the changes. When our modern day Romeo meets his Juliet through online access or a dating service of some sort, expressing one's love onto paper in the form of poems continues to remain number one by most women,you might not have the time to writ the love poem your self, but can always have it professionally written in your words. While lovers and couples from many years ago had time to write, in today's world most prefer using modern day online e-mail or chat rooms.
If you’re a romantic at heart or just a plain old weakling when it comes to love, the easiest and least time-consuming way to ‘impress you're lover’ is e-mail them love poems, where you can pour your heart out instantly. This works especially well if you’re the shy sort who finds it difficult to express love without feeling shy or embarrassed. Here all your blushes and perspiration are in disguise and you gain the courage of a lion when it comes to expressing you're feelings. If you're not the poetic types? Don't worry – there's tons of love poems of all kinds online that seem to be written just for you and your occasion. These inspirational spiritual love poems will have the old flame roaring high in no time, making your lover glow with happiness.
If you Run out of ideas? Their are love poems online and in book store's located everywhere, the reason being is they are loved and enjoyed by almost everyone. Today a lot of lovers are in long-distance relationships, and there’s no better way to gap that distance than mailing poems that show how much you love and miss your sweet heart. Just remember, while you can always send beautiful roses but it's always better to send beautiful roses and a love poem, the poem that you so lovingly compose and send will stay saved in her in secret box and in her heart forever.
So if you would like to excite you're lover or add some passion and ignite the flames, if you want to let your lover know that they are being thought about, and especially if you are dating online and would like to show your feelings in a romantic way use love poems for that very special moment.
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posted by DreamCatcher @ 1:47 PM |
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Saturday, June 16, 2007 |
How to Help Someone Fall in Love with You or at Least Like You a Lot |
By Cliff Kuhn, M.D.
Imagine, for a moment, your ideal partner. He or she may not have been part of any of the relationships you have experienced so far. On the other hand, the person you imagine may be your spouse or significant other. The "who" is not important for this exercise. Now imagine that ideal person’s face as you want it to look. Does it have a smile or a scowl?
If you said it has a scowl, make an appointment with me fast! And not because I wear a scowl, but because you need help.
Whom Do We Choose...And Who Chooses Us? Most of us want the significant relationship in our life to be someone who genuinely smiles a lot, whose eyes sparkle, who is filled with fun energy, and who is someone we consider to be "good company". Of course, this is not enough foundation for building a lifelong healthy relationship, but it is a start. It is the ability to smile, to have fun and to involve others that help to attract the opposite sex.
Smiling Is A Vital Social Cue
Smiling is one of the first things we do as conscious humor beings – beings who are born with a sense of humor. An infant smiles, perhaps without knowing why, to say that it is non-threatening. It is a gesture of reassurance. It says "I will not hurt you, and you should not hurt me. I am of good humor." What works for us as infants also works as adults. If men want to attract women, or women want to attract men, what is the first thing they do when their eyes meet? They smile – perhaps shyly, perhaps hardly noticeably, maybe it’s just a slight facial twitch. But the message is clear: "I like what I see and I hope you will like me." It is the initial tentative step in any friendly relationship.
Of course, one smile does not guarantee another in return. You might get a scowl. That’s a definite message to keep away. Smiles and scowls are primordial signals of encouragement or warning employed by all mammals and crossing all language barriers.
Take a dog, for instance. If it is pleased to see you, it has a grin from ear to ear and its tail wags crazily. Bared teeth, on the other hand, leave no mistaken impression that you are welcome. One false step and you’ll need a patch in your trousers. We don’t speak "doggish", though the language is clear. Smiles and scowls avoided fights to the death in prehistoric times – and sometimes do today.
Smiling Is A Precursor To Bigger And Better Things!
So you gaze across a crowded room, smiling for three hours? Clearly, the smile is just the beginning, the message that says: "I am safe to approach," and implicitly asks the question: "Are you?" An answering smile means at least that there is no danger. Now, you need to follow up in some appropriate fashion.
"I’m in love with you, will you marry me?" is clearly not appropriate. In this respect, we are not like dogs. There is a protocol or acceptable behavior to follow. The next step is to get the other person to like us, and to find out if we like them. Go back to what you want your ideal partner to be like. One of the things most of us want in a relationship is fun - and my special prescription, The Fun Factor is the best way to learn the fun attitude that attracts mates in droves!
That does not mean we want to listen to corny jokes all day. It means pleasurable activity, and the prospect of such activity in a loving relationship.
After the smile, that first approach needs to be relaxed and to relax the other person. Will talking about you do it? Hardly, if that’s how you open a conversation. Do this too soon and you could destroy a potential relationship before it even begins. Why should the other person be interested in you, what you do and what you think? Ask about the other person? That’s better. That person’s life is more likely to be of interest to them than yours is. And when the other person does the talking, they think you are a great conversationalist.
But it’s still too early for that. Starting with a serious conversation is usually a mistake, though it is frequently made.
Becoming Childlike Is The Key To Forming Lasting Healthy Relationships
Why should forming a new relationship be so difficult when it was so easy for us early in our lives? If you need proof of how easy it was, watch two infants able to crawl but not yet able to talk. Listen to the gurgles they make to one another, and the squeals of delight. They have not yet learned embarrassment, shyness, timidity, to be afraid of rejection. No one told them yet to fear others, that some would not be friendly or welcome them.
They can’t talk, but they already know how to have fun with each other.
Watch them when they are four. They will play together for hours, chattering away, inventing games with seemingly unlimited imagination. They form attachments and real friendships. No one taught them how. They just let their curiosity take over. They still have little experience with embarrassment. No one has explained relationships, they simply happen naturally.
You know what? There are no rules other than being natural and having fun. Only when a child enters school, where rules and discipline have to be enforced to maintain order, does innocence start to give way to the realities of a world in which not all is pleasant and fun. Only then, as a rule, are they taught not to speak to strangers because strangers can be dangerous.
The Key To A Great, Healthy Relationship...Become The Person You Desire The same is true now. There is no cookie-cutter set of rules for attracting the opposite sex. What works for one couple does not work for another. But there are some constants. One of them is to use The Fun Factor to be a fun-loving person, remembering the simplicity and lack of deviousness of small children. An appropriate sense of fun and good humor can be the trigger for that magic spark that can turn into love.
When you have revealed a sense of humor that is attractive to the other person, you will have the opportunity to show that you are also a caring person, kind-hearted, loving, attentive, good parent potential, protective and all the other things in whatever combination is attractive to your potential partner. And you will be able to find out the same things about them. Then, you can become more committed.
But first, you will have to pass the fun test. Is there still a small child in you?
Discover the secrets of a (formerly) stressed-out psychiatrist; Clifford Kuhn, M.D., America's Laugh Doctor, teaches people and organizations to be more healthy and successful through the use of fun and humor. The former associate chairperson of the University of Louisville's renowned Department of Psychiatry, Dr. Kuhn dispenses his prescription for turbo-charging your health, success, and vitality from http://www.natural-humor-medicine.com On his website you will find tons of fun, free ways for you to maximize your sense of humor, and enjoy a life others will admire and envy.
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posted by DreamCatcher @ 9:16 AM |
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Thursday, June 14, 2007 |
How Do I Know if She Likes Me? |
By Sunny AroraWhat does she think of me? Does she like me? Does she feel the same way about me the way I do about her? It can be a real puzzle to figure out whether a girl likes you or not. What are the signs? She does give me occasional stares but how can I be sure that she likes me? Is she shy to tell me? Shall I ask her? What if she does not feel the same way? Oh boy rejection can be embarrassing. Well do not think too much just read on to find out how you can figure out whether she likes you or not.
The way she looks at you- Try to notice the way she looks at you and compare it to the way she looks at other people. If she gives you long stares and looks at you with complete attention than she might fancy you.
Body language- Also notice her body language. If she likes you her body language will change when you are around. She would sit in a proper posture. She would try to be her best self.
More constant smiles- She will smile a lot around you. Even if your jokes are not funny she would still smile more than expected to please you.
She would talk with a soft voice- If she really fancies you she would talk in a nice soft sexy tone or she might try to match the volume of her voice with yours. Also she would use selective words in her talks to impress you.
Highly attentive- She would pay more attention towards you than she pays towards other people. She would notice each minor detail about you. She would remember each and every thing you talked about.
Play with her hair- This is the strongest indication that she likes you. If she plays around with her hair when you are talking or rolls her fingers through her hair constantly she likes you for sure.
Get's nervous- Mostly when females like someone they tend to act goofy or in a peculiar manner around the one they fancy. Generally if she acts very uncomfortable or nervous around you she fancies you.
Ask her friends- The best way to find out whether she likes you or not is to talk to her friends and find out who she fancies. Whether she has a boy friend or not? What sort of person she is looking for? Friends are the best people to consult to find out whether she likes you or not.
Ask her- Well this is the toughest thing to do. But if nothing else works this is the best way to find out if she likes you or not. If she rejects you just change the topic and say you were kidding & just testing her.
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posted by DreamCatcher @ 1:38 PM |
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Dating Tips- How to Be More Romantic |
By Sunny Arora
How to get more out of a relationship? How to always keep her in your spell? How to be a man women always desire and dream of? How to be absolutely irresistible to them? And many more questions which men ask on a daily basis. Now how to do all that? Read on to find out how you can be more romantic.
Surprise her- Women absolutely love surprises. Do something new for her each day. Take her out for a surprise candle light some time, Buy her that necklace she always wanted, Take her on a surprise holiday. These small little things can make a huge difference in a relationship.
Roses- Roses are loved by almost any woman. Roses always add more spark to the relationship. Occasionally surprise your partner with roses leave a little hand written note on it about how much you love & cherish your relationship.
Express your love for her- Women are highly driven by emotions therefore you should keep reminding them of how much you love her, how she changed your life for good, you cannot live without her, she means everything to you, you cannot imagine your life without her and so on make her feel wanted and needed, make her feel special.
Go out on romantic drives- This is one of the most romantic ways to spend time with your partner. Go out on long romantic drives turn off your cell phone or any other thing which might divert your attention. Just keep your full attention towards your partner and have a nice romantic time together.
Watch romantic movies together- Nothing can be more romantic than watching romantic classics with your partner. Collect some classic romantic movies and watch them alone with your partner.
Surprise her with dinner- Women love men how make an extra effort to make them feel special. Cook some dinner for her and surprise her on the dining table. Try and have a romantic quite little time over dinner with your better half.
Dance together- Put on a romantic piece of music and dance with your lover. Nothing can impress a female more than a guy who can dance.
Think of the past- Try and remind your spouse of the past and the romantic moments you had together and try and relive those moments. Go back in time be what you used to be like when you had just met. Think of all the moments you spent together, the good times, the romantic moments, and the funny moments. These small little things can always make a big difference to keep the relationship always spiced up. Nowadays in the fast paced world out there people do not get time to even talk to their better halves but you should work out a way to spend some quality time with your spouse.
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posted by DreamCatcher @ 1:35 PM |
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Ideas On What To Get For Your Anniversary |
By Victor Epand
My best suggestion for you since Feb. comes before Aug. is to do something nice for your wife. Take her to dinner and make sure that you have flowers on your anniversary and during that time..talk to her about your idea. Explain to her your plans for Aug. and how you want to renew your vows. This way you have informed her on your anniversary.
The only problem I could see is maybe she would want to do it on her anniversary and the only way to find out is by telling her your secret. You know her best so you should decide do you want to 1. tell her on your anniversary and that is her surprise or second. Just tell her like you have told me and see which she wants to do
Everyone is different, like for me, I would love for you to tell me on our anniversary and do then do the renewal on the cruise. Would give me something to look forward to. However, others that do not like large crowds would probably prefer you just had a small church vow renewal on your anniversary! But like is said it all depends on what the two of you choose to go with. Think about your wife's personality and then you decide which she would prefer! You have a splendid idea here and "yes" it is okay to do your vow renewal on the cruise instead of doing it on your anniversary.
A vow renewal is not about the date but about two people renewing their love and care for each other.. Besides, you will now have two dates to remember and celebrate, just more flowers for the Mrs! You should even think about sending her flowers just because it is Thursday or because you love her with all your heart.
Usually for any women a year anniversary gift means a lot to them. I mean its been a year since you two have been together. So if she's saying that maybe something she would like to take with her then maybe earrings is a good idea, maybe a necklace, or a ring. Either one I'm sure that she would like. That way she could wear her ring,necklace, or earings and be able to know that you gave it to her for her anniversary. Also the ring I'm not saying like an engagement ring or nothing just a ring something you think that she would like and want to have it with her all the time. Something like that. If you can't think of anything that you think she would like then go out and buy her her favorite flowers or something that you think she would like. Something like roses, lilies, or get her a pretty in pink flower arrangement.
It also really depends on what your boyfriend would like. You could make him a photo album which pretty much sums up the last two years with him. You can put pictures, stories of memorable times in your relationship, little pictures of things you both did or like. Like if you both like skiing then find a picture of skiers and cut it out and put it in the album/journal. You can make him candy which isn't as hard as you would think it is, or a special meal. You can get him something he really likes. It's really difficult to tell you cause it all depends on your boyfriend.
If your boyfriend is the kind of person that likes to keep things that he knows is from you or is special to him why not try and get him some flowers. I know that that might sound a little funny. But there are a lot of men out there that like to get flowers from there loved ones. It doesn't have to be something really big. He might end up turning red in the face. Just get him something small.
You could even go over to his house or he could come to your house for a dinner and you could give him the flowers there. That way he won't feel out of place in a restaurant. You can always add fake flowers to the album/journal that would remind him of the place you went together, what the first flower was that he got you, or something along that line.
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posted by DreamCatcher @ 1:31 PM |
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10 Cute Love Quotes that Make You Smile |
By Fion Lim
Is your heart bursting forth with love? Want to shout out to the whole world about how sweet your love is? Cute love quotes will help you to express loving thoughts about love, and as well as make you laugh with hilarity.
Whether you've just fallen head over heels in love, at the beginning stage of your relationship, or you just want to bask in the joy of your love, let these cute love quotes reflect your romantic and humorous side.
Let these humorous quotes about love give you something funny to smile about. Share these quotes with your family and friends so that they have something to smile about too.
There's many ways to bring joy and fun to your love relationship. Sending a bouquet of roses with a loving message when your lover is feeling down is romantic. Sending a love poem or writing one yourself is a hugely romantic gesture. Writing a wonderful love letter works also. Using a thesaurus and picking out descriptive words to describe the best sides of your sweetheart work amazingly well too.
Another method is to use cute love quotes in your Valentine's Day cards, emails and messages to bring a certain playful tone into your relationship. Make your girlfriend or boyfriend feel loved and cherished.
Add a dash of romance with these quotes and simply let the warmth of cute love quotes envelope you. List of 10 Best Cute Love Quotes1) "Other men have seen angels, But I have seen thee, And thou art enough." - G. Moore
2)"I'm not rushing into being in love. I'm finding fourth grade hard enough." - Regina 'Age 10' 3) "I was nauseous and tingly all over. I was either in love or I had smallpox." - Woody Allen
4) "A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous." - Ingrid Bergman 5) "I married the first man I ever kissed. When I tell this to my children, they just about throw up." - Barbara Bush
6) "Gravitation can not be held responsible for people falling in love." - Albert Einstein 7) "We don't believe in rheumatism and true love until after the first attack." - Marie E. Eschenbach
8) "Women are made to be loved, not understood." - Oscar Wilde 9) "At the touch of love everyone becomes a poet." - Plato
10) "Love is like an hour glass, with the heart filling up as the brain empties." - Jules Renord Fion Lim is the creator of http://www.great-inspirational-quotes.com. She loves inspirational quotes, short stories and poems and enjoy sharing her collection with women to keep them inspired.
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I carry your heart with me |
by E. E. Cummings
i carry your heart with me
(i carry it in my heart)
i am never without it
(anywhere i go you go, my dear; and whatever is done
by only me is your doing, my darling)
i fear
no fate (for you are my fate, my sweet)
i want no world
(for beautiful you are my world, my true)
and it's you are whatever a moon has always meant
and whatever a sun will always sing is you
here is the deepest secret nobody knows
(here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud
and the sky of the sky of a tree called life; which grows
higher than soul can hope or mind can hide)
and this is the wonder that's keeping the stars apart
i carry your heart (i carry it in my heart)
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