it's not always rainbows and butterflies,
it's compromise that moves us along
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30 July 2021 | 3:37 PM
How are you? Will i see you at Lexus hill?
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| 3:34 PM
Wow. it's year 2021.
looking back, this space has been with me for many years, honestly i couldnt put a number to it except that it sees me through my teenage years till now. with 2020 gone and we are mid way into 2021. as i try to recollect what has happened in these two years, all i could remember is how we transit from the usual icebreaker of 'how's things like for you working from home' till 'how does it feel like to be back in office'. Who would have thought that working from home is the new norm. and who would have thought that leisure traveling is something that is not possible at this juncture. it is probably at this period of time which made me realize how much joy i derived from traveling - it opens up another pair of eyes, to be soaked in the culture, to enjoy a different set of scenery and thoughts. oh well. cest la vie i suppose? now, what has changed throughout the years? i have changed job, at times im still very lost, not too sure if i had made the right choice to move. but amidst all the what-ifs and what could have been-s, i tell myself what done has been done, no other way but to look ahead. being a believer of the universe, things will prolly work out the way it should be. career aside. family - Mum is getting old and im trying my best to spend as much time as i could with her. though we are living apart, i will always make it a point to speak to her. Maybe because im the more affectionate one in the family, therefore i tend to 'sticky-er' towards her. but in any case, im a true blue mummy girl, as in the kind who will miss my mum if i dont hear from her for a while. Other than mum, im also glad that over the years bro and sis are finally talking. well, to cut the story short, some things happened and it also kind of brought the whole family closer together. therefore, its indeed true that every cloud has a silver lining - have to tune our mindset to see the silver lining. relationship wise. i think we are comfortable with each other - feels more like a family now. talking about what to eat, what to wash, retirement, this and that. not too sure if this is for the good or bad, but i will just leave this to fate or maybe the universe.
well, maybe thats all i have to update. i hope all is well for everyone. as i look around me, see that most have already moved on to another phase of their life. some chasing after a promising career, some decides to take a back seat and focus on family. there is no right and no wrong in all, ultimately i believe that in whichever direction we are gonna take, do good and be good - this sounds simple but takes alot to achieve. Doing good does not mean donations or helping people in need (it spuns beyond that). To me, it also means being nice to people around you (strangers as well). Smile and be nice in terms of speech, gesture or language. does not take much to do that but for all you know, this little gesture of yours is able to inject some positivity into one's life. yes, cliché it may sound. but............yes, the universe is an interesting/amazing place.
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22 May 2021 | 12:43 AM
wonder who sees this now. but i think tonight it just got me thinking... 其实懂你的人很少 也许你的另一半也没有那么的懂你 可是难道真真懂你的人 一定就要做你的情人吗?
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26 December 2017 | 10:19 PM
And so...this time next year, if I ever chance upon this post, I hope I can laugh at all that has happened and maybe even roll my eyes and tell myself... that’s so silly.
Xxx
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| 10:17 PM
This space seems to be like a empty house with spider webs. There goes 2017... Well almost. Two more weeks and we will wave 2017 goodbye.
So 2018 will be the year where I will be officially 30plus.. But the irony is, I can't wait for the year to start. As I look back, 2017 has been a real crazy year. Especially the last few months of the year. Most probably a phase I would not want to look back on. And definitely not a phase I would want to go back to.
Well. Having said that, if you were to ask me, I think I have grown. Maybe physically.. Haha! But most importantly, emotionally and spiritually. Cliche as it sounds, I would want to be a better person come the new year.
Oh wells...
Xxx
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20 August 2017 | 12:48 AM
Hi,
It has been a while.
Days like this, i wished i could turn back time to a month ago.
It's hard to move on with a bad decision you have made.
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Wake me up when Sept ends
20 August 2016 | 12:11 AM
oHelloI Aug. Here you are... Been a very busy year thus far. May the force be with me
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03 July 2016 | 4:55 PM
Hello July! *waves*
today im not going to bore you with my never ending gumble about work and relationship woes.
something excited to share with you.
do you know that it's so easy to buy things from taobao these days?
previous i was introduced to this website called 65daigou, but it has since changed its name to ezbuy.
well, as the name suggest, it is really ezbuy! i can practically get almost everything i want from taobao. the best part is.... collection point is just opposite my block! so most of the time, mummy tan is the one who heads down to collect from the delivery man. hooooooray!
and i, bought this damn chio luggage from taobao! it's fluorescent pink! (you know i love ah lian colours). heheheh! oh well, i hope it last me through the trip. my sis has been telling me that cheap buys like this might just give way as you are dragging it along the walkway. imagine, a 29inch luggage for less than SGD 30!
heh heh heh!
we shall see.
and in case you are wondering where am i heading this time round.
urm... i think the answer is pretty obvious. im going back to BKK!
it has been a long 9 months!
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20 April 2016 | 4:10 PM
why is it that im so tired everyday?!?!?!?!
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30 July 2021 | 3:37 PM
How are you? Will i see you at Lexus hill?
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| 3:34 PM
Wow. it's year 2021.
looking back, this space has been with me for many years, honestly i couldnt put a number to it except that it sees me through my teenage years till now. with 2020 gone and we are mid way into 2021. as i try to recollect what has happened in these two years, all i could remember is how we transit from the usual icebreaker of 'how's things like for you working from home' till 'how does it feel like to be back in office'. Who would have thought that working from home is the new norm. and who would have thought that leisure traveling is something that is not possible at this juncture. it is probably at this period of time which made me realize how much joy i derived from traveling - it opens up another pair of eyes, to be soaked in the culture, to enjoy a different set of scenery and thoughts. oh well. cest la vie i suppose? now, what has changed throughout the years? i have changed job, at times im still very lost, not too sure if i had made the right choice to move. but amidst all the what-ifs and what could have been-s, i tell myself what done has been done, no other way but to look ahead. being a believer of the universe, things will prolly work out the way it should be. career aside. family - Mum is getting old and im trying my best to spend as much time as i could with her. though we are living apart, i will always make it a point to speak to her. Maybe because im the more affectionate one in the family, therefore i tend to 'sticky-er' towards her. but in any case, im a true blue mummy girl, as in the kind who will miss my mum if i dont hear from her for a while. Other than mum, im also glad that over the years bro and sis are finally talking. well, to cut the story short, some things happened and it also kind of brought the whole family closer together. therefore, its indeed true that every cloud has a silver lining - have to tune our mindset to see the silver lining. relationship wise. i think we are comfortable with each other - feels more like a family now. talking about what to eat, what to wash, retirement, this and that. not too sure if this is for the good or bad, but i will just leave this to fate or maybe the universe.
well, maybe thats all i have to update. i hope all is well for everyone. as i look around me, see that most have already moved on to another phase of their life. some chasing after a promising career, some decides to take a back seat and focus on family. there is no right and no wrong in all, ultimately i believe that in whichever direction we are gonna take, do good and be good - this sounds simple but takes alot to achieve. Doing good does not mean donations or helping people in need (it spuns beyond that). To me, it also means being nice to people around you (strangers as well). Smile and be nice in terms of speech, gesture or language. does not take much to do that but for all you know, this little gesture of yours is able to inject some positivity into one's life. yes, cliché it may sound. but............yes, the universe is an interesting/amazing place.
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22 May 2021 | 12:43 AM
wonder who sees this now. but i think tonight it just got me thinking... 其实懂你的人很少 也许你的另一半也没有那么的懂你 可是难道真真懂你的人 一定就要做你的情人吗?
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26 December 2017 | 10:19 PM
And so...this time next year, if I ever chance upon this post, I hope I can laugh at all that has happened and maybe even roll my eyes and tell myself... that’s so silly.
Xxx
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| 10:17 PM
This space seems to be like a empty house with spider webs. There goes 2017... Well almost. Two more weeks and we will wave 2017 goodbye.
So 2018 will be the year where I will be officially 30plus.. But the irony is, I can't wait for the year to start. As I look back, 2017 has been a real crazy year. Especially the last few months of the year. Most probably a phase I would not want to look back on. And definitely not a phase I would want to go back to.
Well. Having said that, if you were to ask me, I think I have grown. Maybe physically.. Haha! But most importantly, emotionally and spiritually. Cliche as it sounds, I would want to be a better person come the new year.
Oh wells...
Xxx
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20 August 2017 | 12:48 AM
Hi,
It has been a while.
Days like this, i wished i could turn back time to a month ago.
It's hard to move on with a bad decision you have made.
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Wake me up when Sept ends
20 August 2016 | 12:11 AM
oHelloI Aug. Here you are... Been a very busy year thus far. May the force be with me
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03 July 2016 | 4:55 PM
Hello July! *waves*
today im not going to bore you with my never ending gumble about work and relationship woes.
something excited to share with you.
do you know that it's so easy to buy things from taobao these days?
previous i was introduced to this website called 65daigou, but it has since changed its name to ezbuy.
well, as the name suggest, it is really ezbuy! i can practically get almost everything i want from taobao. the best part is.... collection point is just opposite my block! so most of the time, mummy tan is the one who heads down to collect from the delivery man. hooooooray!
and i, bought this damn chio luggage from taobao! it's fluorescent pink! (you know i love ah lian colours). heheheh! oh well, i hope it last me through the trip. my sis has been telling me that cheap buys like this might just give way as you are dragging it along the walkway. imagine, a 29inch luggage for less than SGD 30!
heh heh heh!
we shall see.
and in case you are wondering where am i heading this time round.
urm... i think the answer is pretty obvious. im going back to BKK!
it has been a long 9 months!
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20 April 2016 | 4:10 PM
why is it that im so tired everyday?!?!?!?!
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