I always tell Reid that he is very important because he was the first one to make me a mother...something no one will ever be able to do. I love seeing the smile that that simple statement brings to his face. In all of the craziness that life brings, I sometimes have to take the time to really ponder that thought, and it is then that I always beam because I am so proud that he made me a mother and that I have him as a son. He carries a lot of weight, being a big brother of triplets, and I will always admire him as he does his job of being a big brother and son so well. We honestly couldn't have asked for better.
Reid has really grown and matured in the past several months. Not only has he shot up in height (which he takes great delight in--he wants to be as tall as Uncle David), but he has grown in maturity and spiritually. We have had some deep discussions lately that I have to stop and pray that I am answering in the way that is pleasing to God. It is so hard to try and shelter your child from things that you know will scare him, but that you know he needs to know so that he can make decisions about his own eternal life. It is exciting to see him grow, but there are times that I wish he would just stay little asking me simple questions that I know the answers to.
He is very eager to start Kindergarten next month. Two of his best friends will be in his class, which I think is helping in his excitement--(the fact that Mommy will be teaching 6th grade there and his brothers will be in the two's class probably helps too).
Reid also lost his first tooth a few months ago and is now on the verge of losing his second. He completed his second year of swim lessons a few weeks ago, and while it was a horrible experience for the whole week for everyone in our house, he can now swim across the pool with his head under the water and is no longer afraid. Being afraid of everything must be something that comes when one turns five, because he has become afraid of so many things that he used to do without batting an eye. It's almost like once you are five, you realize you are not invincible. And while I am glad that he isn't a complete dare devil, I do hope that he learns that sometimes it is okay to take the jump.
Reid still enjoys playing outside. He loves all sports and all things boy. He also has a very creative side. Reid is a superb artist and he takes great pride in his work (a little on the perfectionist side). His handwriting has also become very neat. He is so eager to learn more (like spelling and reading) that I know he will be a joy for anyone to teach.
I am so blessed that the trio has such an awesome big brother to look up to. He loves to do his chores and help me around the house, and he really loves his brothers (even though I know they drive him crazy at times). Reid is one of the sweetest, most caring boys that I know and I am lucky to have him as my big boy. He can still melt me with his boyish winks that he throws my way and his bear hugs that he always greets me with--both things that I tell him he will never grow too old to do.


