Monday, June 26, 2006
I was reading this novel on lost love, which I always find it very saddening, when a couple has to be seperated even though they loved each other very much. Then I started to think abt myself and frens ard me. All couples tend to have arguments here and then, and we started to think abt how bad he/she is, how miserable we are, why does he/she has to do this, why he/she has to say that.. and I think, actually, we shld be glad tat we can be tog with our loved ones, and the fact that we dun have to live in the fiction world where thousands of obstactles can come in our way to stop us from being tog. So the more I think abt it, the more I feel like showing my appreciation for my loved ones, juz for being there.
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Sunday, June 25, 2006
I guess being able to admit our mistakes is a rather difficult thing to do. That is why there are some mistakes we juz cannot afford to make. Actually, it is understandable as to why it is always so hard to admit our mistakes, cos I, too, find it hard to admit I'm in the wrong sometimes. However, there are some mistakes that u make which is impossible to blame it on others. Because you have a choice. You have a choice to decide whether you wan to do it or not. So, there are some consequences that u have to face when you make that decision. Even if you do not wan to admit ur wrongdoings, you shldnt blame it on others for the consequences because you are OBVIOUSLY in the wrong! Remembering that every decision tat we made will have a consequence, do not be surprise tat by blaming it on others, there will also be a consequence too. Keeping quiet doesnt mean admitting to any wrong, neither it is a show of guilty conscious.
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Friday, June 23, 2006
Harmonie was telling me to update my blog yesterday, so here I am. A number of things happened recently, so it's going to be a rather wordy entry.Firstly, I went for a grad trip to HK. It wasnt where we wanted to go in the 1st place, but due to time and money constraint, it was the best choice. Nevertheless, it was a fun trip. Saw lots of things and bought many too. J has a fren in HK, who kindly brought us ard and recommend so much gd food. The second thing is, I am officially a graduate. Cant believe the fact tat I've actually survived 4yrs in Uni and yet it seemed so fast. Heard tat some of my sch mates have alr found a job, mostly in semicon industry, but I'm still slacking at home and living off my parents. Well, rather embarrassing.. but I rather enjoy my holi so.. heez..Thirdly, I went to the Mango sales yesterday with SY. It was the 1st day of sale, so there's still many good bargains for us to dig out.. =) SY was so gd at digging bargains! But then, she can wear all different types of clothes and still look good in every one of them. I'm so envious of her! So, obviously, she end up buying like 8 tops and 2 bags and was the one who spent the most at the cashiers. As for me, I'm not so good at digging bargains, and with the crowd I juz feel like fainting. But I still bought 2 tops in the end. One was like oh so sexy I dunno if I dare to walk out of the house in it. haha!
Recently was abit upset. I noe he has lots of things to do and under lots of stress..blah blah blah.. and I noe that he's alr trying his best to be as good as possible.. I'm alr giving him as much time as possible to do his stuffs, but I'm juz hoping tat we can make full use of our wkends and spend some quality time tog. So it's juz impossible not to be upset when he act feel pressurize from my side. I really dunno how to say.. It's not as if he dunno how to speak to a gal, but have to put it in such a way tat I feel hurt and leads to me feeling defensive and he feels hurt and end up quarrelling and stuffs.. Even in words, gals will also like to feel tat they are impt.. i dunno abt others, but tat's how i feel. Mayb I'm juz being emotionally fragile recently.. with the wkends coming.. I hope I can feel better then.
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