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My Love Languages

My primary love languages are probably Acts of Service and Quality Time.
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Complete set of results
Acts of Service: 10
Quality Time: 10
Words of Affirmation: 5
Physical Touch: 4
Receiving Gifts: 1

This is such an unexpected result. I thought the 'as usual' results would be words of affirmation. I was taken by surprise. I did the test twice to double confirm.. haha..
Not only words of affirmation is not ranked top, it fell to the 3rd position. But I am certain that it will not fall any further because physical touch and receiveing gifts have permanently secured their place.

Actually to think about it, it is not really that surprising to myself. To others who always knew me to be a words-person - maybe, but to myself - no. No doubt that I am a very words-person, I still am. Who dislike hearing affirmation and encouragement anyway? However, now... words alone don't matter anymore.

I think what makes affirmation, correction and encouragement (ace) have meaning is the person who say it. I remember myself loving all the aec - but now, if you don't matter, your words don't matter.

Sometimes, people say the nice things to get their way.
Sometimes, people say the nice things to get out of trouble.
Sometimes, people say the nice things to get a favour.
Sometimes, people day the nice things and they don't mean it.

However, I'm not negative about people who ace me. But their actions will reveal whether this is what they meant. If I feel that they don't match up, then sorry, I can't help but think you are just saying nice things because you have to. Of course, no matter how I feel about the other person, I still take their correction as improvement points - but their ae, oh ok... like that lo.
Also, I also dislike people who always have only nice things to say. Ok, what's wrong with me right? It's not that I need everyone to say something negative but.. aiya.. you understand, you understand la huh. If you don't then, you simply don't -_-"

On the other hand, I've learnt not to take words at face value - meaning, if someone say something negative - I won't take it at face value - because their actions will still reveal their trueself. So don't worry if you piss me off with what you say, as long as what you do don't match up to it can le :)

So yup, words still matter to me a lot. It reveals the person's heart. I'm just more skeptical about the nice things that some people has to say. However, according to the test actions means much more to me now.