When Gemma and Shiner arrived here for halter training, they were both pretty much untouched. Of course with weaning and travelling an hour to get here, they were rather looky and flighty. I gave them a day to settle a bit and get used to their new pen- basically my foaling pen, with access to the little barn.
I was curious to see if they would go in the barn on their own, but within minutes, they were both hanging around in there. That, of course, made things easy for me as that is where I was planning on working with them.
Another thing I did was to park my horse trailer where they could go in and out of it on their own- which they did right away, and were often to be found in there, just chillin'.
The first session, and for a couple days following, I worked them together. First using my flag to touch their backs as they scooted past me. Then when they stopped and faced, just resting the flag on the ground. After a bit, I was able to touch them with the flag while they stood still.
The next day we moved on to introducing a rope. As they scooted past, I would toss the rope on their backs (when my aim was accurate!) and let the rope lay on them as they went around. Surprisingly they weren't too worried about that.
I found that Shiner was way more flighty than Gemma, and since my focus was on her due to her impending trip to the Yukon with her new owner, I separated them when it was time to work them, which I was doing twice a day. Shiner soon figured out that he didn't need to go in the barn when Gemma did, and was easy to cut back while she went in.
The first few sessions with Gemma were interesting. Well, all of them were! I learned a bunch with her. First, she absolutely would not let me on her left side. I roped her around her neck, let her go around then took the slack out of the rope. She would turn her butt to me and try to pull away, so I would have to quickly step to the side and get her to face. When I walked up to her to touch her, she would turn so that I could only approach on her right side. I pondered that for a bit, and decided not to make an issue of it at first. So the next couple days were all about getting her to accept touch and rubs on her right side. Another interesting thing about her was that when she was thinking things over she would drop her head right down to her feet. Then I could rub all her neck and between her ears. Still from the right side. I managed to get a halter on her then, but it was rather awkward trying to tie it as it ties on the left side. So next day, I turned the halter inside out and put it on and tied it from the right. Well, I decided that was an inconvenience to me, so the next session I was going to inconvenience her and get her to accept me on her left. Enough already!
Anyway, once the halter was on, I slid the neck rope off and had her learn to give to pressure with just the halter. Basically, let her go round and round, then take the slack out and hold until she stopped and faced, then slack the lead rope. Within a couple sessions she was learning to lead. I really took my time with her and when we made even a small advancement I would turn her loose and let her consider it until the next session. That incremental building worked well for her, she's a horse that needs time to think things through.
So- the left side. Starting with the rope work, I would rub her from the right and then step around in front of her so I would be on her left- she would immediately swing her head to the left and her hip to the right to try to keep me in her right eye. I did a lot of head rubbing and neck rubbing until she relaxed and dropped her head down to the ground again. Funny thing is, I had to take the lead rope off the halter, rub the halter on her neck and between her ears, let the nose piece drop down onto her nostrils, then take it off and get her to raise her head a bit and halter her properly. Then just stand there and rub and pet her all over on her left side, then turned her loose. A couple days of that, and getting her to lead a couple steps each time and the light was starting to come on in her baby brain. She finally figured it out that both sides were safe for me to be there. I never did get to the point of being able to just walk up to her and catch her, still had to either use my neck rope or throw the halter lead rope over her back first. I think with a bit more time I would have had that done too.
By the time she was ready to leave, Gemma was catchable, led well, loaded in and out of the trailer both at liberty and by being led in and out and had become a real nosy parker- she had to come and investigate whatever I was doing, would eat hay out of my hand, would pull on my jacket and be very helpful with tools when I was working on the fence. In short, well on the way to being a pocket pony!
I actually really enjoyed working with her - she gave me challenges and made me think outside the box, and it was a delight to see her go from a fearful flighty filly to a friendly and curious little miss who is someday going to go on and do great things for her owner. Who, by the way, was really pleased with her when she picked her up.